Motherfuckers love overcomplicating.
I know someone who does this.
I make a suggestion, and the first thing he does is come up with a list of reasons why
he CAN'T do it, why it WON'T work, and all that.
Like what the fuck kind of bullshit ass attitude is that?
How about just motherfuckin DOIN IT.
Just DO IT.
Just god damn do it already, if you want to do something, just god damn do it, just god
damn do it.
And I am god, so I'm allowed to use my name in vain and it doesn't count as swearing.
Just god damn do it.
Humans like to make stuff complicated.
Look at politics.
Nothing ever gets done.
Takes em like 20 fuckin years to do something that you can do in a few minutes.
And that's being generous!
Speaking as an infinitely-year-old immortal, I see the same shit over and over, nothing
ever gets done, nothing ever happens, everybody always has excuses why they can't do shit,
nobody ever has reasons why they CAN do shit.
Just shut the fuck up and do it!
If something needs to be done, just fuckin do it!
Oh my GOD.
Look at guys who try to learn dating advice.
It's always so complicated.
"She texted me 7.5 times in the past 6 hours so that averages out to 0.8 texts per hour
which means if I want to appear Alpha I need to text her less than or equal to a rate of
0.8 times per hour" OH MY GOD SHUT UP.
"She's standing approximately 2.6 feet away from me and angled 85 degrees towards me while
playing with her hair with 3 fingers - not 4! - and she's" OH MY GOD SHUT UP.
Stop it.
Just stop all that.
Look.
Speaking as the biggest alpha in the universe - yeah that's me muthafucka - something I've
learned is to stop stressing about all the little details and ignoring the big picture.
The big picture is where it's at.
Look at the big picture.
What are the main ideas - or what is THE main idea?
What is the GOAL?
Is what you're doing in line with your goal?
This is one of my favorite quotes: "How will this thought or action contribute to, or interfere
with, the achievement, by me, of my Final End?"
And by Final End I mean ultimate goal, like does it contribute to your goal or not.
If it adds to your goal, do it.
If it doesn't add to your goal, don't do it.
I feel like this list should have another bulletpoint, but that's pretty much it.
So in the example of the guy dating and analyzing everything.
Being stressed out - doesn't add to his goal.
Wasting tons of time worrying - doesn't add to his goal.
Living in fear - doesn't add to his goal.
Procrastinating - doesn't add to his goal.
Putting off his approach because he's scared - doesn't add to his goal.
But just saying fuck it and approaching - that DOES add to his goal - regardless of the outcome,
he's gonna move closer to his goal, because he's either gonna get her right then, or he's
gonna learn something useful.
Let's look at that quote again.
"How will this thought or action contribute to, or interfere with, the achievement, by
me, of my Final End?"
Does what you're doing contribute to your goal?
Does what you're doing interfere with your goal?
These are the only 2 possibilities for any given action.
And if you think something is "neutral" and you're gonna use that as an excuse to say
it doesn't matter - no, nothing is neutral, everything either adds to your goal or it
interferes with it.
It's not like some open-ended thing where "well I'll achieve my goal in like 5000 years"
fuck that, I'm trying to achieve my goals NOW.
RIGHT NOW.
I'm doing it NOW.
So if you're wasting time and bullshitting, that counts as interferring with it.
1) Everything you do should be in line with your goal.
2) Don't think about why you CAN'T do something.
Think about how you CAN do it.
Another thing is, don't waste time.
Like I said, every unit of time either adds to your goal or it doesn't.
And if you're grinding and working all day every day so you can make money and buy a
Rolex or an Audemars to show off only to be surprised when practically nobody even gives
a shit - bruh, you doin it wrong.
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This brings me to my next point.
If you’re into a girl, you’ve been texting a bit back and forth or maybe you have her
on snapchat or something but you want to hangout with her so you can hook up with her and see
if she’s potential girlfriend material…
What do you do?
You spend 2 weeks overthinking what to do, if you should ask her to hangout, when to
ask her to hangout, wondering if she likes you or if she’ll even say yes to your invitation.
Do you see how stupid this logic is?
Yet, this is what most guys do.
Most guys are plagued with inaction and they’ll complicate every situation they have with
girls and end up doing nothing in the end.
Action, is 1 million times better than inaction.
Speed is better than slow-paced.
If you see a girl you think is cute, just go up and introduce yourself to her, get her
number, start texting her for a few days then ask her to hangout.
Boom.
You’ve successfully gone on a date.
Worst case she says no from the start and that’s a win for you too because then you
didn’t waste time wondering if she’d say yes, you just acted and got a response.
If you’re into a girl, text her for a few days to build momentum and then just ask her
to hangout.
That’s it.
99% of the questions I get from guys are long ass paragraphs that can be totally simplified
by doing the following.
Ask the girl to hangout with you after a few days of talking / texting / snapchatting / whatever
the fuck the kids are doing these days.
If she rejects the first time, then ask her again a week later and if she rejects you
twice, then just move on and stop talking to her because she’s obviously not that
into you.
And in case she is into you, you totally moving on from her will actually make her like you
more because she’ll feel like she’s losing you so she’ll end up chasing you anyways.
And again, that simplifies everything for you as well.
Literally just asking the girl to hangout will simplify your dating game so much so
this way you don’t have to waste time thinking about the girl for hours.
You see that?
I just simplified your entire dating life for you.
That’s some real God shit.
And that's it.
This is a shorter video than usual.
Because it's actually a simple topic.
If you want to do something - do it.
If you have something to do - do it.
If something contributes to your goal - do it.
If it doesn't - don't do it.
Train yourself to be in this mindset ALL THE TIME.
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You don't need little motivational tricks, because at the end of the day, motivation
is just about deciding to either DO IT, or not do it.
Do it.
"Hey girl, you wanna do it?"