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This is Mantelligence.
Before anything else, have you guys checked out Bobby Rio’s video called 5 Mistakes
Men Make When A Girl Pulls Away?
It’s an insightful video that we will add more items
and insight into.
Today’s video will be about the 10 most common unconscious mistakes
men make when a girl pulls away from them.
Sometimes, you can get so caught up on how to get a girl to like you that you unconsciously
make mistakes when a girl happens to pull away.
In this video, we’ll show you the mistakes that you should avoid.
If you follow this, you might even learn how to be
more attractive.
What’s even better is at the end of this video, we’ll tell you what you
should be doing instead when a girl starts pulling away from you.
Without further ado, let’s jump right in.
10.
I’m Sorry I Can’t Be Perfect When a girl pulls away from you, the first
thing that usually comes into your mind is “What did
I do wrong?”
Well, that makes sense.
You then go into a spiral of all the things, both big and small, that you did.
What happens, then?
When you think you have found out what you did, you go and apologize
non-stop.
This is one of the most common mistakes men make.
You really can’t be blamed.
It’s very easy to think that you did something wrong when someone suddenly
acts different towards you, but apologizing shouldn’t be the first thing you do.
If you keep apologizing, you’ll just seem desperate
and annoying.
Being desperate and annoying are some of the reasons girls think you’re unattractive.
So why show that side of you?
You probably don’t even have anything to apologize for.
You saying sorry for the little things you think you did will just remind
the girl of those things.
Bad move, right?
When a girl pulls away, try not to go into auto-pilot
and apologize.
unattracted to you.
Make sure you’re not doing any of those reasons.
9.
May The Force…
Not Be With You?
This shouldn’t be on the list of mistakes men make because you shouldn’t be doing
this in the first place, but somehow, a lot of men unconsciously do it.
Men have a tendency to force a girl to talk or
explain to them when they can’t seem to figure something out.
Keep this in mind: She might owe you an explanation, but if she doesn’t
give it to you, you cannot do anything.
As hard as it is to accept, that’s the reality.
The more you force her to answer your questions or explain to you, the more she’ll be pulling
away.
Some women even get scared when you force them about something.
You wouldn’t want her to be afraid of you, right?
The key here is acceptance that you probably won’t be able to
get the answer that you want.
Just accept it and move on.
You deserve someone who you don’t need to force.
8.
Confession Time!
So, there’s this wonderful girl that you met.
Things are going really good.
You’re seeing a lot of subconscious signs of attraction from
her.
You think this will go somewhere.
You now develop feelings, thinking she reciprocates it, and then all of a sudden,
she starts pulling away.
Your first instinct will be to confess.
You want to finally make your Feelings known to her, right?
Maybe she’ll take you back after she hears how you feel?
Nope.
Wrong.
No, no, no, no, no.
When you confess out of desperation when she starts pulling
away, it’s like you’re pressuring her.
You’re pressuring her to do something about your
feelings, which she honestly doesn’t have any obligation to.
Plus, remember that there is a very thin line between pressuring and forcing.
Whatever you chose to do, this will only lead her to want to pull away more.
No one likes being pressured into acting upon something,
most especially if they’re not ready for it.
Do you want to know the hidden signs that a woman is attracted to you?
Check out this
Video to make sure you’re not just imagining things.
7.
A Gift For You This is a lot like confessing your feelings
to her.
When a girl pulls away, you want to make sure that you don’t feel guilty about it
or that you are able to show that she means a lot to
you, so you decide to just give her a gift.
A gift to say sorry or to show her that you care and
that she shouldn’t pull away.
Don’t do that.
You know what you’re doing?
It’s like you’re giving her a bribe.
Again, you’re pressuring her with your gift.
The more you pressure her, the more she’ll pull away from you because she’ll feel less
attracted to you since you so badly want to force her to do something.
Don’t ever make a woman feel pressured.
Let her come to you on her own terms.
You’ll feel better about it then.
6.
Hulk Smash One of the worst things you can do when a
girl is pulling away from you is to get angry.
It’s a no-brainer, right?
When you get mad, you’re ruining the already small
chance you have.
No proper woman likes being yelled at or seeing someone get angry
at them.
Being angry does nothing good for you.
It just adds more negative feelings towards you.
If you come to think of it, There’s really no reason you should be mad.
It’s not like you’ll suddenly understand what happened if you get upset.
You still won’t know her reason.
So, what will you really get out of getting enraged?
Nothing, right?
So, when you realize that she’s slowly pulling away, get yourself together and calm
down.
Take deep breaths and realize that getting mad won’t do anything good for
the situation.
Are you liking what you’re watching and learning so far?
If so, keep watching because we’ve got 5 more common unconscious mistakes
men make when a girl pulls away.
Not only that.
At the end of this video, we’ll tell you the one and only thing that you should do
in case a girl you like’s pulling away from you.
Alright, let’s get back to it!
Are you liking what you’re watching and learning so far?
If so, keep watching because we’ve got 5 more common unconscious mistakes
men make when a girl pulls away.
Not only that.
At the end of this video, we’ll tell you the one and only thing that you should do
in case a girl you like’s pulling away from you.
Alright, let’s get back to it!
5.
I’ve Got My Eyes On You A girl pulls away and you don’t know why.
It may come to mind to stalk her social media, And maybe even follow her in real life.
Whoa, man.
No.
Don’t do that.
Did you know that Doing that is considered a crime?
It’s a legit crime.
So before you go and decide to follow your girl everywhere she goes, or leave her
30 messages and missed calls in an hour in a
desperate attempt to talk to her or change her mind, think about the consequences of
your actions.
What will happen is you’re just going to push her completely away from you because
you’re harassing her.
It’s really simple.
Don’t stalk her.
Even if you think it’s harmless, especially if it’s just in
social media… don’t.
You also owe it to yourself not to do that.
4.
Hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey hey This is the most unconscious thing that men
tend to do.
You may not be aware that you’re doing it, but don’t annoy her when she starts
pulling away.
It might be hard to find out whether you’re already annoying her or not,
but there are some things you unconsciously do that are considered bothersome.
Do you always text her even if she’s not replying?
Do you leave a lot of voicemails?
You talk endlessly when you see her even when it’s
obvious that she doesn’t want to talk?
Well then… stop that.
When a girl pulls away from you, chances are, there’s something that
she’s thinking about that’s not really in your favor.
Annoying her with your actions will only push her further away from you.
Think of it like a glass full of water.
The glass is already full, and then you decide to just put in more water.
It will overflow, right?
It’s like that with her.
She would feel like you’re too much for her to handle already.
Sure, you’re just wanting to find out the answer to the quintessential question, “does
she like me?”
that’s why you’re doing all these things.
But as much as you want to know if you still have a
chance, you have to stop yourself from unconsciously annoying her to make sure that
you don’t ruin that chance, if any.
3.
The Cold Never Bothered Me Anyway When a girl suddenly becomes cold towards
you, it can be hard to think that there’s a
perfect reason for it.
What men usually does When this happens is to act the same way that
the girl is acting towards them.
You may Not really mean it when you do it, but it
can and will have damaging effects in the long run.
Well, if you decide to change the way you treat her or become cold and avoid her too
she’ll finally see the obvious signs a girl doesn’t like you.
You wouldn’t want that, right?
In fact, being cold towards her just because you want to get back at her is very
childish.
It’s not productive at all.
Let things flow naturally.
There’s no need to get back at her for something you might not understand
at the moment.
Worried that she might not be into you?
Watch this video to know the signs that a girl isn’t into
You that you probably don’t even notice even if they’re already obvious.
2.
Or Else...
Do you enjoy it when someone gives you an ultimatum?
You most probably don’t.
Who, in their right mind, would actually enjoy that?
There are a lot of mistakes that men make when it comes to
girls pulling away from them.
The worst thing you can do involves forcing her.
The ultimate pressure that you can give a girl is an ultimatum.
Ultimatums don’t actually help you resolve a situation.
According to a licensed psychotherapist, an ultimatum is a
demand.
It’s practically a threat with consequences.
Ultimatums are destructive.
It will make your girl feel trapped and pressured.
It will force her to do the things she doesn’t want to do, at the very least.
You wouldn’t want her to stop pulling away from you just because she’s
forced to stop, right?
You would want her to come back to you because that’s what she
feels and because she’s actually attracted to you.
In short, you would want her to do what she naturally wants.
Don’t let her do things just because she was forced to do so.
You’ll still be the loser in that situation.
Chase After Her
You’ve seen those movies.
A conflict pushes a girl to pull away from a guy, then he channels
All his courage and power to do everything for her and chase her, and then she realizes
how much she’s really helplessly in love with
him, so they get back together and live happily ever
after.
It’s nice to imagine, isn’t it?
But in reality, that’s not really what happens.
These movies Are called fiction for a reason.
When a girl pulls away, she has a valid reason to do so.
When you chase after her and be so persistent about it, it just means that you’re not
respecting her decision.
Don’t chase after her.
Most of the time, the movie situation won’t happen to you.
What you should do is to just respect her decision and give her time to think
about it.
Don’t do anything grand that will put her in a position that doesn’t give her choices.
This is the moment that you’ve all been waiting for.
We’re finally telling you the one and only thing that you should do when you
notice that a girl pulls away.
But, before we get into it, do you know about the secret law
of attraction?
Well, that plays a big part here because the one thing you should do is nothing.
Whaaaat?
Do nothing?
Yes.
Like what we have mentioned earlier, when a girl
pulls away, she has a valid reason to do so.
Respect her decision by letting her cool down and giving her space and time.
Don’t do anything.
So, what does the law of attraction have to do with this?
What you should do instead is to manifest that she will come
back to you.
Use the law of attraction to your advantage.
If you manifest it enough, she’ll come back to you on her own terms.
No need for force or any ultimatums.
It will feel much better knowing that she really likes you for
you, and not because you forced her.
Have you done one of the mistakes men make when a girl pulls away?
Are there any mistakes that we left out?
Let us know in the comments below.
Now that you know the most common mistakes men make when a girl pulls away,
You now can be sure that you’ll be mindful of your actions and know better than to do
any of these.
Make sure that she comes back and stays attracted to you, if she likes.
If not, then maybe you were barking at the wrong tree all along.
Since we’ve already got you here, why not stay and find out
the 11 reasons girls think you’re unattractive with this video from us?
Nothing better than being aware of the reasons and your actions,
right?