It is the attitude, manobhaav, at the moment of conception
that attracts the matching soul.
If you are mating like animals, you will invite a tamasic soul.
I used to often travel to India while I was in the US
And I would pose such questions to the Master,
“What is important for a child? Should we bring in the child,
having conception done only in India?” Honeymoon in India.
Because generally they have this thinking that children
conceived in Europe or America or other Western countries will imbibe those vibrations and those samskaras.
“So what is better — India or outside?”
Second question I posed was, “Is astrology important? The time of birth, place of birth.”
So he said, “None of this.”
Though astrology is important to a certain extent.
But, by the time aapne decide kiya hai ki, ‘yahi muhurat pe karna hai’
the soul is nothing but a complex mechanism of samskaras that comes with it.
Once it is born, the samskaras are already there.
It has come with its own destiny, to a large extent.
So it really doesn't matter where and when the child is born.
Uska baggage leke hi aa gaya hai woh toh.
Right? So the key is — how to invite the soul that has good baggage.
And then he says, “There is no God also who works like a traffic man, ‘You go here or you go there.’
Nothing like that.” It is like a magnet that attracts iron filings without any intelligence.
It just happens, based on the vibratory pattern of parents at the moment of conception,
how they are making love. Are they respectful towards each other? Are they reverential?
Do they have pujya bhaav towards each other or are they just satisfying each other, or worse?
There are many levels of goodness and badness in this whole equation.
In short, he says, “It is the attitude, manobhaav, at the moment of conception that attracts the matching soul.
If you are mating like animals, you will invite a tamasic soul.
If you have pujya bhaav, you'll invite a sattvic soul. Afterwards, it really doesn't matter where you give birth.