what's going on guys my name is Dave and welcome to the Tiege Hanley channel today we're going to
be talking about five mistakes that men are making in their 20s now guys your 20s are basically
like the foundation for the rest of your life if you do them well you're going to
have a great foundation to build great things on and if you screw them up you're going to have
to make up for all that time in your 30s and 40s and that's not going to be so fun so today
let's figure out what these mistakes are how you can avoid them so you can have some awesome
years in your 20s and move forward make lots of progress and enjoy your life
let's get into it one of the biggest mistakes guys make in your 20s is drinking alcohol every single
day now i realize that a lot of the things you do especially in your early 20s are linked to alcohol
going out partying meeting people um you know going out to the club the bar all of these scenes
these environments are there's a lot of drinking that happens in them but just because you're in an
environment with a lot of drinking just because your friends may be doing a lot of drinking
doesn't mean that you need to do a lot of drinking or like a lot of guys do you need to base your
identity around how much you can drink while your body may be able to handle it to some point in
your early 20s in terms of like you're not getting really terrible hangovers like you'll get later on
it's still not good for you it's going to screw up your immune system it's going to make you
a bit more tired the next day and even worse is going to make you less socially savvy when you are
out let's say in like a bar or nightclub type of venue where you know you're not going to be
as sharp socially to talk to girls you may have a little bit more courage but that courage is
going to be offset by how sloppy you're gonna be because you're drunk so what should you do
instead well what i like to do is limit drinking to one to two three nights max per week and limit
those nights to one to three drinks usually one to two three if i'm getting a little crazy if you can
do that you're gonna spend less money you're going to be more socially savvy and you're you're gonna
make sure your immune system is in top shape and your skin isn't having a bunch of random breakouts
which can also happen if you're drinking all the time number two eating unhealthy foods especially
fast foods listen we know you probably have a faster metabolism than most guys in your
30s so you can eat a lot more calories but the thing you might not realize is if you're eating
super unhealthy you're eating all of this bs and you're stuffing that in your body you're building
really terrible habits and those habits are not going to be easy to break once you hit 30 and
beyond and once you do your body is really going to have some bad effects on those foods if they're
not already having it right now instead of eating a bunch of junk food focus is said on making sure
you're getting your macros your vitamins you know your proteins your fats your carbs your vitamins
your minerals all your all the nutrients you need to be a healthy person that's going to make sure
your skin is looking nice fresh and clean and it's also going to make sure you have enough energy to
crush it in your 20s so again you can build that great foundation for you know the rest of your
life number three is being messy and disorganized now i was a very messy and disorganized guy in my
early 20s i ended up having some great girlfriends who sort of you know showed me the way you know
made sure that i was putting the toilet seat down every time i left the bathroom made sure that
i cleaned up some of the messy habits that i had i was keeping my car clean keeping the house clean
and without those girls who knows where i would be you know i'd probably still be a mess
but uh you don't you don't want to have to have girls tell you to to be clean you want to be able
to do that for yourself this means washing the dishes consistently it means cleaning up your
mess cleaning up your food if you're going to eat cleaning up you know making sure you're making
your bed at the beginning of the day that's a great habit making sure you're cleaning off
your bathroom sink all that good stuff and that's especially important you know before you go on a
date you don't want to be bringing a girl back to a messy room a messy apartment that's not going to
do you well it's not going to do her well and she might not even want to see you again after that
number four is not taking care of your skin as we've already talked about guys will have a poor
diet or really poor lifestyle choices that really negatively impact their skin what's worse is a
lot of guys don't have a quality skincare routine that they've implemented consistently so they're
already behind why is healthy skin so important well it directly affects your appearance which is
going to affect your confidence which affects the way people see you and affects your interactions
with women and it's going to even affect your social network so a lot goes into the quality
of your skin problem is a lot of times guys will start caring about their skin in their 30s and
their 40s when the wrinkles have already started to form they already have all these acne scores
from their 20s and and from their teen years and again they're they're fighting from behind it's
a lot better to be proactive about this stuff to implement a quality skin care routine in your 20s
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five not approaching girls i see a lot of guys with the mindset of oh you know i'm just gonna
work on myself i'm gonna like build my business get my finances in order like get over the gym
get fit work on my style do all these different things assuming that the girl thing will just kind
of work itself out that high quality girls will notice what they're doing get attracted to them
and it'll all be you know golden what usually happens though is these guys work on these
other areas of themselves they sort of neglect the social and the dating life and then by the
time they hit 30 they have no idea what it really takes to go out date different women
and they end up meeting lower quality women or no women at all and it really really feels stuck
the best time to build up your social and dating life is in your 20s right again that is your
foundation and the more you build those skills then the easier it's going to be later in life
and you might even meet an awesome girl that you can start building with while you're in your 20s
that can help you to accelerate your journey i know for me my last relationship was with an
awesome girl that really helped me you know basically from like the time I was 26
until a few months ago really like build my life up really you know when i met her i was just like
broke want to be entrepreneur and then you know by the time we split up like I you know obviously
have a lot more going on for me in business I have a lot more going on for me in life and she gave me
the support she had my back she helped me to to build all of that and i'm super appreciative of
that and if i just said you know what i'm gonna work on this later i probably would not not be
anywhere close to where i'm at now not just in dating but also my career my finances everything
you can't ignore such a big part of your life and assume that it's going to be okay right so
the way to work on this is even just going about your day whether you're at the park the gym the
grocery store walking around be aware of beautiful girls that are around you and take advantage of
those opportunities even just go up have one conversation starter in your back pocket you
can ask where the nearest starbucks is and tell her you thought she was cute and then just kind of
take it from there see how you do you're going to be you know working through your anxiety which is
going to make you more confident which is going to make you a better dude now if you can avoid
these five mistakes you're going to be in great shape through your 20s and beyond now if you want
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