think about it like a radio frequency that is tuned to the channel of love now
the sooner you can tune your inner vibration or inner energy to that
frequency of love the sooner you are going to perceive of
that reality on the outside and in this video I'm gonna show you how to do that
fast welcome back to another video my name is Erin and I help people expand
their consciousness now when we're talking about manifesting love and
understanding that we are at our essence that is the energy that we are naturally
and it's important to understand that because when we think that we have this
necessity that we have to have someone else in our life in order for us to feel
loved then we prolong that emotional feeling
and when we prolong that feeling will then go out into the world with the
intention of tracting love but we'll find it hard to find because we're not
in that actual frequency ourselves we can only perceive that which we are the
vibration of that which we are the energy of and with we're feeling a lack
of love than what it's gonna happen is we're gonna go out into the world
projecting out an energy that says I don't feel love I feel a lack of love
because when we want something we vibrationally are saying we don't have
it energetically we're saying that and when we switch that energy around and we
instead feel it on the inside first that's when we're going to perceive of
it in our reality and for that there's one quick thing that I've learned that
makes all the difference in the world and to do that let's go ahead and look
at our handy-dandy notebook in there alright now to show this idea I thought
I would come in here and show you my handy-dandy notebook and on it at the
table you see rules of love now I'll tell you first off right now as well
anytime I've intended to attract love into my life
the more I really really wanted it the more I would be thinking about this
other person the more I would be sending that person resistant energy because in
my mind and in my own head about it thinking oh I wish they were in my life
that caused a lot of resistance the game changed for me when I let go and
understood that I good either way whether I have someone
in my life that's reflecting back that love or whether I fill up my own cup the
most important thing is how do I feel about myself now the reason behind this
is because many of us have rules that say when someone else is in my life then
I can be happy that's also something that came from Disney movies we go we
see Snow White in the Seven Dwarfs and she's got Seven Dwarfs that love her but
no she's got to have the love of some prince you see what I mean can she have
it all because the rule in her own mind was no I can't have these Seven Dwarfs I
need this one Prince think about how ridiculous that is how high standards
Snow White had and how that primed all of us to believe that we need that
special someone that if we just had them then we could finally feel whole and
complete you see it becomes this never-ending cycle and we've been
conditioned to believe that's what we need to be happy and we look into that
into the world and that's what we assume and understand that this is honestly one
of the most powerful parts about attracting love that we must understand
story what is your story about love what is this story about how you attract love
into your life what is the story about how you feel self love for yourself if
you're highly critical of yourself you'll find it harder to love yourself
the more rules we have about what it takes to love ourselves the harder it is
to love ourselves and we're like oh well I have to be perfect I have to have the
perfect job I have to do this every day and this this this and this and then I
can love myself you're prolonging that emotion and remember think of this like
500 FM if that's a radio station 500 FM is love you want to tune to love how
quickly can you feel love within yourself I used to work with someone I
told this story once or twice before but I used to work with somebody that had a
that she would never get hit on by guys and what would happen is the the week
she gets into a relationship or starts dating someone else she then gets hit on
by like eight guys in one week when prior to that she'd said it
eight guys in six months what is the difference there the difference is the
rule in her mind that said now I'm with someone that's reflecting this
appreciation back to me and now I give myself permission diff you love I have a
rule that's been met a blueprint that's been met in my mind now I'm going to
exude out love and guess what guy after guy after guy in one day will be hitting
on her asking her out all that changed was a blueprint in her mind was met and
she decided okay now I can feel self-love so that's how it works though
if we can feel the self-love first then those things will happen faster happens
so much faster I've seen it happen in so many people's lives and even my own life
the more I feel self-love the more I feel gratitude for myself the more I
appreciate myself and the more I also do this one thing I'm going to share with
it with you over there oh wow look it's a new environment yay even more fun so
the one thing that you must do is make it natural for you to feel loved view
yourself as loving yourself plus seeing other people as loving you as natural
for your current self image now here's the thing imagine that you think of
someone and you're like whoa this person is a 10 out of 10 on a scale of 1 to 10
they're just to cry the the Primeau the the top of the bats whatever you want to
call it in your mind you think of them up here on a pedestal and you're like
will mean I'm like a 5 and that's the self-image you're projecting out when
you talk to that person the frame is you are amazing I really hope everything
goes well and remember if you treat someone like a celebrity they're gonna
treat you like a fan it's just how the energy dynamic goes so when that happens
they feel that resistance you feel that resistance and then it becomes something
that isn't natural the key is seeing it as natural putting yourself at the same
level everyone else at the same level we have this this idea in our mind about
how we rank people and it's something that's been conditioned into us but when
you let go of that ranking you're then able to see things as more
natural and anytime I've done this in my old life I get amazing results now
whether that was me attracting this house for example which now I live in
and it's it's I just moved in like two weeks ago and I'm not trying to flaunt
it or anything like look at me look how cool I am but I see this as natural for
me I don't see this as oh my gosh this just be amazing because if I did then
the energy wouldn't be in alignment everything got into place because I
viewed this as natural for my current self-image
I'm somebody that creates content that helps people and as a side effect of
that I get to live in a nice house because I see that as natural now same
thing with love attracting love into your life see it as natural for you to
love yourself see it as natural and have it be a part of your self-image become
aware of your self-image - about love what is your self-image regarding love
and yourself are you and what is your story about love do you think oh I
always attract a certain type of guy into my life I always attract certain
type of girl into my life or I always attract some type of you know
emotionally unavailable person or they always like to control me for the
longest time I had my own beliefs about this because what happened was my dad I
saw go through two divorces I started to associate pain with getting married
because I saw that it always ended up in divorce at least that's the way appeared
to me and I found myself resisting even relationships sometimes because I love
freedom so much I started to associate relationships with that of loss of
freedom therefore I would I would find myself resisting a relationship now on
one hand be aware of your story about that because maybe on one hand you're
like I want a relationship I want to manifest love but maybe part of you is
afraid that if you do manifest love that you're gonna lose your yourself you're
gonna lose your own freedom you're going to be told what to do maybe you had a
parent that was very nitpicky and was telling you what to do when you were a
kid the point of what I'm sharing today is understanding your story about love
understanding your story about who you are and understanding the rules you take
for what it takes for you to feel loved for you now and one of the best ways to
feel love now is for you to focus more on being who you are and also
doing what you are passionate about when you are in your passion it doesn't seem
related but it relates to so many different areas of life when you are
doing something you're passionate about you are in your court energy that's who
you really are then you can attract someone that reflects that back to you
and that's almost a one-on-one reflection because you're putting out
the authentic core of who you are remember you always get a reflection of
who you are being and if you're being someone that's not loving yourself you
might attract someone else that can't really truly love you
that doesn't have that capacity because maybe they don't feel that self-love
within themselves so the key to this video and understanding manifesting love
fast is how quickly can you realize that the source of love is actually within
you you are putting out a core energy you are putting out a core frequency and
just like a radio dial if you tune yourself to that of 500 let's say 500 fm
if your inner alignment is at that frequency what you'll find is other
people pick up on that as well it's literally a contagious energy people
will find more more ways to appreciate that in you within you and let me show
you one other thing that's really important to understand what this and
it's the thing that a lot of people miss even myself adopt for the longest time
there were certain insecurities I had about myself what you want to do is
whatever your flaws are you want to own them you want to own your flaws people
feel what you feel about yourself people feel if you if you are like
self-conscious about it even when I started making YouTube videos if I was
like all I'm talking about some esoteric idea well you guys like it I hope you
guys really like it please like it it's very important that you respond in a
certain way it's an energy of resistance but if instead if I just own it I'm like
this is what I'm talking about today this is what I love talking about this
is who I really am you feel that on the other side of it and you're more open to
it you see people feel what you feel what
if somebody was afraid let's say afraid that they were let's say they were
afraid that they were from a certain culture they were afraid they're from
India something like that and they thought
that they like meditation maybe maybe not maybe that's just a stereotype but
in general maybe part of the culture is they love meditation they love eating
certain types of food and they're like this is going to be weird to people this
is gonna people might think it's weird if I'm in the United States and this is
the way it is but if instead imagine they just own it but like I love
meditation I love this or whatever it is and they just own it or they like some
weird rock group grant ban I like like spiritual music like enigma you've heard
of them or Enya kind of girly music a little bit but I own it
this is what I like I like the spiritual music for me connects me into myself and
I love that and the more I own my own things that I think people will judge me
for the more I self-love myself and the more I own it and what am i when I'm
putting out that frequency that I love myself I putting out that frequency of
love then what happens is I end up attracting more and more people to
reflect that emotion back to me so the main key to this video is feeling
self-love for yourself and you might say well how do I feel more self-love you
feel gratitude for who you are and you own who you are and you realize that you
might have all these reasons understand when we talk about the tart of
consciousness which you've if you've never heard before I have videos on it
I'll link one of the videos that explains the cut the chart of
consciousness below but the chart of consciousness 500 and above you have
shame fear guilt then you have reasoning love joy peace and enlightenment as you
raise your vibration you start to feel better and better and it's more in
alignment with who you are the level of love is above that of reasoning what
reasons do you have what rules do you have for love and if you get rid of
those rules guess what ends up happening you feel
self-love now don't have it's it's like love isn't about something that you
actually have to necessarily do it's something you just let go of what
doesn't serve and it naturally surfaces because love is who you are so this is a
shift in paradigm this is a shift in that perspective but understand that the
more you tap into your own self-love the more you feel that emotion the more your
life will change and if you haven't seen that attract love meditation that I have
it's the most popular video I have on my youtube channel or the
second most popular one it's got 1.6 million views it's insane how many
people in the comments have said they've attracted love from that meditation and
listening to it for 21 days so if you want to attract love read the comments
it will increase the belief that you see is possible for you listen to it for 21
days realize you are loved and watch you attract love faster than you can even
imagine so would that being said I hope you enjoyed this video peace much love
and namaste