Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how to be a man: What makes a man irresistible to
his dream girl fast. Can I be really honest with you? You have been told a ton of lies about what
it means to be a man and how to be a man and what it is women actually want. As a certified coach,
today I'm going to be sharing what it really means to be a man and give you a woman's perspective on
how insanely attractive it really is. And the best part is it's going to comfort you a lot
because it's not what you think it is. So do you want to learn what it means to be a man and how to
get a high quality woman? Make sure you watch to the end. Before we dive in if this is your
first time watching one of my videos, my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men
and I teach you how to stop wasting your time and your energy on dead end relationships by learning
the skills you need to attract your dream girl to get that high quality woman. As a certified coach
everything I teach is based on science instead of mind games so make sure you subscribe, ring
the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. I have many men come to me really nervous and
afraid. They have been told these lies about what it means to be a man and it is paralyzing because
they feel like nobody's ever going to love them unless they're fake or pretend or something that
they just aren't. They've been told that they have to be super dominant or that all a woman cares
about is how pleasing you are in the bedroom. They've been told that they have to be super
aggressive or it's all based on how powerful they are or how much they make. And frankly
that's pretty exhausting, don't you think? What I tell them and what I would like to share with you
today is it depends on the type of woman you are looking to attract. I will only ever teach you how
to attract real high quality women. The kind of woman you can spend your life with. The kind of
woman who will be there for you always. She'll be your biggest cheerleader. She'll be crazy
in love with you. You know those cute couples who are insanely in love in their 90s? Yeah,
that's the type of relationship you are looking for and that's why you need a high quality
woman. She's the kind of gal who will laugh with you and cry with you and make wonderful beautiful
memories with you your whole life. In order to attract that high quality woman you need to know
what makes a man irresistible to a high quality woman. And those are the things I'll be sharing
with you today. Now the best part is, pay close attention to this, as a high quality woman she
is working on these areas as well. Obviously, in a feminine way. But she is working on being
as high quality as possible. Which means you don't have to worry about her using you and abusing you.
That's what toxic women do, that is not what high quality women do. Bottom line, the most attractive
thing you can ever be is this type of man. This is what makes her fall in love with you, this is what
makes her stay in love with you, and what makes her want to spend her life with you. With that,
let's get started. Okay, the first thing you need to know about how to be a man
is that part of what makes a man a man is being unselfish. That is not what the world is telling
you. It's all about being powerful and taking what you want. And the truth is anyone can be selfish,
anyone can be self-absorbed, but it takes real strength to be unselfish,
to be selfless. A real man protects the weak and looks out for others. That right there,
that's what makes you feel like a man and that's what makes her see you as a man
and makes her insanely attracted to you. Okay, fun fact: I am a massive fan of the Lord of the Rings
movies and books. Are you too? If you're a fan, you should totally comment and let me
know. I would love to know that. But I adore these shows partially because the men are so masculine.
Aragorn in particular, he may be one of the most masculine characters. And part of what makes
him so masculine is not that he has an amazing sword, although he does have an amazing sword,
but it's what he does with that sword. Aragorn goes out of his way to protect the weak,
to protect the innocent, to help those that he can help. That's what women are really looking for.
Someone who goes out of his way to make the world a better place. Someone she can count on. Now yes,
Aragorn is an orc slayer and we don't really have those in our world. But with that being
said there are plenty of ways to look out for the weak and to be unselfish in today's
society and in today's world. If you want to know how to be a man make sure that you
focus on being unselfish. Okay, the next thing you need to know about how to be a man is that
a man, a real man, has respect. He has respect for himself, and he has respect for others, including
her. He would never take advantage of her or force her to do something she's uncomfortable with.
Because as I mentioned as a high quality woman she would never take advantage of you either. And so
again a lot of men are being told "you have to be super aggressive" and that is going to repel high
quality women and actually attract toxic women. If you saw this video you know that one of the
things that makes a woman think about you non-stop is having a good motive. It's about where your
heart is. PS If you haven't seen that video there is a link in the description below. A real man is
confident enough to lead out in a relationship. He's competent enough to ask her out, to get her
number, to pay for the date, to hold the door open for her. Not because she's not capable of
doing these things, but because he's confident enough to do them. He treats her like a lady
which makes her feel safe with him and makes her trust him and makes her fall in love with him.
She sees that he sees himself as a confident powerful masculine man and that's how she sees him
too. He knows he can handle it and that means the world to her. Now you might be asking "okay,
how do I gain that confidence? How do I make sure I'm good at these things?" Because you want
to make sure you go about that the right way, right? Otherwise, you mess it up and that's not
what you're looking for, is it? It just comes down to having the right dating and relationship skills
and the right game plan. When you have that everything else is very natural.
I have a free masterclass for you on this where I go into much more detail. There's a link in the
description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment. Again it's a totally free
masterclass. Make sure you sign up and watch it today. If you're looking for step-by-step how to
get a high quality woman you're going to want to make sure you watch that masterclass. Okay,
are you ready for my next tip on how to be a man? This tip is to be trustworthy.
I'm going to say something that I know the haters are really going to hate and it's okay.
If you guys know me you know I shoot you straight and I give you the facts and I tell you the truth.
One of the very best if not the most important way to be trustworthy and to attract that high quality
woman is to be morally clean. In my industry I see people all the time telling you that frankly what
she cares about most is how fun you are in the bedroom. That is a big fat lie. If you are talking
about high quality women that is not what is most important to her. If you're talking about a toxic
woman, if you're talking about a woman who just is looking for a one-night fling, well then yes, that
is the most important thing to her. But you don't have to be a real man to attract a toxic woman.
As a matter of fact when you are a real man you will repel toxic women. A real high quality woman,
she cares about you. She wants to fall in love with you. And again I'm gonna say it even though
it's not popular: Guys, do you want to know what makes sex amazing? Love. When you are with the
love of your life. When she knows she can trust you. When she knows who you are and she's crazy
in love with you, yes, she's going to enjoy the bedroom. But more importantly she's in love with
you. She wants to spend her whole life with you. That is how God made this. And I'll be perfectly
honest with you guys, the last thing she wants is a guy who's getting lots of practice. Really?
That's not what she's looking for. She wants to know you are trustworthy. She wants to know you
will be true to her and only her just like she wants to be true to you and only you. She wants
to know that your eyes will never wander. Like I said she wants to know you are trustworthy.
So keep yourself clean. Make sure you are watching clean things, that you never look at inappropriate
things, keep your language clean. A lot of people say "well, real men say four letter words."
High quality women are not interested in that. Because it tells her what's going on in your
head. If you're saying those types of things that's where your mind is too. So just make sure
you're keeping yourself clean and appropriate. That right there, that's what matters to real
women. Now before you panic if this has not been something you've been doing up to this point
start today, okay? Don't panic just start today and show her that that's who you are from this
day forward. Being trustworthy is essential to being a real man. Now my next tip for how
to be a man is realize that taking action is what makes you a leader. It's not about
control. It's not about dominance. It's about taking action. Seeing a problem
and doing something about it. Again Aragorn is a fabulous example of this. Now, a really
interesting thing about Aragorn is, is he perfect? No, he's not perfect and he messes things up and
he does not always have everything figured out and doesn't always have everything under control.
But he takes action anyway. That's why Aragorn is a leader. That's why Aragorn is a good leader. And
that's why Aragorn is so stinking attractive. It's what makes him masculine. It does not always have
to be some big huge dramatic thing. The little things are ultimately what matters the most.
Seeing someone who maybe needs help with their yard, maybe helping someone carry something heavy,
or opening the door, or helping a widow. Something small is actually something big.
So again this isn't about perfection, this is just about actively trying. Okay, my next tip for how
to be a man and what makes a man irresistible to his dream girl is being a gentleman. I've
said it before and I will say it again. If you saw this video you know that being a gentleman is one
of the best ways to attract a woman without even saying anything. This right here means so much to
her. When you hold the door open for her, when you carry the box when it's heavy, when you ask for
her number instead of giving her yours, when you ask her on a date, when you are a gentleman, that
melts her heart. Do you want a lady? Do you want a high quality woman? Then it's very important
that you are a gentleman. Now another way to look at being a gentleman, is being a gentle
man. Again society tries to say "oh, you have to be dominant and aggressive to be a man." The
truth is you are never more a man in her eyes than when you are being gentle and kind and sensitive.
You can be very masculine, very strong, very assertive, while still being gentle. The best men
who have ever lived have been very gentle while still being very powerful. As a matter of fact
anyone can be aggressive, anyone can be arrogant, but it takes real strength to be gentle. So when
you are gentle with her, when you are gentle with others, especially children and animals and those
weaker than yourself, wow, that's what makes her fall in love with you. That's what makes you
a real man in her eyes. All right, let's sum up what you've learned so far about how to be a man
and what makes a man irresistible to his dream girl. Number one is to be unselfish. Remember we
talked about Aragorn and protecting those who are weaker than yourself. That right there makes you a
real man. Next, we talked about having respect for yourself and for her and everybody else. Leading
out in that relationship, being confident enough to pursue and to ask her out and to
be the man. Again if you want more kind of step by step how to attract a high quality woman do
make sure you watch my free masterclass. There is a link in the description below and a link in
the pin to comment. Next up, we talked about being trustworthy. This right here is a deal breaker. If
a man is not trustworthy he's not getting a high quality woman. He's just not. So make sure that
you are morally clean. That you let her know she would never have to worry about you having eyes
for someone else. Let her know that your thoughts are clean and appropriate. Now my next tip on how
to be a man is be someone who takes action. Again Aragorn is another good example. Someone who sees
something and does something about it. That's how you become a leader. And next up, be a gentleman.
Do you want to attract a lady? Then you have to be a gentleman. And make sure that you are
a gentle man. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you enjoyed what you saw be
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links down below. I'd love to connect with you there. Thank you so much again my amazing friend
and thank you so much for the good you do. You guys are amazing, never forget it. Have an amazing
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Yeah. [laughter] I just made that up right now. You're welcome. [laughter]
Oh, that's funny. [sigh] [whispering] It's funny. Oh good, it started recording. That's good.
After all that ceremony I mean it better be recording. Fun fact: I am a massive fan of
the Lord of the Rings movies. Have you seen them? Are you a fan too? Because if you are, you should
comment and let me know. And, you know, we can be nerds together. It's cool. [laughter]
I don't know if I should say that. Do other people think that's a nerd thing? I don't know. Maybe I
won't say that. I don't think it's nerdy. Did you enjoy this video and would you like more videos on
what makes a man and how to be a man? If you would, please confident-
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