Alright, a lot of you guys in high school and college are always blowing up my DMs asking
how to approach that cute girl at school so today I’m gonna break it down for you real
quick because this shit is REALLY simple.
But before we get into that, I want you to imagine the girl in your class that you want
to approach
Ready?
Ok, here we go.
#1 Try to sit next to her in class
This one is simple but it’s also the EASIEST way to strike up a conversation with her.
Once you position yourself next to her, it increases the chances that she’ll notice
you and you’ll be on her radar.
And if you’re well dressed and stylish like you should be, sitting next to her will easily
grab her attention and separate you from everyone else.
You don’t even need to say anything the first time you sit next to her or even the
first few times you sit next to her.
Just sitting next to her enough times will make her notice you AND it’ll make her subconsciously
more comfortable with you since you’ll become familiar to her.
Now don’t use this as a way to procrastinate talking to her for the whole year and then
once school is over you’re going on youtube and complaining that it’s impossible to
get girls.
You can and should talk to her literally the first time you sit next to her by using this
next tip.
#2 Make a comment about what’s going on in class.
If the teacher says something weird or anything even remotely interesting happens, just turn
to her and make a comment about it.
She won’t see it as weird or unnatural since you’re sitting next to her and it makes
sense that you’d make a comment to her because you guys are right next to each other.
This is why I recommend sitting next to her because it makes this step WAY easier.
If you’re sitting next to someone or standing next to someone and something happens, it’s
natural to turn and say something about it, but if you’re on the other side of the room,
you can’t just yell across the room and be like “HEY JULIE DID YOU SEE WHAT JUST
HAPPENED?
THAT WAS SO WEIRD RIGHT?”
NO of course you can’t do that.
So do your best to sit next to her.
The benefit of sitting next to her is also that you don’t have to rush into getting
her number.
You can build up the interactions and make her comfortable with you by talking to her
a few times in class before getting her number.
Knowing that you’ll see her again in the future is an easy way to take the initial
pressure off of trying to get the number and can allow you to focus on just talking to
her normally and building the interaction.
This way you can calm your nerves and just focus on doing one thing at a time.
It’s easier to get the courage to just make a comment in class one day, then to go up
to her, start a conversation, talk a little, get her interested, and get her number.
I know just thinking about that makes your palm sweat and gets you all nervous and anxious.
And if you’re gonna be sweating when you approach her you wanna make sure you cut that
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she’d like you.
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#3 Just ask for her number.
If you’re in the same class and you’ve talked to her a few times, just mention an
assignment and ask her for her number so you guys can help each other out with it.
This is probably the easiest and most organic way to ask for it because if you guys are
gonna be helping each other out with notes and studying, then she has an incentive to
give you her number so don’t be afraid to just ask for it.
It’s really not that weird to get a girl’s number to discuss shit going on in class and
she won’t think it’s a big deal either.
#4 If you can’t sit next to her for whatever reason OR she’s not in your class then you’re
gonna have to man up and cold approach.
If she’s in your class but you can’t sit next to her then just follow step 3 and mention
an assignment to her, then go for the number.
Otherwise, you just gotta man up and do it.
When I was in school I used to be hesitant about cold approaching but an easy way to
approach her is to literally just go up to her and introduce yourself.
I actually found a lot of success in doing this because although it’s not common for
guys to do this, it actually helps separate you from all the other guys who are too scared
to do it.
Cold approaches also help make your intentions clear from the start and will avoid you getting
friendzoned because if you just randomly approach a girl at school and start talking to her
and eventually get her number at the end of the convo then of course she’s gonna know
you’re doing it because you’re interested in her romantically.
An easy thing you can do to start the conversation is just make a comment about your surroundings
like I said before BUT if you can’t think of anything or there’s nothing to make a
comment about, just go up to her and say “Excuse me, what’s your name?”
and then the conversation will flow naturally from there.
You can ask her about her classes, what hobbies she has, or just straight up say “I honestly
just thought you were cute and wanted to get your number.”
This method is straight up and will either give you a yes or a no so you won’t have
to waste any time.
This is also good if you have a really poppin instagram because if you exchange instagrams
and she sees you’re a really interesting guy then that’ll do a lot of the work for
you.
As long as you’re confident, approaching it in a cool way, and smiling then she’ll
either be down and continue the conversation or she’ll make it clear that she’s not
interested and boom you got your answer without needing to waste brain space day dreaming
about having sex with a girl you never talked to.
#5 Get a mutual friend to introduce you guys.
This is a really easy way to organically meet a girl, but it requires you to be friends
with guys who are good at getting girls and meeting a lot of them.
So you basically have two options, either be really good friends with that guy or become
that guy.
It’s up to you to decide.
If you’re Based as fuck like me, then you can be that guy AND make friends with other
guys like that so that way you’ll always have a good pool of girls to talk to.
And that’s it.
In summary:
Sit next to her in class Make a comment about something in class
Just ask for her number Man up and cold approach
Get a mutual friend to introduce you
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