Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence. You're with me, Beardy, and this lovely lady
beside me is Kay. Our pal, Larry, is here too! But I think he
went to get a banana to bring to his date later.
Oh! That's nice! Larry's got a date. Meanwhile, I'm just sitting at home rewatching our older
videos.
Me too! I recently watched our video on hidden signals that she likes you and I couldn't
help but think, "Well, what if she was showing me some obvious body language moves that she
does?" I know what you mean, Beardy. And I think
it's time we talk about that! What if she's actually trying to make you know that she
likes you? Well, in this video, we'll be discussing how
to tell if a girl likes you using these 7 obvious signs.
And at the end, we'll be giving you one female body language that indicates she isn't into
you at all. Are you ready? Then let's get to it!
7. Fidget Bet Have you ever noticed that when she's talking
to you, she's being nervous and anxious? That's one of the body language of attraction that
she may exhibit. Oh, I know about this! I used to fidget a
lot when I would talk to a guy I liked. That's right. That's because fidgeting is
a common response when you're talking to someone you like.
Dr. Nikki Martinez, a marriage and relationships therapist, shared that:
"Women do some intentional and unintentional things when they are interested in someone."
Some of the common examples of these actions include hair tossing, blushing, hand wringing,
lip biting or licking, and even entering someone's personal space.
Most of the time, these women are not aware that they are even doing these things.
You, as the observer, may even be the one to notice this and point it out to them.
This can be one of the most obvious tricks on how to tell if a shy girl likes you. They
won't be able to help themselves from doing the action when they are around you.
So the next time you're with the girl you like, you can try to notice if she does any
of these subtle things. It's one of the ways to know how to know if
your crush likes you. If she does any of these things, it's definitely
a sign that she does like you. We’ve got more signs to help you figure
out if a shy girl likes you. Check them out here in this video.
6. Question Game Another sign that will help you how to know
if a girl likes you is when she's fond of asking you questions.
The questions may include very basic stuff like "What's your favorite
ice cream flavor?" or even ones that are personal, like "How's your life like at home?"
Just basically any question that she can think of.
If a girl likes you, then she'll ask a lot of questions. I know this because Genevieve
used to do this. A girl does this because she wants you to
open up to her and let her into your world. You shouldn't waste this opportunity because
she is already making an effort to get to know you.
And if you like her, you'll also be making an effort to get to know her too.
That's the secret law of attraction. And even though there may be times of awkward
silence, she might keep on asking some more questions. That's simply because she wants
to keep the conversation going. And when you reciprocate that, you two will
be building rapport and chemistry at the same time.
Later on, she will start sharing more intimate details about her life. And this is a good
sign. This means that she trusts you. And obviously,
that already means that she likes you. According to a psychology professor: "When
we like someone, we act in ways to get them to trust us."
It's her way of flirting, without being overt about it.
But if she doesn't seem to care about those awkward silences or she does not appear to
be invested in the conversation you two are having, then it's likely that she is not attracted
to you at all. 5. Inclusion Decision
Another advice on how to tell if a girl likes you is when she's including you in her plans.
Think about it this way, if you didn't like someone, would you still want to see him or
her? But if you like someone, no matter how busy
you are, you'd want him or her to be part of your life.
Is that the same case as you? Well, that's one sure way on how to tell if
a girl is into you. She will definitely set up a time and date where she can meet you
again. I definitely agree with this one.
I used to have a tight daily schedule that I hardly had time to eat. But whenever I had
free time, I always made sure to include the person I'm interested in.
That's right. If you're dating a girl who always makes plans with you in mind, then
that’s a clear sign that she likes you. She might not even wait around for you to
call her up. If she’s that into you, she might want to make all the plans and hope
that you join her. And if you invite her out on a date, she'll
likely say yes to you. But even if she doesn't say yes right away,
that doesn't mean she's not into you. She might just be very busy during that date
and will prefer another date when you can both hang out together.
Speaking of that, guys, here's a fun fact for you..
When you're trying to invite the girl you like on a date, avoid doing that after her
work hours. That's because she will likely be tired and
haggard, which increases the probability that she’ll not accept.
In this case, it's best that you invite her out on a date on a weekend.
She'll likely say yes since she’ll have more time to prepare to look fresh for her
date with you. 4. Know Go
Hey listen up fellas, the best clue on how to tell if a girl likes you is if her friends
already know you. Even if you haven't met her friends at all,
you might be surprised that they already know certain things about you.
That's because women tell their girlfriends just about everything.
And if she introduces you to her friends, that's already an obvious sign that she really
likes you. See, she's seeking the approval of her friends
by introducing you to them. Think about it this way: a girl treats her
girlfriends as her sisters. If she doesn't like you, you'll likely never get past her
squad. But if she's interested in you, she'll be
breaking apart from her friends to go hang out with you.
That's basically one of the most common subconscious signs of attraction that screams she's interested
in you. If she starts introducing you to her friends,
then that's because she sees a future with you in it.
Try to observe her friends' behavior towards you. Do they deliberately encourage you to
spend more time with her? Or do they always make sure that you two are
in the same room together? Congratulations, dude! That doesn't only mean
that they like you, they also know that their friend likes you big time.
Do you know what else they like? It’s for you to know the other subconscious signs of
attraction which you’ll find out in this video.
3. Worthwhile Smile Another obvious body language that's hard
to miss is her laugh and smile. Hey Beardy, do you want to know how to tell
if a girl likes you with just her smile? Sure, how do I do that Kay?
That's easy! Try to make her laugh. Tell her your corniest joke.
Hmmm… let me think of one. Aha! Hey Kay, what did the daughter corn ask mother
corn? Hmmm… what, Beardy?
Where's popcorn? Hahahaha now that's a funny one!
Haha yeah it is. Even Larry couldn't control his laugh at that one.
Try that joke on the girl you like and see how she responds to it.
If she laughs at the joke, no matter how corny it is, it's likely because she likes you.
But, if she doesn't like you, she'll likely brush the joke aside and not mind it at all.
If you're with a group of people and she's the one sharing the joke, you can also see
if she's attracted to you by one simple action of hers.
Hmm, what's that, Kay? Well, that's easy. The law of attraction states
that "Like attracts like." Especially when you're practicing alpha male
body language tricks every guy should do today, you have to take the throne.
If she's the one sharing the joke to a bunch of people, and then she looks over to you
first to check what your reaction is, it's likely because she likes you.
This is a clear indication that she is seeking your approval and that she is attracted to
you. On that note, we've got 9 other alpha male
body language tricks that you should check out. Our video on that topic has already gained
over 3 million views!
Hey would you look at that? We're already halfway through our list.
Stay tuned since we still have two obvious body language signals that she likes you.
Plus, at the end of this video, we're giving you one sure indication that she isn't into
you at all. Are you ready for more?
Let's get back to it!
2. Voice Choice You know when they say that it's difficult
to understand women? I don't think that's necessarily true. I think
that people don't try to understand women but judge them right away.
That's because there's a lot you can figure out about a woman with just her voice.
According to research, the changes in one's pitch and tone are just some of the natural
things that come with courtship. This means that you have to look out for these
two things when you're talking to the girl you like.
Try to notice if her pitch and tone changes when she's talking to you.
You can also keep an eye out for some signs she wants you to talk to her and take note
of the way her voice changes. Those simple signs may include a hair flip
or even just a prolonged gaze in your direction. Once you start talking to her, keep a mental
note of how her voice changes. According to studies, try to keep track when
her voice becomes softer and huskier. These are two changes that indicate she has
feelings towards you. Want to catch more of these signs so you know
when to approach girls? Our video about this with 11,000 likes will be sure to help you.
1. Agree Reverie Nobody likes to be with someone who doesn't
agree with them. In a nutshell, this is what the 'Similarity
Principle' is about. The principle shares that people like to be
surrounded by others who have the same interests. This is what the similarity-attraction effect
is: People are attracted to someone who is like them.
They want to be with someone who shares their interests, beliefs, tastes, and many more.
It is by this principle why she may be agreeing with a lot of the things you are saying, especially
when it involves important subjects. If she's fond of arguing with you, it may
be difficult for you both to develop any deep connection.
But then again, it may also lead to something. Oh yes. I have a lot of couple friends who
started off disagreeing with each other… a lot!
But hey, look at them now! I know! But that's a different story.
The point is, if she loves to agree with everything you say, it could be because she is into you!
Okay, so as promised, we'll be sharing with you the number one indicator that she isn't
into you at all. Are you ready for it?
Well, you might get confused with this because a lot of other guys do.
Remember when we all say that a woman likes you if she plays with her hair?
Well, it isn't always the case. If she plays with her hair and twirls it around, it may
be because she's interested in you. BUT-- if she keeps on looking at the ends
of her hair, that's another story. Pair this with her perfunctory one and a half
word answer and you'll know that you're boring her to death!
If she keeps on answering your sentences with things like "uh-huh", "yup", "gotcha", you
seriously have to rethink your strategy. It's likely that she isn't interested in you
at all but she's just trying to be polite.
Do you know of any more obvious body language signals that she's attracted to you? Let us
know in a comment below!
Gentlemen, do you want to know more hidden signals that she likes you? We've got you
covered! We know how it feels not to know, you know.
Well, well, well. We have good news for you fellas, you can check out our other video
where we give you 11 body language signs that she's attracted to you here.
After watching this, we’re sure that you’re going to be in the know.