Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is on 13 places women want to be touched.
We're talking about where and how to touch a woman to thrill her.
A little bit of real talk: Touch is amazing, right? It's magical. It's beautiful.
It's one of the main reasons why we want a relationship, right?
It helps you connect and makes falling in love and being in love magical and exciting.
And because you're a good, decent guy looking for a good, decent girl,
it's critical that you know how and where to touch a woman in an appropriate way, right?
The last thing you want is to be really creepy.
But at the same time, if you don't touch her at all, well then
it's really hard for that attraction to grow. So it's something you want to treat very carefully.
If you're looking for a happy, loving, lifelong relationship with a gentle,
sweet woman, it's critical that you know how to touch her and where to touch her.
Thankfully, you don't have to worry about this. By the end of the video, you'll be a pro.
You're about to discover the best places to touch women and how to touch them
in a way that's just thrilling.
So if you're interested in learning how to do this, make sure you watch to the end of the video.
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As we get started with 13 places women want to be touched,
there are two other videos that are also going to really help you.
Make sure you watch this video on 11 things men do to melt a woman's heart. It's insanely
effective. You're going to want to check it out. And this video on signs she's just
waiting for you to make a move. I'll put links to both these videos in the description below.
Alright, let's talk, 13 places women want to be touched.
I'm going to do this in two phases in this video, because there really are
more- like, there's more than one phase to this.
The first phase is when you are
not in a relationship with her. The second phase is when you are in a relationship.
There's a dramatic difference between how you can and should touch a woman
when you're not in a relationship versus when you are in a relationship.
So it's very important that you understand both.
The reason you want to make sure you understand the difference between
phase one and phase two is if you try and touch her like you should when you're in a relationship
before you're in a relationship, that's one of the fastest ways for her to just think you're creepy.
Like, it freaks her out. Cause you're acting like
there's an emotional closeness that's not there yet. So you want to avoid that.
So let's start with phase one. Are you with me? Sound good? Let's get started!
The first place a woman wants to be touched is her hands.
Now, if you're not in a relationship yet, that doesn't mean to hold her
hand. That's best saved for when you're in the relationship. But you can still touch her hand.
Maybe if you're handing her something
you can, you know, let your hands kind of brush up against each other. Something like that.
You can totally still touch her hand, and it gives her those butterflies and makes her go, "Oh,
he touched me. That's really cool!" And then she has to tell all her
friends and celebrate for like a week. It's legit.
So if you're able to just kind of let your hands touch, yeah, take advantage of that.
The second place a woman wants to be touched by a man is her upper arm.
There are plenty of opportunities where you can just gently touch her upper arm.
Maybe if your just like acting a little understanding or a little playful
nudge, something like that.
The upper arm is a non-threatening, but still totally adorable place you can touch her.
It's a great place to start when you're trying to
cross that no-touch barrier and get a little bit closer and have her notice you in a romantic way.
The next place a woman wants to be touched is her back.
Now, a lot of questions about, "Okay, where do I touch her on her back?"
If you go up too high, it's like "ultimate friend zone," and you don't want that.
If you go too low, It's creepy, and just don't do that.
So instead, a really good rule of thumb is about her shoulder blade, a little bit
lower than her shoulder blade. That's pretty good.
There's something so sheltering about when a guy
just kind of puts his arm or his hand on your back.
Maybe if you're guiding her, or if you're leaning into talk to her,
or something like that, woo, that'll give her the butterflies.
That'll make her just feel like you're sheltering and protective, and it's adorable.
This is actually one of my favorites, to be perfectly honest. It's crazy powerful.
Okay, the next place a woman wants to be touched, and this isn't necessarily
a place, more like a tip. And that is to just sit close to her.
Again, if you're not in a relationship, do not put your arm around her. That's best
for when you're in a relationship. You want to avoid being creepy.
But sit next to her. Like, touch when you're sitting next to her.
That's something she's going to notice, even though she won't say anything about it.
But it's adorable and it's cute, and it makes her think, "Oh,
maybe he likes me. He's sitting next to me," and it's adorable.
So don't be afraid to sit close enough that you touch.
Okay, the next place a woman wants to be touched by a man, and this is, again,
more of a tip than a specific place.
Hopefully this is obvious, but just in case, she wants you to hug her, okay?
Even when you're in a relationship, there's just something so sweet about a sincere hug.
Everyone wants to be hugged, and there's all kinds of science about how good it makes you feel.
So just utilize it, okay? Don't be afraid to hug her.
And this is something that you can do even when you're not in a relationship
that really creates that closeness and shows interest.
My next tip for how to touch her and just thrill her is when you offer her your arm.
This is something not a lot of people do anymore, but they totally should because it's adorable.
This is especially true if she's wearing high heels or if the terrain is a little treacherous.
Offering her your arm is adorable. And again,
it shows that you're protective. It shows that you're masculine and confident and strong.
And she gets to, you know, kind of maybe feel your arm a little bit. [laughter]
Which would be cool too. But don't think about that, just offer her your arm, and it's adorable.
Here's something I want you to remember:
Being a gentleman is always romantic. It's just adorable, especially because not a
lot of people do it anymore. And so you're the exception, you stand out when you're a gentlemen.
In my Academy, when I'm guiding you through how to captivate the love of your life,
something I'm careful to point out is that gentle men are the most attractive men.
That's the kind of man a woman wants to spend her life loving.
So the simple act of offering her your arm is really cute.
Something else I want you to keep in mind
as we go through this list of places a woman wants you to touch her, it's important to know
how to touch her and where to touch her. Like, that's huge. That's a huge step.
However, you also need to know how to get to the point where you even can touch her, right?
You've got to know how to turn her head, how to create that attraction,
and how to make her want you to touch her.
Otherwise, you're just going to come across as creepy and you don't want that.
So how do you get to this point, where she wants you to touch her?
And how do you do that with the kind of woman you actually want?
You've got to learn how to turn her head,
how to talk to her, to really increase that attraction, and then pursue her.
All of these things are what make her want you to touch her.
Now I know how overwhelming that can feel.
There are a lot of variables and huge room for error.
This is especially true if you've failed in the past
and if you've felt that embarrassment and that rejection and that heartbreak.
This is why I created my Academy for you.
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Now we've been through how to touch a woman before you're in relationship.
Let's talk now about how to touch her, where to touch her, when you're in a relationship.
Now I don't mean married yet. I mean you're dating.
The first place to touch her when you're in a relationship is her hair.
It's actually really cute when a guy kind of plays with your hair, or if you just
kind of brush her hair, maybe tuck it out of her face, maybe tuck it behind her ear.
Those little things, they make her feel really feminine and pretty. Like,
"Oh, he likes my hair!" and it's actually just really, really cute.
Obviously, don't overdo it. And kind of gauge how she reacts.
Some women don't like their hair messed up, especially if they worked really
hard to make it look good for this date with you. So kind of gauge how she reacts to it.
But overall it's a very, very cute way to touch her.
The next place a woman wants you to touch her is her face.
Now you can do this, like, when you're kissing her you can touch her face. You could just
put your hand on her cheek. That's just adorable.
Just those little caresses on her face are totally swoon-worthy. They definitely thrill her.
The next place you can touch a woman is her waist.
Now, like, if you're just standing next to her, put your hand on her waist.
If you're hugging her, maybe you can put your arms around her waist.
Or maybe when you're kissing her, you can put your hands on her waist.
It's a very cute thing to her, it makes her feel close to you, and again,
just helps her feel feminine and see you as very masculine.
Anytime you make her feel feminine, she's going to see you as more masculine.
The next thing you can do is put your arm around her.
Again, this should be obvious, but just in case,
I know I just mentioned, when you put your hand on her back, you don't want to go too high.
When you're putting your arm around her is the exception. You're not like, "Hey, buddy, old pal."
Instead, you're just putting your arm around her. So it's definitely okay
if it's her shoulders/upper back when you put your arm around her.
That, again, is very sheltering, it kind of feels like a hug, and it's just adorable.
And I have a quick question before we get to the other places you can touch a woman.
I've never actually done a video on this. This is a first for me.
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The next place a woman wants you to touch her, again,
if you're in a relationship. Do not do this if you're not in relationship. It will be bad.
This place is her knee.
Let's say you're sitting next to each other and you just kind of place your
hand on her knee, like her knee cap type area.
That's really cute. Like, just reminds her that you're there and it's adorable.
It's kind of crazy how simple these things can sound, but they're actually totally adorable.
Do not underestimate the power touch has to really just skyrocket attraction.
The next place a woman wants to be touched is her neck.
Now this, you know, you don't want to just grab her neck. That's not cute. That's creepy.
But for instance, let's say maybe you're brushing her hair away, and you rest your
hand on her neck for a moment. Or let's say you're kissing her or something like that.
There are really adorable ways you can touch her neck that,
again, just make her feel feminine and attracted to you and awesome.
And the next place that you can touch a woman might sound a little obvious, but hear me out.
This is her mouth.
Now yes, obviously, you can kiss her. And if you're in a relationship,
you probably should kiss her.
However, it doesn't have to be limited to just kissing her.
We've all seen that part in the movie where, like, she takes a bite out of food, a cupcake or
something, and she gets a little bit on her mouth, and he gently brushes or cleans her mouth off.
It's really cliche at this point, it's in tons of movies, but it's for a reason.
It's because it's just kind of a cute thing. It's a cute way
to break that touch barrier and just make her feel close to you and more and more attracted to you.
Okay, so we've talked about phase one when you're not in a relationship,
and phase two when you are in a relationship.
Pay close attention!
Anything more than what I have just shared with you must be saved until after marriage.
I know that is not the popular thing to say, but it is the truth. So I'm going to say it.
Anything more than what I've shared with you needs to be saved until after marriage.
And it's for several reasons.
One, if she's a high-quality woman,
if she's a classy woman, someone with so much love to give who's looking to give that love to one
man, she doesn't want to share that with a man she's not married to.
Think about it.
So if you try some of those things before you're married to her, that right there is a red flag.
That makes her say, "I'm done with this guy. I'm so done."
So it helps you make sure you're attracting the right kinds of women.
And it also protects her and makes her feel safe.
Always, always, always ask yourself, what kind of woman are you trying to attract?
A classy woman, or a not classy woman?
If you want a classy woman, you've got to use the strategies
that allow you to attract that kind of woman.
And saving things for marriage is the only strategy that helps you attract
that loving, gentle, tender, good loyal woman.
A loyal woman is loyal to her man before he's even her husband.
And that means she saves things until marriage.
If you're attracting those toxic and fake women, this is usually one of the main reasons why.
You've got to set those physical boundaries right from the start.
And just in case you're wondering, "Okay, Melannie, how do I find
a good loyal woman? How do I find a woman who's appropriate and loving and gentle and stunning?"
Those are things I walk you through in my Academy as well.
Again, I take the guesswork out for you. So you just have that
clear roadmap to the absolute, stunning love of your life.
To learn more about that, watch my free masterclass today.
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I feel a little weird talking about it, but that's fine.
Hello, my wonderful friend! Today's video is o- [gibberish] [laughter] Yes, it is.
The second place a woman wants to be touched is her upper arm. Now, if, it'd be a little- Oh,
yeah. [laughter] Let's see. The second place a woman wants to be touched by a man is her upper
arm. Like this? Not like this. "How you doin'?" That's- that's friend zone right there.
Let me back that up. [laughter]
Oh, good. It's still going. That's a plus. It's a fear of mine that it will not be
going and I'll talk for like half an hour and then there will be nothing to show for it.
Thankfully, that's not happened?
-and she gets to, you know, kind of maybe feel your arm a little bit, which would be
cool too. Um, but don't think about that. Just offer her your arm and it's adorable. [laughter]
I'm just going to blush this whole video.
Ah, okay. It's fine. It's been a long time since I blushed in a video.
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