my name is Marni and from here on out I'm going to be your very own personal
winged girl and it's my job to give you the no BS truth about what women want
versus what they say they want and I put up new videos every week so keep an eye
out for my videos you don't want to miss them in this video I'm going to help you
navigate today's muddy dating waters successfully and tell you how to date
post me too and avoid getting me to yourself so keep watching and my job is
away girl I get to notice some interesting things and one of those is
that everything here something happens that makes men afraid to flirt and
approach women a few years back it was when pickup artists were popular targets
in the media and guys didn't want to get called out for being weird or creepy now
it's everything that's going on with me too when they me to movement I've had
lots and lots of emails and questions from guys who asked how this affects
them and if it's still okay for them to be approaching and flirting with women
so I want to answer this here for you today to set you straight while also
treating this issue with the respect and sensitivity that it 100% deserve first
and foremost let's define what started with me to movement in the first place
and what it's really about it began when women in Hollywood have the courage to
stand up and call out men who have been abusing their power and privilege for
years guys who worked as executives producers directors actors who use her
influence to coerce women into sexual acts the implication for women being
that if you didn't want to play their rules you risked your career being
killed off and it could be now as it turns out it wasn't just women who were
being abused there were plenty of men who also came forward to tell their own
tales of the predatory nature of the entertainment industry so it's important
that you understand the root cause of this movement the systematic sexual
abuse of power that has existed in Hollywood for many many years it's also
expanded since then to include sexual harassment in general and inappropriate
sexual behavior in all other industries no point was it about men flirting with
women or showing their sexual interest in a mature and respectful fashion nor
was it about getting up saying calling up guys who
happen to start a conversation with them and if they do they're not soz yet
that's what guys tell me they're afraid of they think if they approach a woman
and flirt with her or ask her out on a date but they'll get lumped in with all
the me to dirtbags yep when I talk to my girlfriend's about this they don't get
why guys are so nervous about this and that's because to us the distinction
between normal flirting and unwelcome sexual attention is like night and day
but I know some guys struggle to see the differences so I want to make sure
you're crystal clear on the kind of interactions we women love versus what
we think is creepy and unacceptable and the first thing you should know is that
we hate it when men try to bargain their way into our pants so this happens a lot
this includes anything that makes sex feel with a transactional agreement
since no woman I know wants to be made to feel like a prostitute sometimes but
not always so if you're doing or saying anything
that has the vibe that you're offering something in exchange for sex like gifts
or dinners or financial support or a lead role in a Hollywood film it'll
instantly get labeled as creepy and not acceptable if you have any kind of
position of power and you try to leverage that to hook up with a woman
that's not okay it's important to understand you have a position of
influence and to use that in empowering in positive fashion put yourself on the
other person's shoes and consider their position and feelings this will help you
realize if your words or actions are appropriate or they're not appropriate
or if you go from zero to sexual in no time flat without treating us with
respect engaging our level of interest that's another no-no I can tell you from
firsthand experience when a guy gets too sexual
too soon it is not a nice feeling when you're made to feel like an object or a
piece of meat it is not flattering at all trust me so what's the solution how
can you get anywhere with a woman if you can be bold and put your intentions out
there the answer lies in taking smaller steps and checking in to see how we're
reacting to your interest and attraction this is why effective flirting is so
crucial it bridges the gap from strangers to a more intimate
relationship a way of warming up to each other where you can then ask her out er
take it to him our sexual direction once you see if she's accepting your flirting
and also putting out the same energy without this it just feels strange and
mechanical devoid of any emotion or feeling case in point
my assistant Jen was recently responding to a customer's email she was being kind
and helpful and included customary smiley face at the end of her response
and we do that all the time at my company no big deal on her end
however the reply he sent back was they should take the exchange offline and get
to know each other better when she showed it to me we both had the same
reaction we literally had goose bumps on our bodies and felt nervous why because
there was nothing in their exchange that warranted that type of escalation he he
was jumping from zero to like 78 without anything in between and no signs from
Jen that she was okay with that that's why a key part of becoming successful
with women is learning how to communicate and empathize with other
people if you're just stuck in your own head and only focused on what you want
you'll miss tons of ways that women are trying to tell you what we want because
at the end of the day relationships whether for a night or long-term are a
two-way street both people want their needs to be met and to feel heard and
understood once you realize this an act from a place of positive intention for
both of you and for her then there's very little chance you ever need to
worry about being me tune and of course if you want to talk to and flirt with
women so there's no chance you could call that for creepy behavior it
obviously makes sense to learn this from a woman I've had countless interactions
with men that left me shuttering some from fear and some from delight I'll
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