Hello my wonderful friend!
Today's video is on dangerous Christian dating advice.
And the secret key to your dream relationship.
Be honest with me for a minute.
Have you ever heard, "well, just wait and it'll happen.
Oh, just wait for God's timing.
Relationships just happen."?
So you keep waiting and you keep waiting but you're still alone.
You don't have that special someone to walk by your side through life with.
You start to wonder why everybody else gets a relationship but you don't.
And it hurts and it makes you feel embarrassed and self-conscious.
You trust God but sometimes you just feel like your dream relationship is getting further
away.
Have you ever felt that?
Do you know what that feels like?
Seriously, comment "yes" if you know what I'm talking about.
Here's what you need to know.
There's some dangerous Christian dating advice that will keep you stuck here.
Too many people act like it's doctrine but it's actually not.
Until you know what it is, you are going to stay stuck here.
Once you discover the truth you are free to move forward and have that happy relationship.
You're going to learn about that in this video and well so make sure you watch to the end.
Now before we dive in be sure to subscribe and ring the notification bell.
My name is Melannie.
I'm a Christian dating coach for men.
This is the #1 place for you to go to learn how to find and attract and keep that happy
relationship that you want, that you deserve, and that God wants you to have.
If you've been following me for a while, you may have seen some of my other videos on bad
dating advice like this one or maybe even this one.
I'll put links in the description below if you'd like to watch those as well.
But for now let's talk about the worst and most dangerous advice that you need to avoid.
Let's start by talking about faith.
Frequently in the Bible Jesus teaches us about faith by relating it to a seed, right?
Let's pretend you have a seed, you take that seed and you prepare the soil so that it's
ready for it, you plant the seed the way it needs to be planted, you water it, you fertilize
it, you protect it from insects or anything that could harm it, you make sure it gets
enough sunlight.
Do you as a human, as a mortal, do you have the ability to make that seed grow?
You don't, right?
God is the one who makes things grow, not us.
But you have to still take care of it, right?
That's one of the ways you show your faith, is you say, "Okay, God.
I believe you're going to make this seed grow, but I'm going to do my part.
And so I'm going to prepare the soil, I'm going to water it, and all of that," right?
Now let's say you have a seed and let's say that you really want this seed to grow.
But you just kinda toss into the dirt and you don't prepare the soil, you don't make
sure you bury it well, you don't water it or anything.
Is the seed gonna grow?
No.
I mean, you can pray over that seed and you can read your scriptures next to that seed
and you can beg God to make that seed grow, but God put laws in place, right?
They're God's laws, you have to water the plants if you want them to grow, right?
It doesn't matter how bad you want that seed to grow, if you don't know what to do and
you don't do your part, it's not gonna grow.
The same is true with relationships.
The most dangerous advice you are given is that "relationships just happen," or "just
wait on God," or "God will make it happen."
Even the relationships that looked like they "just happen" have so much going on in the
background that you aren't aware of.
They had to work really hard before they got their happily-ever-after.
So just like you have to show your faith by preparing the soil and watering the plant
and making sure it's taken care of, you have to show God that you're prepared for a relationship
by actually learning what that means and how to care for it.
You show your faith for marriage by preparing for it.
That makes sense, doesn't it?
So what's the solution then?
If the worst piece of advice is "just wait for it to happen", then what's the solution?
You stop wasting time waiting and start acting and showing God that you're working to be
prepared for this and take care of it.
But how do you get ready?
Watch my free masterclass to discover the insider secrets that allow you to finally
have that happy relationship.
These are insider secrets that no one else is sharing on the internet and you need to
know what they are.
All you have to do is go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass or check out the link in the description below.
I will also put a link in the pinned comment.
If you are sick and tired of feeling stuck and like you have to "wait forever" and like
you have no control over it you need to watch that masterclass today.
So by now you might be thinking, "Okay, Melannie, that makes sense.
I understand that you have to take care of seed.
I get that.
But, Melannie, I'm an attractive person, I'm a kind person, I'm a good person.
Isn't that all it takes?"
Remember that if you don't know how to have a good relationship you will have a bad one.
You will have to settle.
Just like God created the laws for how we grow plants, He created the laws for attraction
and how we develop relationships.
So until you learn those laws you are going to stay stuck.
And you don't deserve that.
Until you understand how to be magnetic to your dream girl you're not going to attract
her.
This is why when you go through my program, How To Get A Girlfriend, you discover how
to become magnetic to your dream girl.
It's the complete guide and #1 resource for any man who wants to have that magnetic, crazy-in-love,
insanely happy, wonderful relationship that lasts a lifetime.
The reason it works is because you understand those laws of attraction, the laws God gave
us.
If you think about it, it kinda simplifies relationships, right?
Just understand how attraction works and use it as a tool.
That's pretty exciting!
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Okay, so by now you may be thinking, "Well, Melannie, why do people give that advice if
it's so dangerous?
Why does that happen?
There are 2 main reasons.
The first is, for many people, they care about you and they want to help, but they don't
know what to say, right?
They feel a little bit awkward, they don't know what advice to give, this isn't what
they do all day long, so they don't know what to say.
So they just say, "It's okay, God will take care of it.
Uh, just keep waiting, it'll be fine."
This is why having a professional's guidance is s important.
This is also why you can get your dream relationship so quickly when you understand these things
and when you go through my program.
The second reason people give this advice is, to a large extent, it did used to be that
way.
Relationships just kind of did "just happen" back in the day.
But let's be real.
Society has changed dramatically.
The values of society have changed.
The dynamics of society has changed.
It's why our divorce rate is so insanely high.
So for your grandparents there's a really good chance it "just happened."
But I'll let you in on a little secret.
Every relationship, every good relationship, that "just happens" has a whole lot of elbow
grease going on that you don't know about.
They are taking the time to prepare the soil and water the plants, so to speak.
Bottom line, the most dangerous Christian dating advice that you need to be aware of
is that relationships "just happen" or to "just wait on God".
Remember that part of faith is actually acting and showing God that you're willing to do
your part.
When you are ready to understand what that means so you make it happen fast and easy,
make sure you watch my free masterclass.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
There's also a link in the description below.
If you don't want to be alone and frustrated anymore, you need to know the secrets that
are in that free training.
Make sure watch it today before it's gone for good.
Remember that faith will not overwrite God's laws.
So if you want to get your dream relationship you have to do it God's way.
And that means understanding the laws of attraction.
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Thank you so much again for watching, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day! [blooper
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Hello my wonderful friend!
Today's video is on dangerous Christian dating advice.
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