Whoever said that a picture is worth a thousand words must not have known the power of seductive
speech.
Why’s that?
Because out of all the tools us women possess to make men interested in us, our voice is
one of the most overlooked and unused for doing so.
Hey ladies, Amy North here.
For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, Canada
and author of The Devotion System — a program designed to help women find the love they
want and deserve.
Today I want to share with you some sneaky tips for making your voice seem attractive
to men.
All too often women think the most effective way to get a guy’s attention is by oozing
with sex appeal or using overly forward body language.
And while these do work for catching his eye, what really does wonders for attracting men
is your voice.
In fact, the way you carry it and control your speech are just as, if not more so, effective
and efficient than other bodily tricks.
So then, how can you use your voice to attract men?
That’s exactly what I’m about to teach you.
Before I do so though I’d like to quickly ask that if you enjoy this video or find it
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Now that that’s out of the way, let’s get started, and to do so, I want to explain
what I mean by “voice,” because as obvious as it may seem, there’s more to it than
you may realize.
Believe it or not, voice can be broken down into five key parts or factors, these are:
tone, structure, dictation, detail and imagery.
For the remainder of this video I’m going to talk about each one individually, and explain
how you can to use them to your advantage.
Let’s begin with tone.
Tone is the attitude and personality you give to your words.
The tone you use brings your words to life, and the good news is that you have complete
control over it.
Truth be told, the first thing a man notices about your voice is the tone, which is why
using the right one is so important if you’re looking to win him over.
Just like the wrong tone will send him running for the hills, the right one will have him
hanging off your every word.
So, when speaking to a man you’re interested in, be sure to use a light-hearted, upbeat
and positive tone.
When he gets the impression that you’re an enjoyable person to be around then he’s
going to want to see you more often.
Even if negative or unpleasant topics do come up in conversation — because believe me,
they very well could — try to keep a neutral tone and avoid being overly opinionated about
touchy topics.
This is especially important if you’re just getting to know him.
In the meantime keep in mind that playful tones will show him you’re into him, while
more saucy and seductive ones will let him know that you’re looking to turn up the
heat between the two of you.
Next is structure, and just as it’s name implies, it’s how you control, pace and
focus your speech.
In a conversation structure is what makes it possible to flow from one thought to the
next in a smooth, efficient and sensible way.
Those who have mastered this factor know how to steer a conservation in whichever way they
so choose, which is why it’s so important to perfect.
For instance, you can be in charge of a conversation without him even realizing it, which in the
long run can actually help you get what you want from the situation.
Yes, in some ways it’s arguably the art of manipulation, but for the sake of this
video, let’s stick to how structure can boost your odds with a man.
So, in order to keep his attention on you and attraction in full force it’s important
that you avoid using filler words that can make you seem less confident or unsure of
yourself.
Instead speak steady and smoothly, and be sure to enunciate each and every word.
For examples of sentences you can use to win over any man visit my site, www.coachnorth.com
and watch the free video presentation.
There you’ll learn all about my Devotion Sequences, which are sentences designed to
make men wild with desire for you.
Trust me, you don’t want to miss it!
Now let’s talk about dictation, which in its most basic form is word choice.
It’s what gives your sentences a distinctive “you” signature.
Your own flare if you will.
Yes it can be tough to change your dictation completely from speaking with one person to
the next, but even the slightest variations can have a powerful impact.
I mean, you wouldn’t talk to your dream man the same way you would your mother, would
you?
So, when talking to a potential love interest it’s important that you choose your words
wisely if you’re looking to attract him.
For instance, you can show off your intelligence or passion here in a way that will have him
anticipating what’s next, simply by using the right terms and phrases.
Also keep in mind that your word choice can make or break a meaningful conversation, so
as the old saying goes, “think before you speak!”
Next let’s talk briefly about details, which really, is where all the magic happens.
The beauty of details is that they can take many forms and create many feelings.
In fact, an unpleasant conversation can do a complete 180 by simply adding the right
details.
Unfortunately however, this works both ways, which means that a brilliant conversation
can crash and burn with the wrong details...
Now, details aren’t just words.
Of course, they can be, such as adjectives to bring a story to life or emphasize a feeling,
but in this case, details can also mean accenting certain vowels when you speak, or lowering
your voice to set the mood for the conversation.
Simply put, details are the little things that make a huge difference, and believe me,
they’ll take you far when it comes to attracting men.
I mean, who doesn’t enjoy a gifted flirt or talented storyteller?
So don’t forget to include details in your speech, it’ll keep him wanting more.
And lastly let’s talk about imagery, the force that gives your words power, emotion
and meaning.
The bits that cause him to remember your voice and the things you say.
The images you imprint on his mind.
Now, in a world where text messaging has become a social norm, it’s easy to forget about
imagery.
But, if you really want to attract a man then it’s important that you don’t skimp out
here.
Why?
Because this imagery is debatably the most important tool in your vocal arsenal.
Now the good news is you don’t have to be a poet to make your words sing, in fact, simply
making an effort to choose words that are bold and bright will pay off here, because
when you do, you’ll have any man interested in the things you have to say.
And when that happens, the rest comes easy.
Well that just about does it for this video, but before I wrap things up I want to invite
you to weigh in.
Do you think these tips are helpful?
Have you tried them before?
Do you have your own ideas to share?
Really do post in the comments section below, I’d love to hear from you!
Also, if you have any questions or comments about what I’ve covered here today then
feel free to post those in the comments as well and I’ll do my best to get back to
you soon.
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