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are you wondering if you have a secret admirer are they driving you crazy
with all these possible signs that they like you but you just don't know for
sure in today's video we'll talk about the
telltale indicators of attraction to hopefully make things clearer for you
so here are 8 subtle signs that someone secretly has a crush on you
1. they act differently around you does this person act differently around you
compared to how they usually are with other people do you notice a change in
their personality whenever you're around perhaps they
become more cheerful and talkative or may be quieter and reserved if
someone starts acting differently around you
that could mean they have a crush on you they could be feeling flustered and are
uncertain about how to behave around you the next time you see this person pay
close attention to how they usually act and compare it to how they are when
they're with you 2. they try to get close to you do they
try to get close to you do they simply seem to just like being
around you even if they don't have anything to say
to you they just like being in close proximity
and want to watch you from the corner of their eye maybe they go out of their way
just to see you or pretend to run into you hoping to catch your attention and
strike up a conversation this can be especially true if the
person who has feelings for you is shy and soft-spoken three
they always initiate contact has this person
ever asked you for your number or followed you on social media
do they usually text you or call you up first even if they don't really have
anything important to say this can be a clear sign that they're
interested in you by reaching out first they are voicing a desire to communicate
and keep in touch with you they want to get closer to you and spend
more time with you because they like you and find you fun and interesting to talk
to 4. you catch them staring at you do they
struggle to hold your gaze and quickly look away or do they let
their gaze linger and stare at you when they think you
aren't looking both of these things are signs of attraction
they might have a crush on you but are too nervous or embarrassed to tell you
about their feelings 5. they smile at you a lot do you notice
them smiling at you a lot does it happen more for you over others
it could be a bashful little smile showing that they are nervous but happy
to see you or a wide ear-to-ear grin that conveys their excitement about
being around you pay attention to this smile
and see if they smile this way only when they see you
talk to you or talk about you because it definitely means
they feel attracted to you 6. they compliment you
a lot does it seem like this person is paying a lot of close attention to you
do they seem impressed by every little thing you do
if they are dazzled by you and showering you with compliments this can be an easy
indication that they are into you seven they keep the conversation going
here's one trick you can use to try to see if someone is secretly crushing on
you when you're talking to them disengage from the conversation you can
do this subtly by acting distracted and doing something else like writing
packing up your things or talking to someone else in the group
gouge how they respond and if they try to keep up the
conversation with you while most people might politely leave the conversation
someone who has a crush on you will likely keep trying to engage with
you they are eager for your attention and want to keep speaking with you 8.
they make themselves available for you do they say yes to everything you invite
them to or ask to hang out with you a lot do
they cancel or reschedule appointments just to be with you this can mean that
you're really important to this person and they want to prioritize their time
with you it's a strong indicator that they care for you
have you noticed any of these signs from your secret admirer
or are you the one showing all these signs unconsciously tell us in the
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