How do you deal with rude people, with people who attack you verbally?
How do you deal with that elegantly, without losing your face, without embarrassing yourself
or take on an approach that you later will regret?
Dealing with any form of negativity, hate, rudeness,
it's tricky.
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So how to deal with rudeness?
It really depends on what form and what way and from whom you receive the rudeness from.
Are you receiving it in person?
Are you receiving it online?
Just that itself can make you want to treat it a little bit differently.
If it's rudeness online from people that you don't know then you just
simply ignore it!
Why open up a conversation?
Their opinions do not matter.
Their opinions means nothing to you.
So for that reason you just carry on
and press delete or block or however you feel like ignoring it.
Engaging in the negativity is opening up the door and letting people in who cannot behave
in an elegant way, who behave in a very uneducated way.
And you don't want to have to deal with people or even just their energy.
So it's really important
that you keep your doors shut and do not engage or let any of those
uneducated people into your energy fields, very important.
Now if this happens in real life, if somebody's rude to you,
then you have to also reevaluate the person.
Does this come from somebody that you know?
Does this come from a stranger?
Does that person seem normal or does that person seem crazy?
You really have to think about these details because that also have to make you reevaluate.
For instance, if the rudeness comes from
somebody that you know well, family member, a friend
then, of course, you will most likely take it with a little bit more seriousness
than somebody that you do not know, do not care about, with somebody who
seemed not mentally there, right?
So you can also then ignore if you like.
I think, ignoring is probably the best recipe
in most scenarios when you have to deal
with negativity.
But if you do want to give that person a response for whatever reason
and there are a few elegant ways to do so.
For instance, you can turn it
into a joke and joke it away.
If you have a great one-liner back,
you can definitely say it with a smile,
not with an aggressive tone, not with like talk to the hand the type of attitude.
No attitude
If you want to be elegant,
you do not respond with attitude or aggression because that's when you are
engaging in their negative energy and you become negative and you don't want that!
You always want to be on the positive high because that's what's
going to benefit you and that's what's also going to make you feel better.
Now, a good strategy is what I call,
kill them withlove.
I remember watching this interview with this influencer/jetset babe called
Victoria Bonya.
I actually have an interview that I translated with her on my blog
www.Jetsetbabe.com
that I'm gonna read to you from.
Because this was such a spot-on response from her
that I think is a great example of how you can kill
something just by using the force of love.
I'm gonna read from this blog post.
Two years later when I went back to my village for a visit,
I was walking in the street and saw some girls standing there.
All of a sudden I hear them say to me,
"bitch what you looking at?"
I responded to them generally,
I'm looking at you because you girls are very beautiful
and I just felt like taking a look.
But how you speak, I don't know, maybe you have a difficult life
or you had a difficult childhood.
For me, it was only a pleasure looking at you and the girls just froze
because I complimented them, instead of being bitchy.
This type of attitude has changed me so much to who I am today.
I taught myself to learn skills that I was not brought up with,
that we didn't have in the village back then and it has helped me a lot in life.
What a great response, don't you think?
And this is what I really want you to take away because this is so important.
If you want to be elegant, if you want to have success in life,
then you really have to think about,
first of all, what energy do you send out
and how elegant do you treat difficult situations?
Don't forget that some people will always try and provoke you,
just so that they can get a reaction from you.
Don't go for that temptation.
They just want to see you losing face and you do not want to lose face.
Elegant ladies, they don't do that because what they're really craving is
for you to act in an uneducated, trash way, if we may use that word.
They don't want to see you succeed.
So it's important to not give this to them.
Regardless of how you decide to treat the situation, whether you joke it away
or you kill it with love or you simply just ignore it, it's up to you ladies.
But this is how I teach how you can handle difficult situations
and always stay on top of your elegant game.
If you want to start your transformation ladies,
you know I have a finishing school. Just visit
www.SchoolOfAffluence.com
and begin your transformation today!
Now you must watch my video,
10 Things an Elegant Lady Would Never Do.
It's a must watch because in that video,
you're going to learn a lot of interesting new things so that you can
always be on top of your game.
Now I will see you in that video!