10 Insecurities YOU HAVE That Women Don't Care About
[0:00:00] All right, gentlemen.
In today’s video, we’re talking about insecurities that men have that honestly women
do not care about.
What are they?
Find out, gents, in today’s video.
[Music] Insecurity number one, the size of your wallet.
You’re worried that she’s not going to give it a time of day because you don’t
have a fat wallet, you’re not making a big salary, you’re not rich.
Now, I’m not going to BS you and tell you this isn’t important.
No, most women look at this and I think for good reason most relationships and because
of the strain of not enough money.
However, there are other things that women look at such as ambition such as passion such
as potential.
These things all matter, so if you’ve got a job if you’re starting a company and it
has somebody who’s like, okay, I’m not making a whole lot of money right now, but
it’s going to change the world.
That is contagious.
The next big insecurity that men have that women honestly don’t care that much about,
the size of your muscles.
So, here’s the deal, men, we think we need to be a lot more muscular.
Women, they like us closer to average.
And this is based off a study in the American Journal of Psychology.
And what they found is that men on average we think we need to not only be more muscular,
but like 30 lbs more muscular than average.
Women on the other hand, they’re looking for a guy that’s closer to average that
has a toned body type, but you don’t have to have a six pack abs you don’t have to
have the huge biceps.
Guys, this is something that we’re feeding ourselves because women, they like closer
to average.
The next insecurity a lot of guys have, the size of their manhood.
Now, I’m not sure when this insecurity starts, but it’s all about comparisons.
You do go some research, you realized, okay, the average, I’m slightly below I’m slightly
above, I’m average, but in any case you start to wonder about where do you rank in
terms and then all of a sudden becomes a comparison.
Gents, understand women are not obsessed about this like we are.
85% of women are perfectly fine with the size of their partner’s manhood and this is based
off a 2006 study in the Journal of Psychology of Men and Masculinity.
If anything it sucks when you’re too big.
7% of women actually reported that they ended the relationship because the man was too large.
Now, no matter what the size of your manhood is, there is one thing that women do care
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The next insecurity a lot of guys have is that they’re not tall enough and it’s
not just for the guys that are 5’2”, 5’5”, it’s also for the guys that are 5’9”,
5’10 because they’re not 6’.
Now, I’m not going to BS you, there are some women that, yes, they are going to look
at height and they’re going to hold it against you.
But most women out there, they’re going to look at the whole picture, they’re going
to look at your confidence, they’re going to look at what you bring into the table.
They’re going to look at everything you’ve got going on in life and they’re going to
measure that and weigh it more than your height.
The next insecurity a lot of guys have is that they’re not smart enough, they don’t
have an IQ of 200.
But, here’s the deal is you don’t want to be overly brainy, there is a point.
Yes, a woman wants a man that has levels of intelligence, but there are different levels
of intelligence.
Is someone that’s really good at chess, does that mean they’re going to be great
at ice skating?
No.
Those are two very different things.
And I can tell you that if you’re good at one does not mean you’re good at the other.
So, they’re going to be looking at, again, the bigger picture.
They’re going to look at, okay, is he actually an amazing plumber?
Is his business doing well here?
Obviously, he may not score high on an IQ scale, but he’s running that business successfully.
Yes, he works with his hands.
And actually a lot of times women find that very attractive.
And, what women look for is passion.
What they look for is that you love what you do and you’re always working to become better.
The next insecurity a lot of guys have is their car, their ride.
They don’t have a luxury car.
They use public transportation.
They don’t even own a car and they are worried that a woman is going to look at this and
say, you know what?
He’s not making enough money.
Now, there is some research to show this is actually true to an extent.
It’s an initial judgment that women use to actually make a determination how is he
doing economically, but here’s the deal is it’s very short-lived.
In fact, studies have shown out of the University of Michigan, if you own to flashy of a car,
a lot of women pick up on this as this guy is only good for maybe a short term relationship.
He’s not looking for anything long term.
[0:05:02] It is an initial judgment, but as soon as
she sees everything else that you’ve got going on, notice the theme here, it’s a
complete picture.
So, you want to make sure that you make up for, okay, I don’t own a car, but you know
what?
I got a lot of stuff going on.
I’ve started a business, I’m passionate about this, I’ve got this activities I’m
a part of.
Guys, it’s about the complete picture.
The next insecurity a lot of guys have, that shiny bald head, they’ve lost their hair,
they’ve shaved their head.
For some reason, you don’t have any hair on that head and you’re worried that this
is going to make you look too old that it’s going to make you look weak.
Here is the thing, with a bald head research has clearly shown that this makes you look
more dominant, more confident, more masculine, older, taller, and even stronger and that’s
based off a study out of the University of Pennsylvania.
Now, one thing you do need to be careful about is thinning hair.
Thinning hair can make you look weaker, so go ahead and shave it off or look at some
of the different products out there that can help your hair grow back or maybe even look
to a hair transplant.
The next insecurity a lot of guys have is that they are socially awkward.
They know they’re going to go to a party, they’re not going to be the life of the
party they’re an introvert.
They do not like to talk to other people and they’re worried that people are just going
to look at them as strange as weird.
Guys, if this is you if you’ve got issues or if you just imagine go to a party you’re
going to trip on yourself, people are going to stare at you, you don’t know how to talk
to people.
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All right, gents, now, I want to hear from you.
Let me know down in the comments what did I miss, what are you insecure about?
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Take care.
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