Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on what makes a man attractive female
psychology attraction. If you want to know how to attract girls and what makes a man attractive
according to science then you are in the right spot. And, little bit of a spoiler, it is not
what you think it is. And here's the important part: If you think it's something that it's not,
which most people do, and you put all your energy into that, you're going to be really frustrated
and you're going to get rejected a lot. So it's very important that you actually understand female
psychology and what is most attractive to her. So make sure you pay close attention and watch to
the end. Before we dive in, my name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I teach you
how to stop wasting your time and energy on bad relationships and dead end relationships
by learning the skills you need to instead get the girl of your dreams. The best part
is I'm a certified coach. And, guys, I teach you science. I do not teach you mind games. So
make sure to subscribe, ring the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. With that,
let's dive in. The first thing you need to know is that women think very differently from men. Now,
you're probably thinking "duh. That's super obvious," right? Here's the deal though:
Most people know that, most people know "well, men and women think differently," but
we don't really consciously realize it. If you approach attracting women
assuming that she thinks the same way you think and that she's attracted the same way you are
attracted you're going to be frustrated and you're going to get rejected a lot and attracting women
isn't really going to work for you. This is why today we'll be covering the science of attraction
female psychology and attraction. This, guys, this, is what women really want. I did also
want to mention real fast if you have not yet seen this video do make sure you also watch that one.
It's going to give you a woman's perspective on what it means to be a man and what is so
insanely attractive to her. So there is a link to watch that in the description below.
Make sure you also give that video a watch. It's going to blow your mind. Okay, the first
thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive and female psychology is that women
are more cautious than men, generally speaking. If you've been following my channel for a while
you guys know I am very open and honest with you and very transparent. And we talk
about toxic women and how you should never, ever, ever date toxic women. So going forward
let's just establish that I'm not talking about toxic women here, okay? I'm talking
about real women. The kind of woman you would want to spend the rest of your life with. When it comes
to those types of women, those high quality women, guys, she does not want to hurt you,
ever. She would never want to do that. And she's not trying to be a jerk. In general though women
are more cautious with relationships than men. And it's because women are more vulnerable than men.
She kind of has more to lose. Every woman lives in fear of falling in love with a man, marrying
a man, having his children, and having him leave her. Women are much more vulnerable physically.
You obviously are much stronger than she is. And if there's anything that makes her feel
uncomfortable, makes her feel awkward, makes her scared, or makes her feel like this is a bad bet,
she's done, she's not going there, because she's very very cautious, she's trying to protect
herself and protect future children. So just understand that she is not trying to be a jerk,
guys. She is not. She's just, this is how God made us, this is female psychology, women
are very cautious when approaching a potential relationship. So how do you work around this? How
do you still make sure you get your dream girl and help her realize that she is safe with you? As a
coach, this is why I teach dating and relationship skills. This is why I teach it in my program,
this is why I teach it to my clients, this is why it is so effective. As long as you have the right
dating and relationship skills you are able to still show her that she's safe with you, that she
can trust you. So it's not something that's going to stop you from getting your ideal relationship,
just realize that that's where she's coming from mentally. She's cautious, she wants to make sure
this is okay. Make sense? Okay, the next thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive
to a woman is social competence. I'm gonna be completely transparent here, we all know this.
No one really wants to be in a relationship with someone or be around someone who's
awkward socially, right? Nobody wants to feel embarrassed or awkward. On the flip side though,
when someone is very skilled socially, when they know what they're doing and they're very competent
in that area, they're really attractive, right? You want to be around them more.
This is 100% true when it comes to women. She is attracted to a man who is very very competent
socially. This is why I teach that attraction is skill based. Anyone can learn dating and
relationship skills, right? The men who do learn those skills and who apply those skills
are insanely attractive to her. The men who do not learn those skills,
well, they aren't. It's really sad because society does not teach these skills. And that leaves a lot
of people struggling in relationships. They have to just rely on what they hear in popular songs
or what they see on TV or what they learned in high school. And those things don't work
in the real world. This causes so many people to be frustrated and feel like maybe they're broken,
when in reality it's just that they don't have the skills that they need. So if you get rejected or
ghosted a lot or if you're in the friend zone a lot or if your relationships never go anywhere,
they go really well for a while and then it just ends up in another breakup,
or if you're struggling to attract the types of women you actually want to date,
those are all signs that you don't have the skills you need and you need to learn the right skills.
I have a free masterclass where I teach you more about these things, about why you end up in the
friend zone, why your relationships don't go well, and why those things happen and what to do instead
so that you can get your dream relationship. Do make sure you watch that free masterclass.
There's a link in the description below. I will also put a link in the pinned comment. If you want
to just get to the part where you get the girl and you want to fast track it to success
you need to make sure you watch that masterclass like right now. Again there's a link in the
description below. Okay, the next thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive
and female psychology is we are attracted to people who are like us. That just makes sense,
right? We feel like they understand us, we feel like we can trust them, we are attracted to people
who are like we are. You certainly feel much more connected to someone who understands you, right?
Who gets you. That just makes sense. This is why, when she has a lot to offer, she is attracted to
a man who has a lot to offer. If she has dating and relationship skills, if she's very competent
and very skilled socially, she is attracted to a man who is as well. The same is true of kindness,
of your level of intelligence, of the things you enjoy doing. We are attracted to people who
are like us. This is why if you want a 10 out of 10, you need to make sure you have the skills to
attract a 10 out of 10. Okay, guys, I want to hear from you in the comments. Is this making sense
so far? And are you enjoying learning what it is that makes a man attractive and understanding
female psychology? If you would like more videos on this please comment "boss!" in the comments
below. It helps me so much to get your guys's comments. So please, if you want more on this,
let me know. And if you have any further suggestions or questions leave those in the
comments as well. Okay, the next thing you need to know about what makes a man attractive is probably
really going to surprise you. So hold on to your seat. Physical attraction is important to her,
but it is not as important to her as other traits. Women want someone who is physically attractive,
okay? As a matter of fact, if she didn't, she'd be kind of weird.
Let's be real. Everybody wants someone that they are physically attracted to.
That's how God made it. There's nothing wrong with that. However, women actually have other things
that are more important to them than physical attraction. One mistake that a lot of men
make, this is one of the most common mistakes, is they, you know, think like a guy and think "well,
physical attraction is so important. I'm gonna spend all my time making sure I'm super ripped
and look amazing." And the truth is, well, yeah, she wants someone who's attractive.
So that gets her attention initially, but then she gets to know him better and he's put all his focus
on looking attractive and no focus on learning dating and relationship skills and she feels
awkward when she's around him, or maybe he's needy or he's too aggressive, whatever it is. And so she
loses interest very quickly and the relationship dies. So if you are someone who you're like "wow,
I'm really attractive. Everybody tells me I'm really attractive. I have no problem
getting a girl's number or getting the first date, but then it dies," this is your problem.
And that free masterclass I told you about earlier, that is going to help you so much, you
need to watch it right now. There is a link in the description below. Give it a watch if you're sick
of your relationships going nowhere. So the biggest thing to remember with this tip, guys,
is yes, make sure you are physically attractive. And that really just comes down to taking care
of yourself. That's what makes you physically attractive. However, do not neglect the other
more important things to a woman like those solid dating and relationship skills. Okay,
let's sum up what you have learned so far about what makes a man attractive and female psychology.
The first thing you need to know is that women are more cautious than men. She's not trying to
be a jerk. She's very very vulnerable as a woman, she thinks differently as a woman, and so she is
going to be more cautious which is why you just need to make sure that you do have those dating
and relationship skills. Do make sure you watch that free masterclass to learn more about this.
The second thing you need to know is that social competence is very attractive and very important
to women. As humans, we are attracted to people who are socially really competent, people who have
those solid dating and relationship skills. If you want to completely wow her and melt her heart
make sure that you have those skills. Next up, we are attracted to people who are like us. Have
you ever heard the saying "water meets its own level"? If she's up here with her competence she
is looking for someone who is up here with his competence or intelligence or whatever it is.
So you've got to make sure that you are rising to the same level of what it is you want. If you
want a 10 out of 10, make sure you have the skills to be a 10 out of 10. Because again,
attraction is skill based. When you have those skills you are insanely attractive. And remember
that physical attraction is very important to her, but it is not as important to her as other
traits. So be very careful that you do not solely focus on being physically attractive. You have
to make sure that you also have the other traits women are looking for in a man. Thank you so much
for watching my wonderful friend! If you learned something new be sure to give me a big thumbs up
and subscribe and ring the notification bell if you haven't yet. I want to hear from you in the
comments. Which one of these things surprised you the most? Which did you not see coming? Tell me in
the comments. And again if you would like more videos like this one on female psychology and
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There are links to that in the description below. Thank you so much again for watching my amazing
friend and have an amazing day! [blooper beep] Let's do this. [silly singing] If you want to
know how to attract girls and what makes a man attractive according to scpi- [laughter] I think
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