It's Tripp from TrippAdvice.com.
Today, I have a very special guest Eaten.
It's already funny, Eden Dranger.
Funny.
It’s so funny, I don't even know.
Eden Granger, we're gonna be talking, giving you some tips on how to be witty, how to be
funny, how to make a girl laugh.
The reason why I wanted to interview her today and have her give you some tips is because
she is a comedian.
She's got some tips for us today.
Before we get into those, if you want to see more of her stuff, you can go to her YouTube
channel, which I'm going to put in the description below.
It's called Bitchkraft, which is a mixture of comedy and magic.
It's really funny.
She's got some cool episodes on there.
Check that out.
Also follow her on Twitter.
We were just talking about this.
She posts these little tweets.
I think they also go to your Facebook.
She posts like three to four times a day.
I just sitting there looking at it and they're really fun.
They are just one liners.
I know they're awesome.
Most comedians are really sensitive about their work.
You have to be very broken to be a comedian.
You do.
We don't want you to be broken.
No, we don't.
Don't choose that path.
This is not about that.
Let's get into it.
What are your tips for how a guy can be funny, make a girl laugh and be more attractive with
women through the use of humor and wit?
Yeah, because humor does make panties drop.
It does.
It does it with girls.
However, you don't want to be like that guy.
You don't want to be a comedian.
That's like waiting for a laugh because even if you go to open mics, you see comedian,
he tries to tell a joke and it bombs, or no one laughs, it really hurts and it feels weird.
You don't want to try too hard.
If you don't like to try to tell a joke, it's super cliche, or something and expect her
to laugh, the worst thing, don't wait for her to laugh.
Don't like, go say something that you think is funny, go silent and wait for her to laugh.
If you see she's not laughing then just keep talking.
I mean, you don’t want to be a wannabe comedian.
You want to be able to portray that humor comes naturally to you.
I'm going to give you some tips on how to do that.
Yeah, We're not trying to teach you how to be a comedian.
No, you don’t want to be a comedian.
You'll be broke.
Let's teach you how to use humor to actually attract girls and not have to work so hard
at these dumb little one liner jokes that most comedians use.
Yeah.
First, it's always fun to point out irony for example.
This by the way, most people I've noticed don't really understand how to use that.
They use the word ironic, in place of what should be like a coincidence.
Yeah, for instance, if someone, let's say, you guys are on a date or something, she's
like, tell me about yourself.
She's like, well, I'm a good listener.
Then she's start saying something, and you can just say, what?
That's kind of ironic.
That's like that.
Also, the element of surprise is funny.
I mean, haven't we all watched those videos of people falling?
Those are hilarious.
I mean they're sad, but hilarious.
Mostly hilarious.
You're not really expecting someone walking and you're expecting them to just keep on
walking then something unexpected happens.
A surprise happens.
It's funny because it's not expected.
What can the guy do besides trip and fall in front of the date, that can be an element
of surprise, that can make her laugh?
He could be saying something like, if he doesn't want to drink on a day, he's like I'm saving.
The term saving myself for marriage.
He can be like, I'm saving my liver for marriage.
He start drinking once he's married.
Stuff like that.
What's expected is something else that you insert something unexpected.
Maybe it's funny, maybe it's not.
Again, if you try and it's not funny and you don't see her laughing just move on.
Don't acknowledge it.
Keep going.
The show must go on.
Another thing that's super helpful too is just to be honest.
Tripp and I were talking and I was like, my favorite thing to do sometimes is to go to
really ritzy places in Beverly Hills in Hollywood.
See all these celebrities and fart.
Then just know that I farted in front of a celebrity and they inhaled my fumes, the ghost
of my lunch.
Is that what farts are?
I don’t know.
She’s serious about that.
The thing is that there's a lot of honesty in that.
Like, you tell a girl that you go to risky places and fart.
Self deprecating humor.
That's another video.
You can always do that.
Check that out, put the link below.
It's funny to be honest sometimes.
Maybe you're out with the girl at a restaurant and you notice some other couple are fighting
over something.
You can mention something about that, like they must be not getting laid tonight or something.
An honest thought that you might have.
It might not have a voice but sometimes this can be funny.
If I saw that happening, if I was on a date, and there was like this couple next to us
fighting, I would try, I don't know if this is too much, but I would reach out her hand,
grab her hand, and I'd say, listen, it's never going to be us.
I do something cheesy like that.
That’s dishonest though.
No, but it's funny.
I mean, it's not me like you're saying in a very dramatic tone as if like trying to
be so serious.
That brings me to my second or my I'm not even counting.
I second counting.
Honesty.
Again, out yourself.
Self deprecating.
There's a difference between self deprecating humor and just trashing yourself.
No girl wants you to mope and trash yourself.
That wasn’t self deprecation.
It was more like calling out an error.
That's fun.
The reason why humor really works to attract a girl, I think is because it exudes confidence.
If you can point out your errors and make more confident to not make errors.
When you do make errors you are able to save yourself.
Yeah, I like that.
Also, I'm thinking about this now, this channel is all about being a genuine self, being authentic.
When you out yourself, when you're being brutally honest, you're being more authentic.
That person is seeing the real version of you.
When you're with someone who's the real version of themselves, even if they're a shitty person,
you still on this level of respect them because they're not putting on a show.
They're not being fake.
Not saying to be a shitty person, but be as real as you can because people respect that.
If they don't like the real you, you should not be with them.
It's a red flag, weed out the people that you don't want to date.
My fifth point is exaggeration just like you said.
Sometimes you'll hear a joke, or comedian tells a joke and he'll exaggerate what someone
else, a real story in his life, it’s not sincerely how it is, but it's an exaggeration
of it.
Bill bird does this impression of his grandmother.
Or she’s like this.
Maybe it’s not like that but that is an exaggeration.
I make fun of my grandma with a thick German accent.
It's not that thick.
She just does not speak English.
My point is, exaggeration is always a little bit funny.
Find it appropriate, however, be careful with your humor.
You want to tease her maybe a little bit, but don't make fun of her that would make
her feel worse and make her hate you.
Yes, hate is a strong word.
They'll make her hate you.
What's the difference between, give us an example of someone teasing a girl and someone
making fun of a girl.
Teasing a girl, let's say she runs over to you.
She trips on her heels or something.
You could.
That's not a jab against her that's against her heels.
If you make fun of like, I guess those heels, their pins or needles or whatever, you can
make a joke about the heels or something.
You don't want to make it directly to her, is that thing you could control?
That's something all girls wear, they wear heels.
It's a very general term.
It's not directed at her and her personality.
You don't want to jab her personality.
If she starts telling you something and you notice her calculations aren't right and she's
being serious about it, don't tell her he must be bad at math.
That's awful.
It's not a nice thing to say when she's not outing herself and saying that.
If she didn't say that though, you can do a call back another funny thing.
Calling back to me about awesome happening tonight.
It could be like a running thing.
That's funny.
Yep.
Call back, do that all the time.
They'll start with something, Jim Gaffigan does this whole hot pocket there and he brings
it up throughout the show.
Calling back is a good thing.
Don't bring up if you're noticing that her top isn't fitting her.
Don't mention her way.
Don't tease her like that.
If she doesn't talk about it probably doesn't want to talk about it.
For example, like if she trips and obviously she's wearing a really long heels, you might
say something like, those things are disastrous.
We have to get you some new heels.
Or like you better have the legs insured or something.
There you go.
That's a compliment.
Yeah, you can turn into a compliment which is more like, whoa he's funny and he thinks
I'm beautiful.
That's advance.
That's like humor to a one.
We talked about exaggeration, callback, irony, bad at math, I can't count.
Those are good stuff.
The other ones you got?
Be real.
Just be honest.
Honesty.
Repetition.
This is Eden Dranger.
I'm going to give you links to her Twitter and seriously followers, she's really funny.
Eden_eats.
Put in the description.
Check out her YouTube channel, which is again this comedy, magic, hot girl and young girls.
Thanks for coming.
Thank you.
That was awesome.
Subscribe to the channel.
I'll see you later.