Matt: We've all seen that absolute stunner walk by you know what I'm talking about
the one that makes your head turn and your mouth drop in your eyes practically
bulge out of your skull and it might seem like a fantasy it might seem like
she's light-years out of your league but what if I told you that a normal guy
like you could date women like that well my name is Matt artisan from the
attractive man and this is how to meet attract and date some of the hottest
women around here depart
to be assertive we've done all the testing you know what
works now here's the deal women rarely if ever date down they tend
to only date men that they seem as equal or higher status than themselves
which simply means you have to act in a high status manner to date women of that
caliber now I know that term gets thrown around quite a bit
but it basically just means that you rank highly on a social hierarchy so
high status doesn't necessarily mean that you have millions of dollars or
we're really expensive clothes or that you're a celebrity now of course those
things help but I've known really rich men that didn't have any social circle
so they had no hierarchy to rank on they're so busy working all the time
I've known other millionaires who had no social intuition and people would make
fun of them despite the fact that they had a lot of money it simply means you
embody the mannerisms in the body language and just the overall traits and
mindset of someone who is successful it's the way you act and behave around
others and not seeing her or putting her above you which I'm gonna show you how
to do in just a second but first step number one you need to go where the
beautiful women are which might mean you need to go to the hottest nightclubs in
your city instead of dive bars but of course there might be a lot of
competition and the most beautiful women there are often in the VIP area which as
a normal guy there you may not even be able to access which means you may have
to infiltrate her social circle which I'm not gonna show you how to do in this
video but you can also meet women like that at events such as modeling events
so I recommend befriend a lot of photographers restaurant owners club
owners makeup artists hair stylist etc anybody who has friends or access to a
lot of models then when you befriend them they'll likely invite you to those
events or the clubs where all the beautiful women go
I also recommend trying high-quality Hotel lounges culture events art shows
gallery openings museum events charity events theater events wine bars and wine
tasting are great and restaurant or casino openings and a
lot of these are nighttime events but you can also meet the best-looking and
highest quality whatever that means to you women in your city during the
daytime because they're walking around and living their life maybe grocery
shopping or shopping for clothes so I recommend going to higher-end malls and
higher-end grocery stores like Whole Foods or any health food store instead
of going somewhere like Walmart to do your shopping the more you put yourself
in those types of environments and situations the more likely you are to
meet those types of women and of course you have to actually approach them and
talk to them but we have a lot of videos on exactly how to do that on this
channel check those out now that you're putting yourself in environments where
our beautiful women go and you're meeting them regularly step number two
is don't treat them any differently most guys care way too much when it's a
really attractive woman they treat this woman so special they
put her on a pedestal and they become really reactive to anything she does and
women can sense that and beautiful women they're so used to being treated
differently and being put on the pedestal that finally when a man treats
her like a normal human being she feels like that's really refreshing and she's
used to guys being really nervous around her or being really boastful and trying
to impress her all you got to do is not do that because women can sense when
you're being fake even if you don't mean to be sometimes it's just a natural
thing we see this gorgeous woman and we start acting extra nights or we take her
to extra special restaurants maybe we take our average dates to three-star
restaurants but then we have this gorgeous I don't use the term dime bag
but I'm going to and then when you take her to a five-star restaurant but she
can tell she can sense that you are treating her differently just treat her
like a normal person because she is a normal person just a little bit better
on the genetic side but she's equal to you remember she has fears and
insecurities just like everybody else and chances are with all without
all the makeup and the fake eyelashes and the fake extensions and the push-up
bra and the really sexy outfit and the fake spray tan etc etc she probably
doesn't even look as attractive as you think I hate to break it to you but
that's just reality but to condition yourself to not be nervous around women
like that I highly recommend our more high level coaching there'll be a link
down in the description to see if you qualify for our infield or high level
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step number three is pre selection she needs to perceive you as being the type
of man who date's women of her caliber or even higher caliber than her remember
what I said earlier about women typically don't date down well she needs
to see that you have women like her in your life if she sees that you have
women like her in your life then she automatically assumes that she is in
your league now a lot of dating coaches will tell you to tell her stories about
how you dated strippers and supermodels and all these things that probably hurt
even true and that that's gonna show pre selection and make her see you as you
know equal status and caliber don't do that you don't need to do that all you
need to do is go to these events like I told you and befriend some women there
just be friend um just make friends they will oftentimes feel it's very
refreshing to have a guy who sincerely just wants to be friends with them and
then you can invite those girls out to other events or they'll invite you out
to other vents and you'll meet more women but you'll be surrounded by
beautiful women and on the flip side you might think that's crazy why would I go
out and meet all these gorgeous women and just be friends with them well when
you put a woman in the friend zone oftentimes as long as you're fun flirty
a cool guy who acts high-status and genuinely is a cool confident guy
she will actually want to get out of the friendzone with you not every time but
more often than not that's the case so you can do that and have actual
beautiful one around you all the time when you go out
to bars and clubs which is much better than going out with a group of guys go
out with a group of beautiful women now I know a lot of you are gonna think well
that sounds like a lot of work but here's the deal you don't actually have
to do all that as long as you're acting like a man that is comfortable in front
of this beautiful woman's presence she will assume that you must have women
like her in your life even if she's never seen you with any beautiful women
for example if you meet a beautiful woman during the daytime chances are
you're not gonna have five beautiful female friends with you but when you
walk up to her confidently and you're not fazed by her beauty and you're not
supplicating and trying to impress her instead you're subtly challenging her
and qualifying her she will assume you must have other women of her status in
your life because if you didn't if you've never dated a woman like her
you'd be ho my god I like you so much I'll take you anywhere please please
please just give me a chance maybe not that dramatic but it would be subtle
you'd have some of that needy energy but when you have none of that needy energy
and she can tell that yeah you're attracted to her but it's no big deal if
she walks away and isn't interested that you'll be totally unfazed by that when
she can sense that that becomes very attractive you'll be one of the only
guys that doesn't fawn all over her and that's gonna be very intriguing for her
she's gonna wonder why this doesn't mean that you're mean to her or put her down
or neg her in any way in fact instead of putting women down bringing them up to
your high status you're this badass guy and you know she's a badass girl too
hopefully but instead of putting her down you bring her up to your
awesomeness it's that easy and you can do that by qualifying her even
disqualifying her playfully teasing her showing interest and then a little bit
of disinterest and I know some people are gonna say oh that's just all playing
games no it's not it's not playing games it should be real you should be a fun
flirty guy who's not totally sold on a woman that you just met yet so of course
you're gonna playfully qualify her and some
time's your gonna show interest interest and sometimes you're gonna show some
disinterest because you just met her and she still needs to win you over as well
and when you come from that frame that's so different and refreshing for a woman
especially a woman like that who gets hit on all the time so then all you have
to do is treat her the same like any other girl and act like you have a bunch
of women in your life well first of all don't just act like it actually become a
man who has awesome people in his life including beautiful women real quick
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you all right let's get back to the video step number four is lifestyle
you're gonna have to have some sort of at least semi interesting lifestyle now
you don't have to be dan Bilzerian and have that billion-dollar playboy
lifestyle full of yachts and mansions in private jets although certain women
typically young women like that I mean I can't blame them of course but the
beauty is not all women like that not all women want to compete for the
attention of all these other beautiful women to get this playboy billionaire
they just want a normal life and even the women who are into that kind of
lifestyle eventually they'll probably want a more normal lifestyle they want
to focus on their career or focus on having children and just work a
nine-to-five job and go on vacations here and there but at the same time they
don't want a man who works all day long like 12-hour days and then comes home to
just play video games or just watch TV and eat potato chips I mean there's
nothing wrong with that but if that's all you do every single day she's gonna
get bored you can't blame her who wouldn't get bored most women want
something in between that crazy playboy billion-dollar lifestyle and a complete
loser who has never succeeded and anything is life they want something
more in the middle so stop making excuses that beautiful women only want
ultra rich successful celebrity type guys because it's just not true a lot of
them just want a normal lifestyle because that's what they were brought up
in so that's what they want but a lot of guys have a normal lifestyle a normal
job and a normal social circle how are you gonna stand out from all those guys
well it's really easy through emotional value most guys are boring and
predictable and unconfident and very insecure and when they talk to a
beautiful woman of that kind of status they quiver or they supplicate and they
shower her with gifts like I said and put her on his pedestal instead don't do
those things be a cool confident guy make her laugh have fun tease her all
the things I said before and be exciting random and unpredictable and you'll
stand out from all those other guys and it's not just about positive emotions
either it's always a dichotomy you want it to be emotional rollercoaster like I
said before be a challenge there's always that dichotomy of showing
interest or desire and then taking it away and being a challenge and making
her work for your attention because guess what she's doing the same thing
most likely to you and of course showing her masculine traits if she's one of the
most sought after women woman in your city
she's probably ultra feminine very sexy so you need to really embrace your
masculine because that's what's gonna attract the polarities I know society
nowadays is trying to become very androgynous and wants to make the
genders totally equal but I'm sorry to say that we'll never attract a
high-status feminine woman if she's a very masculine woman and you're a very
feminine guy sure that might work but that is usually not the case masculine
women in my opinion are not sexy at all so that means you're gonna have to be a
rock you're gonna have to be resilient you're gonna have to be strong I don't
necessarily mean muscles I don't have a lot of muscles I don't look that
masculine I don't even talk that masculine but I can be strong and have
strength of character and so can you it's just about stepping into tension
and being able to handle when it hits the fan so to speak and you can do
right away when when you meet her by walking up to her and even though she's
dressed really sexy and even though she's maybe the most gorgeous woman
you've ever talked to that you can stay calm and grounded that is gonna turn her
on because that is very rare she's probably never experienced that or
rarely experiences a man like that who is comfortable and calm around her and
who embraces his own masculine side and isn't afraid to show his desire for her
and appreciate the feminine that's what a beautiful feminine woman like that
wants she wants the masculine appreciation and you can be the one to
provide it now to give emotional value and become the best most masculine
version of yourself does take practice and getting out of your own way and
often improving your personality and strengthening your own masculine
identity which isn't always an easy task and will take more than just watching a
few YouTube videos but if you want my help or my team's help I have a link
down in the description for a free discovery breakthrough session where
we'll pinpoint your challenges assess your situation and figure out the best
game plan to reach your goals in dating and in success in life in general but
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course we can't take everyone so if you don't qualify I'm really sorry but at
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attract those beautiful women that are out of most men's league so click the
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