and when you are like that women can spot that they can see the authenticity
in your joy the authenticity and your happiness all right and that confidence
shows and they're attracted to that confidence the fact that you don't care
what people think the fact that you could live live passionately and that
your heart be transparent like that and that's what women want women want the
connection they want a guy that is confident a guy that lets them feel the
fam it's been a while it's actually been like four days anyways guys I have not
been posting a while just because I've been sick for the past few days I got a
cold I don't know how it happens no it's not from making out with a sick chick I
do have the flu Matt it sucks it sucks wish me luck guys say I got the sniffles
got a little sore head and occasionally I have a sore throat but that's not the
point of this video let's talk about the nofap life guys does nofap make you
instantly attractive to women I could right now probably ask a girl like hey
what do you think about no fab are you attracted to guys and no fab well here's
the thing a woman doesn't know if she's attracted to a guy uh no fat alright a
woman is just attracted to a guy who shows that attributes it shows the
traits that she finds attractive so what does women find attractive in general
okay in general a woman finds masculinity attractive alright this is
just generic terms of spitting out it depends on what your definition of
masculinity is maybe physically masculine having big arms having a
ripped body having a jawline I don't have that I have double chins that I
slowly got rid of if we want to lose weight check out this video but other
than physical you need to have the eternal traits
all right the eternal traits let's talk about this whenever you ask a girl while
she finds attractive in a guy a lot of times they would respond by saying
confidence a woman finds confidence attractive in a guy what is confidence
alright what is what is some examples of being confident when you're on one of
the biggest things is not carrying what she thinks all right that is the main
thing that shows confidence really to be genuine and who you are to be unafraid
of saying things that you truthfully feel in the moment to act courageously
on what your heart wants to react by if you feel like singing sing a song if you
feel like zippity-doo-dah Zippity day while you're just walking and I give a
crap what people say or think about you when you're doing what your heart wants
you to do then ask confidence okay here's an example of how I am alright
when I feel like singing a tune I would just sing a 2 and I'd be like Liberty
deep dude Liberty ha ha I don't want to give you guys examples of how to be
stupid but I do that like when I feel goofy I act goofy when I am annoyed of
someone I'm not an asshole I'm not gonna be like you're fucking annoying no but I
am gonna just shy away from the person they're haploid boy alright I'm not
gonna act like I like them okay I'm gonna be authentic to who I am so when
you are authentic when you are in the emotions of joy and you are showing the
emotion of joy when you are singing they're dancing to yourself you're
whistling to yourself um I know that other people should join on the terms or
in other ways but I just show joy like that like I would just like come to
myself I'd sing to myself and weird like that but I do it because that's what I
feel like at the moment and when you are like that women can spot that they can
see the authenticity in your joy the authenticity in your happiness alright
and that confidence shows and they're attracted to that confidence the fact
that you don't care what people think the fact that you could live live
passionately and that your heart be transparent like
that and that's what women want women want the connection they want a guy that
is confident a guy that lets them feel the emotions that you feel alright
usually positive emotions usually contradictive emotions alright when you
disagree with what she's seeing a girl doesn't always want a guy that is like I
completely agree yes uh-huh yeah she was wrong yeah he was wrong
you're completely right no okay be honest be honest if she's being wrong
questioned her ask her why do you feel like that do you think that maybe you
could have reacted in this certain way that would resolve a better outlook you
heard I mean a woman doesn't want a bitch all right I want to say a bitch I
mean a guy that's bending over backwards just to make her feel secure and happy
all the time all right besides that that's not the main point
of a guy's a guy in a relationship with a woman it shouldn't be to affirm or
every single moment no you know what I mean I think that a guy being in a
relationship with a woman should be a partnered relationship or he tries to
inspire her to be better stronger more powerful and in return she doesn't sink
for him I'm gonna I'm definitely getting
off-topic here let's get back to the whole confidence thing cause being on
the fab make you more attractive to women so say you're a fabric say you're
in high school you're in college you're fapping every day okay um the second you
start no fab you are not gonna become confident you
are not gonna become attractive to the woman instantaneously
no all right it doesn't happen like that say that you started nofap and you are
aware of socializing are you're aware of talking to people whether it's a guy or
girl getting the conversation going breaking the ice and conversation and
just getting to know a person in general say that you don't have that skill say
that you aren't comfortable we're talking to people and then you
start know found you are not going to be instantaneously the opposite you're not
gonna be instantaneously a new person all right
what nofap does it just makes you more body aware spiritually aware mentally
physically all those things it just makes you more aware of who you are it
makes you more woke to how you wasted your time back then and how you no
longer need a dopamine rush through artificial means to get attractive when
you are a go fab it's just practice it's just no longer a wasting time on the
computer and using that time instead that sexual energy instead on yourself
by talking to people practicing talking to people okay it's by spending the
energy on reading on watching videos that transforms your brain into into a
stronger personal developed person and having higher standards on yourself of
achievement so yes starting no fab can make you more
confident and Nick you were attractive to women but it all takes practice all
right starting off that gives you the time starting no FAP reprograms your
brain to become more grounded if you will it's no longer addicted to a
substance and now you can replace that addiction or that bad habit with a habit
of self growing so yes guys another disclaimer is this just because you
start no fab doesn't automatically make you attractive
alright you're not automatically gonna get a chiseled chin you're not
automatically gonna become ripped you're not automatically gonna become a social
king okay PS check out this video on how to become a social King but the case in
point is this no fab gives you the opportunity to become a better person
so if you have been doing all that for a while and you have been watching a lot
of videos on the fab the whole concept of red pill is definitely another niche
or another genre of masculinity if you are masculine development
that is in the world of YouTube or in the world of Reddit or just in the blog
blogs matter sphere or whatever it's definitely a concept that is beneficial
for you too if you guys have seen some of my red
pill videos I do mention the dynamics of men women into relationships and just
attraction in general if you guys want to see more of those comment down below
right let me know I recently got a video request to do an arm workout and that is
coming here guys wait okay guys this channel is mainly for you guys what you
guys want to see what you guys want input on in life guy problems let me
know and I will respond to you so some of you guys may have noticed that I
started a new channel alright it was called the alpha mindset coach but I'm
just gonna leave all that content on this channel
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time as always god bless you and have them