- How can you really make a man commit?
Can you even do that?
Is that something that you should be doing?
Let's talk about that today.
Hi ladies, my name is Ieva Bereisaite
and I am one of Greta's High Value Women coaches.
In this video, I'm gonna be sharing three things men need
in order to commit to you.
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The first thing that you have to know is,
you cannot make a man commit.
You cannot make a man commit to you by forcing
or trying to force him to do so.
It actually repels the man away from you
more than anything else.
If you keep telling him or asking him,
when are we gonna get married?
I'm waiting so long already for you to ask me to marry you,
when are you finally gonna propose to me?
Or when am I finally gonna be someone's wife?
I've been waiting around for so long.
All of these things
that I have just said sound very desperate, very low value,
and not attractive,
so make sure you don't say
any of those in your relationship.
It shows that you desperately want to be committed
in that way to him, whether that might be marriage,
or being in a relationship with him,
and you don't want to give all of that power to him
for him to make the decision of well,
hmm, do I really wanna be with her?
You don't wanna give all of that decision making
into his hands.
He should be the one asking you
if you want to commit to him.
He should be the one asking you
if you want to marry him, and never the other way around.
He should be the one pursuing you
and asking you these questions, not you, him.
The only way that can be achieved
is by acting high value with the right man.
You simply cannot speed up the commitment part.
But when you do act high value,
he will fall in love with you
and he will not want to risk losing you.
He will want to commit to you naturally
because he would want to make you happy.
Number two is the fear of losing you.
A high value woman is rare,
that is why a high value man can fear losing you.
And would potentially commit into marriage
or a relationship to be with you.
When a man really loves a woman
he will want her to be happy.
When the woman is happy,
the man will feel like he is happy too.
If you have been in a relationship for a while
and it is going well, and you wanna go towards marriage
but you feel like it's not really going in that direction,
you can simply imply that a relationship gets boring
if it doesn't move forward.
Don't say this directly to your guy,
but you can casually mention it if you're watching,
let's say, a love movie or a romantic movie.
Or maybe your friends just got engaged
and you are on like a double date with them.
You could just casually mention it
if the conversation of relationships
and marriage does come up.
The worst thing for a high value man
is when the woman actually feels bored
when she is in a relationship with him.
If he actually does ask you what you think of marriage
or what you think about the both of you getting married,
you can say something simple like,
I think that would be wise
or I think that would be a wise decision.
That simply implies that he is smart, or he is wise,
and he makes good decisions.
And at the end of the day, it should also be the truth.
Number three is you don't want to change him.
Men absolutely love when they are accepted as they are.
And honestly, what person doesn't?
But quite frankly, many women do try to change men nowadays.
Remember that changing a man is definitely not your job.
The only thing that you can do is bring out
the best side of him by simply setting a standard
of how you want to be treated and acting high value.
It is never about complaining
that he doesn't do this or that.
It's about telling him what you do appreciate,
and what you do enjoy, and letting him do that.
Be high value and set a standard,
like I mentioned, that way you will literally
bring out the best in yourself
and you will bring out the best in him as well.
So this is a win-win situation for both of you.
If you actually start trying to change your guy
by telling him that he should be wearing certain clothes,
making him do things that he literally does not want to do,
or forcing him to do something,
he will feel like his freedom is being taken away from him.
The relationship can and will be rocky
when you try to do these things.
A man's freedom is extremely important to him.
And when you, in some way, shape,
or form take it away from him, he will become unhappy.
When you give a man his freedom of choice
and freedom to do what he wants to do
and trust him in the process, he will cherish you
and love you because you accept him
for the good man that he is.
After all, if you are with someone and you see
that he is just not the right guy for you,
then you simply move on.
You don't try to change a person to fit you,
because that's not really fair now, is it?
Instead, you bring out the best in him by being high value,
and you see if that fits.
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