Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
On today's video we're gonna be talking
about how to get the girl that you're
seeing, that you're dating to find out
that you are the man. You're the one.
You're the guy that she wants to be with.
From watching my channel for a while
you've been watching a lot of my videos and you've
been hearing me give you a lot of really
good advice that's not just really good
for meeting women but it's good life
advice in general. One of the best ways
to attract a woman who is a 10 is to be
a 10. If you follow this
advice, you're gonna start to build a
life that's awesome enough that women
will be magnetically pulled to it and
that's what the advice is today.
How do you become that guy where
she's like "yes him." There's three
things that you need to basically show
her indirectly. One; you have your own
life. Two; you got your shit together.
And three; you're socially connected.
There's a lot of other things that make
a girl attracted but these are some
really heavier concepts that say like
"this guy is someone I want to be with
long-term". Let's go through those.
The first one is you have your own life.
How can you show that. First of all,
obviously create your own life, be a busy
person, do things. Don't just work and
sleep. A lot of people just work,
sleep, party on the weekends and that's
their life. Let's try to do more with
your life. Let's try to add some
other things in. Let's get some hobbies
going. Let's work on personal development,
working out, getting healthy, maybe you
have a little side hustle going on.
How can you show that to her in a
quicker way? A little sneakier way? What
you can do is, whenever you're on the
phone with her or you're texting her.
It's what people do all day. They get into text
message conversations and they get in
phone calls and all that stuff. What do
you do? Be the one to end the
conversation first because you're busy.
You got things going on. You're
gonna be on the phone with her, maybe
you're talking to her. Be the one to hang
up first and say "yo I gotta go. I gotta
go do stuff. I'm busy. I got things going on."
You're not gonna say it to her like
that but that's what you're gonna
basically showing her when you're the
one who's ending the conversation. So try that out.
The next one is you got your shit
together. You got your act together. You
have a life. I know this is kind of
similar to the last one, like you're busy.
But now she needs to see it.
She needs to see what's going on. She needs to
see that you're a guy who's somewhat
organized, who's not a mess, who is a
provider protector kind of guy. Because
if you had your life together that means
that if she's with you, she has no need
to worry that you're gonna just fall
apart and all of a sudden you're gonna
be gone and you're gonna leave her and
and she's gonna be devastated. Do you
have your life together? How can you show
this in a very quick way? Here's what you
do.
Invite her to your place. But don't just
invite her over.
Make sure when she comes over, your place
is organized. It looks good.
You got furniture. You got things in your
place and it's not a complete dump.
If you invite a girl over and your bed is
unmade, you got pizza boxes lying around
and it smells terrible and then she goes
in your bathroom only to find that
there's stains on the toilet. This is
disgusting. All these things really are
gonna show her that you can't even
take two seconds to organize the
environment that you live in. Your
habitat. What is that gonna say about
you? Not so good right? Would you even
want to go to a girl's place and see the
same thing? Can you imagine you're going to a
girl's place and her place is a disaster?
You're just like "what is going on with
this girl's life?" Especially the fact
that she couldn't clean up before she
had a guest over which is you.
So can we do this? Could we just get our
place in somewhat of an order here.
Specifically invite her over. If you want
to take it to that next level, cook her
some dinner because that's really
attractive that you're actually gonna
be able to cook and that's a talent
right there.
Do that. Invite her over. Maybe cook
something, whatever it is. Make sure the
place looks good. Third is you are
socially connected and desired by other
people. When you see someone who is
desired by other people, you actually see
them in a way that you are kind of
attracted to them
because you're like "wait a minute, there
must be something about that person."
All of a sudden you're intrigued and sucked
in. This is the idea of social proof but
also you actually have people in your
life that are good people, cool people
and you're supported through a network.
Most people who want to
get into relationships or date, they
want to know that the other person has
some sort of network or some sort of
friends and they're not just a complete
loner. It's a little depressing and it's
a little bit like "wait a minute, why
don't you have any friends?" And if you do
have friends, hopefully they're cool.
What if she meets your
friends and they're not good people.
Or they're treat her weird.
What does that say about you?
What does it say about you as a person that
you're completely disconnected from the
rest of society. Something weird is going
on there.
You want to hack your way into this,
get some good friends and if you do make
sure that she meets them.
It doesn't have to happen
right away and also none
of this stuff has to happen right away.
There's not even a thing you do on the
first date. This is like when you've been
seeing a girl for a while. It's been
a little while so she can really get a
whole picture of who you are as a person.
Eventually it'll get to that point where
you guys are going out with your friends
and meeting your friends and even
bring some of your girlfriends. Hopefully
you have some girls that are friends so
they can be there and then she can see
"oh wow like other girls think he's cool
too." Again this is all like really
subconscious stuff here. She sees that and
she's gonna be like okay it's gonna
reinforce the idea of why she likes you and
make this whole bond even stronger and
she's gonna be like "this is the guy that
I choose." If you don't have these things
right now, that's okay. These are things
to work on. These are things to build to.
This is just like your work in
progress. If you want to learn more
about this, I want you to check out a video
called "Mind games that make her miss you
badly." You want to get a girl to miss you
which gets her more attracted to you?
Go to the YouTube description below. Click
on that link and you'll see a video right there.
Check that out. Hope this helped.
See you in the comments. See you on the next video.
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