Hey this is Clay and today I'm answering a question of you know what are some signs
that your ex still thinks about you.
OK so there's really three sides that I want to share with you today.
And let's just go ahead and get in this.
So the first one is that you had her relationship together with your acts.
I know this is kind of you know.
Yeah.
DA I had a relationship with my ex when my ex.
But the reason for this is because you know.
I think most people.
Still think about their previous relationships you know no matter what's happening no matter
how much time has passed all the people will just constantly think back to their own relationship.
You know I still think about my old relationships.
And you know I still think about my ex.
And you know yeah you know we're all.
Married to different people in everything right now.
But you know it still crossed my mind from time to time.
So yes your ex will still think about you if you've been had a relationship with them.
The number two thing is if you.
Still think about your ex.
So if you think about them there's probably a good chance that they think about you because
this kind of ties into the third thing.
But you know there is emotional intensity and you know you're still feeling that emotional
intensity and they're probably still feeling it on some level.
Too.
OK.
So if you're still having some sort of emotional feeling about them then they're probably still
feeling that way to you.
Which brings us to the third thing and that is that the two of you have shared some sort
of intense emotional connection together.
OK so and this one is really you know yeah if you're in a relationship together you're
probably also going to feel some intense emotions at some point.
Hopefully those are positive emotions like connection love and all that.
But you know they can be other things too like insecurity jealousy.
That stuff but you know if you have if you have felt some sort of strong emotions with
them then yeah they're going to think about you because those are those like places in
our life where it becomes like an exclamation point that's me drawing an exclamation point
in the air.
And and those are those are things that are extremely present to OK we are very aware
of those moments that have very intense emotional.
Capacity for us and we tend to like really bookmark those emotions in our lives.
You know like how they have those little PUE off sticky tabs you can put in books.
It's like one of those is like a little sticky tab you put on the book of your life and it's
like yep that is an intense thing.
And when you can associate a person with that experience then yes you're going to be thinking
about that person.
So you know if you had some sort of like really intense love affair if the two of you had
some intense connection if you shared some great memories together if you know all that
stuff then yes I can guarantee you that they still think about you.
So the important thing here is that you know yes your you still thinks about you are not
as replaceable as you think.
It's not as easy to just erase someone from your life to the point where you're like huh.
Who is that person.
I mean like I don't know maybe your ex goes on like 500 dates a year or something then
maybe they might forget about you assuming you were just like one of five hundred.
But you know if if they had like a solid relationship with you then.
That lasted more than life one day.
Yeah they probably are going to remember you if they had a connection to you.
Yeah they probably are going to remember you if they were in a relationship with you if
you had like emotions knowing that yes.
They are going to remember you.
I promise you your ex will not forget about you that easily you know no matter what you
do if you are no contact or anything like that your ex will not forget about you.
Often times when it seems like you're just sort of insignificant speck to them it's really
just a form of posturing on their part where they're actually just trying to make it seem
that way hoping that you'll give up or trying to push you away from them so that they can
get space away from you and the breakup in the relationship to really sort of re-evaluate
their own life and stuff like that.
But it's not because they have not Jen it's not because they have genuinely forgotten
about you.
It's just that they are trying to make it appear that way for one reason or another
and that does not at all mean that your shots are dashed and ruined or anything like that.
You can get back to your ex.
I promise you they have not forgotten about you.
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