Gentlemen, despite what you might think, coming too fast is not the end of the world. In fact,
depending on how you react and what you do next, this can be still an absolutely wonderful,
exciting and satisfying experience for both of you. So make sure to watch this video till the
end to learn how exactly to handle a situation when you shoot too quickly. My name is Helena
Nista and I make videos that help you have the best sex of your life. And today, I'm going to
tell you exactly what to do if you come too fast. Coming too quickly is obviously frustrating and
not what you typically want to happen in bed. But it does happen whether you suffer from premature
ejaculation or whether you can usually last as long as you want. And when it happens,
there really isn't much you can do to stop it. However, what you do next can make a huge
difference and be a deciding factor whether you both walk away disappointed or deeply satisfied.
So let's see what your options are. The first thing you need to keep in mind is your own
reaction to your early ejaculation. Yes, it's disappointing and not what you wanted. But acting
all frustrated or even pissed off is going to make the situation worse. Why? Because your reaction
will in many cases tell her what to think. Here's what I mean. If you start acting all depressed or
annoyed, you're actually in that moment telling her that what had happened (meaning you shooting
your load too quickly) is in fact a terrible, terrible thing! And when she sees you getting
down on yourself, she'll very likely share the sentiment and feel disappointed. However,
if you make light of the situation and accept it with a sense of peace and a positive attitude,
she'll see that it's no biggie. It happens to the best of us, not the end of the world,
let's move on. Just because your cock is done for now doesn't mean that so is she. Sex isn't
just about in the intercourse and there are many things the two of you can do together to have more
erotic fun. So focus on her and her pleasure. Ask her what she'd like, what she desires,
what would give her the most pleasure in that moment. Because while women do love intercourse,
we also really love other things, particularly if they involve stimulating our clitoris. So go
down on her or stimulate her with your hands and with plenty of lube. Rub your genitals together,
touch, kiss, caress her, give her an erotic massage or fulfil any other wish or desire
that she might have. Yes, a hard-on is awesome and great for thrusting. But penetrating her with your
cock is not what brings most women to orgasm. Depending on your age, stamina, general health,
fitness and a few other factors, you might be able to go again. This is up to you to decide
and if you can - tell her: "honey, Mr Hard-on is going to need to take a little break, but how
about I give you a full body sensual massage while we wait?". And if you can't go again then you're
going to love what I'm going to share with you in point number five. Communication is so important
when it comes to sex. And particularly when it comes to sexual performance and any issues. Early
ejaculation can and does happen and ignoring it is the worst thing that you can do. So talk to her,
express how you feel and what you desire to create in your sex life together. Tell her about your
feelings of frustration, sadness or disappointment when you can't quite perform the way that you'd
like. And ask her what you can do for her, to make her feel good and taken care of sexually speaking.
Don't assume that you know what she's thinking. So many men think that good sex consists of plenty of
fast, intense thrusting. But the truth is that actual real women want a lot more than just a
penis in the vagina action. And talking to her will teach you exactly what your woman desires.
And finally, number five - think ahead. Do you want to never worry about coming early ever,
ever again? Do you want to feel confident that you can last as long as you want every single time? Do
you want to never have to resort to pills, gels or numbing creams or thinking about grandma in order
to last longer? There is something you can do and something in fact that you should do. And that's
learn how to last as long as you want easily and naturally. And yes, every single man can do that,
this is not rocket science and not something that will require any kind of sacrifices from you. In
fact, it's a really enjoyable process where you will learn to use your body and mind differently
in order to teach, train and condition your system to last a lot longer in bed. I've described this
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deeper and deeper into sexual experiences that you haven't even dreamed of. Many men tell
me that they'd love to last 10 or 20 minutes. How about 60 Minutes, 3 hours and beyond? Yes,
this is how powerful tantric practices for men are. And what they can do for your performance
and her satisfaction will blow your mind! And this week, as a part of my Christmas special, you can
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everything that you'll learn in this course will keep benefiting you for the rest of your life.
So if that's what you want, if you never want to come too quickly again, give me a thumbs up and
leave me a comment below with the happiest emoji you can find. I read all the comments and I love,
love responding to them all. Thank you so much for watching and I will see you next week!
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