Hey there.
It's Clay and today I want to talk about how you know if your Ex is thinking about getting
back together with you.
OK.
So I got a question recently that somebody was wondering how do you know if you actually
think about getting back together with you.
And you know when you look a little bit deeper at this question it's kind of like one of
those things where you are looking for signs and you know yeah I have any videos on on
signs that your Ex is interested in you or whatever.
However beneath that is this sort of insecurity it's like well you know I don't trust myself
I don't trust what I want or I think that this is just like some sort of gamble of the
odds like this is just some like spin of the roulette wheel in Las Vegas or something and
like if my odds of getting my ex back were like 42 percent then and then I'm going to
give up.
But if it's like 78 percent then sure I'll stay in.
And like obviously you can't calculate that stuff.
But what I really want to share with you today is the power of your own conviction.
OK.
Because the odds of you getting back together are basically irrelevant because they're based
on how convicted you are towards getting back together with your acts.
You know if you're willing to give up at the first sign of resistance or trouble or defeat
or anything like that then yeah your chances of getting back together are going to be really
low.
But if you know that you love this person and you will do whatever it takes to get through
to them and to really just kind of push it until either you do get back to you with them
or they tell you to never talk to them again then yeah your odds are going to be significantly
higher because you are going to have that drive that determination that that focus that
that motivation to push through those difficult times to keep going.
And in fact it's really irrelevant whether or not your ex is thinking about getting back
together with you or not.
Because the way that you bring yourself to them is going to transform their opinion of
you.
OK so kind of you know if you do have that conviction if you do have that conviction
and you master some of these things that we talk about like the Advanced relational skills
you're going to be able to completely change their opinion of you just by your mere presence
just by the way you behave and respond to them in the moment.
And that alone is going to change whether or not they're thinking about getting back
together with you.
So you know it's not like you're just this static thing and you're just sort of like
moving through space like a silent comet or something like that.
And you know it's just like calculating the odds about whether or not you'll collide with
a planet or Earth or something like that.
It's not about that at all it's how you behave actually influences the things around you
OK.
It influences the things around you so it's not like you're like this static object and
your ex is either thinking about getting back together with you or not you are a dynamic
object you can transform the way that you interact with the world around you when you
interact with you acts the way you interact with yourself with you live your life and
that alone can change the way that your ex is thinking about you.
OK.
And I want you to really keep that in mind because it really doesn't matter whether or
not your X is thinking about getting back together with you because you can change that
through your actions through your behaviors through the way that you are being.
I want you to always remember that.
OK.
So again if this is something that you'd like help with please go ahead.
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Thank you.