﻿Hi Guys, in this video, we are going to look at why introverts find it hard to date
and give very easy and practical tips on how to overcome some of the challenges
that introverts encounter in their dating life.
Dating can sometimes be very draining and exhausting. You might have tried going on
dates but haven't found “the one” yet. Others might have been damaged from a toxic relationship.
You may probably be thinking of giving up on dating altogether. Getting to such a stage in
life happens with a lot of introverts. This video covers 5 main reasons why dating is hard for
introverts and how to overcome such situations. Number one on the list will shock you.
At NUMBER FIVE; INTROVERTS HAVE LOW ENERGY LEVELS
Dating can be very draining for introverts. The small talk and socializing are just a lot of work.
Unlike extroverts who find it easy to socialize and talk to almost everyone they meet,
introverts only have a few very close friends that they talk to.
As an introvert, you always need alone time but also feel the need for love and companionship.
Getting the energy to feel safe and open up to other people takes time.
If you get yourself in such a situation, here are some of the tips you can use;
first, try to keep your dates brief but interesting. For a first date,
go on dates that you can easily but politely walk away from if you feel uncomfortable.
Secondly, be yourself. You do not have to try to act, speak or walk perfectly. Trying
to please other people increases anxiety and stops you from having a nice time. Be
present and enjoy the moment without having to think about what you are going to say next.
NUMBER FOUR INTROVERTS HAVE HIGH ANXIETY LEVELS.
Many introverts often feel very uncomfortable and disconnected from having conversations. You always
find going on that first date a huge nightmare. Do not be hard on yourself. This is very normal.
Research shows that introverts tend to have a unique response system. They need to have
more time to fully respond to what others say. To overcome the anxiety that comes with going on
dates, you can let your date know that you are an introvert and that you might find it hard to be
comfortable talking to him. It works like magic. If you want to start seeing quick changes in your
dating life, pay keen attention to number 2 on this list.
NUMBER THREE: INTROVERTS ARE OFTEN JUDGMENTAL
Introverts take a lot of time judging themselves and as an introverted woman,
this will probably extend to your relationships and dating life.
Introverts tend to look at every minute detail of a date and anytime you feel something is off,
you instantly feel like the date is not going to work.
You can overcome this by simply letting go of the judgments. You should not feel unworthy of love.
Do you always catch yourself in such a situation? Let us know in the comments.
NUMBER TWO: HUGE EXPECTATIONS.
Most introverted people have huge expectations about the people they want to date.
This leads to a lot of anxiety that is very detrimental to your dating life.
Having high expectations will cause you a lot of unnecessary worry and self-consciousness.
Men constantly feel bothered by women with such expectations. To them, it appears as a burden
and a lot of pressure that they cannot sustain. If you are wondering why men are always pulling
away from you, this might be the reason. If you want to avoid having unnecessary
high expectations this is what you should do: Instead of always fantasizing about Mr. Perfect,
focus your mind on other meaningful things. Start to think about your projects, constantly fill your
mind with positive thoughts, and always consider dating as just a tiny part of life experiences.
NUMBER ONE: OVERTHINKING.
Many introverted people find it difficult to date because they are constantly overthinking
almost everything. Introverts tend to be highly reflective about life and always cautious about
everything and anything that comes their way. While this might be a good attribute to have,
it is certainly the reason why introverts find it hard to date. You are constantly over-analyzing
a man's every action or every word that comes from his mouth. You are always concerned about what
you said or didn't say. This can be tormenting. Always know that you do not need to change your
personality to have a beautiful love story. Your current or previous dating life does not
define your future. You can instantly have men connect with you if you practice the tips we have
discussed in the video. For more videos like this check our playlist “how to date” on screen now.