excusing hi this is really random but I walked by earlier and I saw you and I
just thought it'd be a good idea to say I do
oh yeah like yeah like yeah like a second ago
ok and I just thought you're absolutely adorable
thank you i'm matt
hey whats up guys mad artist in here from the attractive man . com coming at
you from rio de janeiro brazil with my friend Colin here and we're going to
approach some women on the beach
so i'm going to go over the differences and approaching woman on the beach vs
any other scenario like walking on the street and the mall or even a club
because there are some differences
the bulk of the interaction is going to be the same as far as start off with
showing your intent right away
complementing qualifying and close i'm not going to go over all of that in this
video because you can watch some of the other videos so to see the explanation
exactly what to do and how to steer the conversation so that you spark the most
amount of attraction as possible right away and get her to start qualifying
herself to you and start chasing you so watch some of the other videos for that
in this video I'm going to show you the difference what to do in a beach
scenario
so the difference in a beach type scenario like this or park would be
another example where somebody could be laying down on the ground or in this
case on the sand is that the girl is going to be very low compared to where
you are right you're gonna be walking up if I walk up like this and I just start
talking to our lovely model here
it's pretty weird she's way down there she's gonna look up its gonna hurt her
neck
it's just weird she's looking up for like my crotch it's just kind of strange
right
but if I come in and I'm just like hey hi what's your name
that's kind of weird too because like right away i'm sitting next to her and
she might think oh god who's this guy he's going to be here for a long time
right in the beginning you don't want her to think that you're going to be
there for a long time
you can create a defense because she could be thinking like I don't want to
talk to this guy don't know where this guy is yet
I don't know if I want to speak to him for a long time so in the beginning you
want to seem like you're going to leave pretty quickly
so i recommend go down on one knee
because this seems like you're going to leave right away this isn't this isn't
really that comfortable like right i can leave very quickly and so she tells me
all my boyfriend's right over there or something like that or she's just
totally not into it
I can leave really easily it's very easy to leave if I could just just get up so
I go hey real quick and I'm about this far away i don't want to be too close i
don't want to be too far right this is good because we can shake hands
if I'm like way back here it seems like I'm afraid of her if I'm any closer it
could be a little creepy
so about this distance this is about what a yard like a meter about 3 feet so
I can be like hey real quick
this is totally random but I just saw you as i was walking by and I just
thought it was a good idea to come over and say hi hi I'm Matt passion
nice to meet you so what I'm going to do is I'm going to time constraint I'm
going to tell her like hey listen I gotta go in a second but while I'm doing
that I'm going to sit
just watch hi nice to meet you so listen I have to go in like two seconds but
before I go tell me one interesting thing about you
I don't know anything about you I'm like locked-in out now much more comfortable
here because if i stay on my knee
the whole time it's uncomfortable like she's laying down she's really
comfortable i'm on my knee like trying to balance its not comfortable right you
want to be comfortable because if you stay in an uncomfortable position while
you're talking to a girl for like two three four minutes then it's low value
because why would you put yourself in an uncomfortable situation for that amount
of time just to talk to a girl it doesn't really make sense so you want to
be comfortable see now i'm comfortable now we can have we can have
casual conversation and I went right into qualifies and tell me something
interesting about you find out if she's a girl you would actually want to dance
that's the whole goal of the approach find out if she's worthy of you
listen I have to go in like two seconds but before I go
you seem like an interesting person tell me
one cool thing about you besides you need it will grab a drink or something
later
ok i'll text you okay alright so i just didn't approach
went pretty well now home yet I like to acknowledge the reality so like saying
something like hey this is really random i know you're meditating
that's cool i think with my dick yeah when I approached or whatever it is that
she's doing she was super eyes are closely things is that I have your
sleeping i know it's so rudely enough to go
got it so something that's going on that acknowledges what they're doing or or
what's happening in the environment or something like that
exactly you acknowledge the reality it's whatever situation she's in
especially if it's kind of rude it just uses it not going to find it
so rude anymore because you
acknowledged that it is really yeah you know you're doing the gluteus about it
yeah you're cognizant of your rudeness and what's the objective like something
like this ad at a beach
they're down you know they're laying down
what's the ultimate objective like is it to get their number and you want to take
off or you know ideally would you want to hang out and chill out with them on
the beach
first objective when you see a beautiful woman yeah it's not to get anything out
of it
it's not to get something from her it's not to get her phone number
it's not to get a date it's not to get sex it's not anything not to attract her
a winner over
it's the see if she meets your standards moon god is that because that's going to
help your mentality
it's your the price Giada rise she could be a slug of model laying on the beach
but it flips the script if you see her as like oh my god she's so hot and then
you will talk to her you can have that kind of energy in this community creepy
but if you don't have the energy of like oh she's pretty
then we'll find out if she's cool let's see for a person that her personality
matches it looks even going to be just a much better energy you can be more
relaxed more
it and you can be qualifying her yeah that makes sense
so the first objective is to see if she's cool once you find out then you
can get her phone number if she's busy set up a day later highlight to do is
get her phone number
first so you always know that you have something you did you at the minimum you
have a phone number in case because it's and it's a smaller exactly and it's
smaller request like a number is no big deal but saying hey like her committing
to coffee
yeah good deal because that's like actual time right there's nothing but it
isn't but it's still a commitment as opposed to nothing as opposed to not
getting the phone number it looks like it's a small commitment like a yes
ladder yeah
yes we remember then you say after your phone number said what are you doing
right now yeah grab a drink
hi how are you I saw you guys are you guys concern is it going to start
raining all day I must to Camilla
yeah I'm on days where to go so you go you know
tamanna me , knows you not know the Romans please approach
already got the number and rejoin the group actually hi what up