a lot of pickup artists and dating
experts have covered this topic before
and they'll tell you nonsense like
follow her lead don't talk about
yourself and take the square root of the
number of times she talked first and
divided by PI and that's how you know
when you should talk like holy [ __ ] it's
not that complicated
step one stop over complicating this
[ __ ] if a girl agreed to hang out with
you it's because you've talked to her
enough that she feels comfortable enough
to maintain a prolonged interaction with
you and if she feels comfortable enough
to hang out with you for a few hours
it's because you do have enough to talk
about since you've obviously talked to
her before the date talk about [ __ ] she
mentioned over text so you guys can
actually elaborate on it in person and
turn it into a full-blown conversation
that conversation will certainly lead to
another topic and it'll naturally flow
from there step two just talk a lot of
guys tell me that they have interesting
[ __ ] to talk about but they just don't
know how to transition into those topics
when they're out with a girl hey when
you feel like you need to take a [ __ ]
you just go to the toilet and do it no
preparation no warm-up nothing it
doesn't have to flow if you are talking
about dogs but you suddenly think of a
cool theory you read about just start
talking about it ask her what she thinks
about it explain it to her if she has no
idea what you're talking about and so on
you get the point
step 3 avoid interviewing the girl what
do you do for fun
where do you go to school where do you
work do you like it do you have a dog
what kind of dog is that oh my god shut
the [ __ ] up nobody likes to be
interviewed on a date when the whole
purpose is to have fun and relax even I
get triggered when I go on dates with
girls and they start to interview me
just start by asking her a question or
two and letting the conversation flow
from there instead of asking more
questions you should make statements and
share your opinions conversations with a
girl in conversations in general
shouldn't be that difficult or scary I
mean think about it like this you
literally have conversations every
single day when you interact with people
and you've had millions of conversations
throughout your life up until this point
so how bad can you really be at having a
conversation with a girl there's no
difference in the dynamic the only
difference is that you're too stuck in
your head and psyching yourself out
about it just because it's a hot girl
with big boobs besides girls
willingly make the conversation flow on
a date because they don't want it to be
awkward either so the odds are heavily
stacked in your favor so like I said in
step 1 stop over complicating this [ __ ]
step 4
mention your hobbies and interests and
then ask her about hers this one is
pretty simple an easy way to do this is
to take whatever you and her are
currently talking about and connected to
a hobby or interest you like to do this
way it's a more natural addition to the
conversation and doesn't come off as you
talking about yourself from there the
conversation is typically pretty organic
and you can easily ask her about her
hobbies or interests if she doesn't
begin to talk about them herself at that
point bonus tip make sure you wear a
nice outfit that she'll make a comment
about this way you make your clothes an
easy conversation starter and she'll
perceive you as more sophisticated and
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first start having a conversation with a
girl it's usually about the same small
talk [ __ ] but you want to get away from
that boring [ __ ] ASAP when you start
talking about deeper topics it's
probably going to be more fun for you
and it will start creating a connection
between you you will also figure out who
this person really is and as you grow
older and gain more experience you will
be able to recognize patterns in human
behavior and fairly accurately assess
someone's personality without needing
much information at all but you can do
that only once the person starts sharing
their beliefs and hinting at their value
when a girl tells you where she works
ask her if that's her real passion when
she tells you what her major is ask her
about what fascinated her about that
program see what I mean
step 6 don't talk to basic [ __ ] if
you're out on a date with a girl who's
not very interesting doesn't have a lot
going on and doesn't have anything else
to offer other than her looks alone then
it may be difficult to hold a
conversation with her this is why I
advise going for girls that are not only
physically attractive but also mentally
attractive girls who have [ __ ] going on
have real passions hobbies and interests
and who have way more to offer than just
their looks
these girls are infinitely more fun to
talk to and keeping conversation with
them will be really easy because they're
an interesting person to begin with and
they have a lot to say step 7
make callbacks to things you teased her
about over text this one is simple and
should probably be step 1 but I just
thought about it and I'm only doing one
take so [ __ ] it it's step 5
teasing is an important aspect of the
interaction and you need to establish
that flirty vibe on the first date to
make sure she stays interested in you so
an easy way to do this is to just bring
up whatever you teased her about over
text and teaser about it in person in
person it'll have a greater impact and
will establish that flirty vibe in
person which will only make her like you
more and since you already teased her
about it over text it's totally natural
for you to bring it up in person and
make your interaction a lot more playful
and eventually sexual and that's it told
you this [ __ ] wasn't too complicated
in summary don't over complicate this
[ __ ] just start talking
avoid interviewing her mention your
hobbies and interests and then ask her
about hers
dig deep make sure you wear a nice
outfit that she'll make a comment on
don't talk to basic [ __ ] and make
callbacks to things you tease her about
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