Matt: No it's not about having $100 bill sticking out of your fly! Although maybe
that would work? Done! Videos over. But wouldn't it be nice if you could go out
and beautiful women would approach you instead of the other way around that's a
nice little fantasy but is it possible? Well I'm matter to sim from the
attractive man and I'm gonna give you six ways to get women to approach you!
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Matt: First a disclaimer. Because I read all these comments on YouTube from guys
complaining how men have to do all the work men have to approach and that women
should be approaching them... life's not fair! hashtag MTGOW. First of all you are a
man! Your natural instincts make you a hunter you're a Conqueror! Women
don't have that instinct so if you're one of those guys stop complaining and
whining then it's not fair, it's never gonna be that way so stop being the
victim. Just learn how to approach women with confidence even if it was the other
way around and only women approached men? What if you had a bunch of weird
unattractive creepy girls approaching you all the time? That would get pretty
tiresome don't you think? Well that's the reality for most attractive women
so enjoy the fact that you get to pick the women that you go after so now that
I said that why not increase the odds of women approaching you? The more options
you have, the better, right? First before we get into it you need to understand
this when you're out make sure to have open body language it's scientifically
proven that men who show their hands are more approachable opposed to those who
cross their arms like this or shove their hands in their pockets this
doesn't seem very confident plus you could be concealing a weapon I know that
sounds crazy but a woman's instincts will actually perceive you as dangerous
so open your body language get your hands out of your pockets have a nice
smile and an enjoyable demeanor and you'll be more likely to be approached
remember a woman's intuition can sense who is safe and who doesn't seem safe
she's noticing the entire context of the situation not just you so if you're
standing on the sidelines with your drink held up like this which is close
body language by the way it's like a shield
you know shielding everybody away from you not letting people in and you're
just watching everybody else have fun instead of you having fun you're less
likely to be approached so instead be the guy that's having a
great time and talking to the people around you because when she sees that
you're just having a good time and people are enjoying your presence
then not only do you seem really fun and you know like a cool guy but you also
seem a lot more safe and therefore approachable last thing I'll say is when
you do get approached pay attention a lot of guys miss those opportunities
women won't go up to you and say hey you're so hot they will do it very
subtly like asking you for the time of day excuse me do the time don't just
write it off thinking that she only wants the time assume that she's asking
you because she's attracted to you now here's my list of six ways to get
women to approach you in order from hardest to least difficult number six
become popular now this is probably the best way to get approached but I put it
at number six because it can take a lot of work obviously if celebrities get
approached a lot but you don't have to become a famous actor or pop singer you
just need to become popular in your city sure you could run for mayor or you
could just open up a popular restaurant or start a nightclub and it would be
great if you could use yourself as the brand either your name or your face or
both my buddy Ike did this his restaurant is called Ike's place he used
his name and the logo is a cartoon image of his face and every single time I've
hung out with him he gets approached by hot girls because they recognize him now
if starting a physical business like that doesn't sound appealing to you
there's another option become popular on social media you can start a YouTube
prank channel or you can live a really interesting life and vlog about it or
you can give advice about something but make sure it's a female friendly topic
Matthew Hussey I'm sure gets approached all the time by beautiful women me on
the other hand well I get approached all the time too but it's by guys because my
channel is for guys but I love you guys if you see me out definitely say what's
up number five is to throw events if starting a business or a YouTube empire
seems too difficult then you can simply build up your social circle and start
throwing events these events could be house parties they can be club parties
they can even be something like a big dinner event you know they don't have to
be huge although the bigger the event the more
girls are likely to approach you or you get introduced to but the way to
this is to simply be friend a lot of women guys too because obviously guys
know girls but specifically women they could be women at work they could be
women at your yoga class or your dance class or whatever kind of things you're
into instead of trying to date all the women they're just befriend them plus
when you're out approaching women some of them are gonna have boyfriends and
aren't gonna be good dating options but you can invite them to your parties and
tell them to bring their girlfriends and then in a few weeks or a few short
months pretty soon you can be throwing massive events and since you're the
leader of that event you will get approached people will want to know
who's throwing that event and people will introduce you to the girls so you
don't have to approach them they'll either approach you or they'll be
introduced to you by somebody else another way you can use your social
circle is when you have built the social circle with lots of girls in it you can
invite all those girls out to a bar club so it won't be an event that you're
throwing it's somebody else's event but imagine you're there you're at a table
you know you maybe two or three buddies plus ten girls around you everybody's
gonna be looking at you because you're gonna look like you're somebody you're
surrounded by all these hot women it doesn't mean women are just
necessarily gonna walk up to and approach you and want your autograph but
having more women around you makes you more approachable plus other women might
start talking to those women another girl might see a outfit that one of your
friends is wearing and make a comment about her dress or her shoes and then
it's really easy to start a conversation with that girl she's already approached
your group and when you're out with that big group of girls you can also get some
of those girls to be your wing girls which brings me to point number four get
others to bring you girls now before you yell at me I know this isn't the same as
girls walking up to you and approaching you but it's really the next best thing
and who cares you're not approaching them they're
still kind of approaching you except somebody else is bringing them to you
it's just as good in my book so of course you can have a wing girl she can
go approach girls for you she just goes up to the girl and says oh my god I love
your shoes where did you get on blah blah blah oh my god you got to come meet
my friend he's awesome and she comes and brings
do that girl you can teach your friends to do that and trust me girls love to do
this I've actually gone to bars and made instant win girls right then and there
and had them go and find me girls it works and make sure to also let
everybody in your social circle know that you're single and know what type of
girl you're into and if they haven't tell them if they have any friends like
that introduce you you can even look at their social media check out a picture
of her you know one of your female friends and one of her friends who is
attractive and write her and say hey who's this chick is she single she's
cute introduce me to her and she probably will because women love to set
up their friends also if you'd like to go to clubs you can get bouncers to
bring you girls I've done this many times when I have a table and I'm
sitting higher than everybody else it's kind of lower status or value or
whatever to go down there and start mingling with the common people I'm
sorry but you know I mean think about what a celebrity would do he wouldn't go
do that he would go send his bodyguard to go get the girl right or one of his
entourage I don't have that so I send the bouncer to go get a girl like hey
that girl's hot can you bring her up here and he'll do it all you got to do
is tip him well I even had an older client do this at a nail salon you'd go
get a manicure pedicure at one of those Asian nail places and he asked the girl
working on his nails you know do you have any single attractive clients and
of course she does you know most of her clients are women and he exchanged
numbers with her and said hey anytime you have a single attractive client let
me know set up a date for me and of course you know she's talking to her
clients for like 30 minutes maybe even an hour or more so they talk about these
kind of things and he ended up getting a lot of dates that way and all he did in
return is just give her a good tip before we get to the next one make sure
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number three is prompts if you have a cute dog then use them to your advantage
when you're out walking him or at a dog park
I'm sure beautiful women will approach and want to pet your dog you can also
find bars in your city that allow pet and bring him there of course she'll ask
you about your dog at first what kind of dog is he what's his name but you can
easily switch to other topics and then go get a drink with her
another easy prop you can have for a bar is a lighter because if you stand in the
smoking section girls will approach you once in a while
and ask you for a light and it's much better if you actually have one one time
in Stockholm a really cute girl approached me asking for a light and I
actually didn't have it on me so I told her I have one across the street of my
hotel we can go there and grab it I didn't think she would say yes but she
thought about it for a second she was like mmm okay let's go
and I put up my arm and off we went one of the easiest poles ever that time
actually not having the prop worked out and I know what you're thinking yes
cigarettes that is another prop women will approach you asking for a cigarette
but if you're not a smoker then don't sacrifice your health just so girls will
approach you that would be really needy and really sad number two is having a
skill for example you could be a magician and people want to see your
magic tricks but you've got to be careful with this one you don't want to
seem like a show-off like you're trying to impress people it's better if it's
more organic like you're showing one or two people a trick and then maybe other
people spot it and they're like whoa that's cool and the more people gather
around and maybe you know it keeps getting bigger and bigger and a bunch of
people gather around but it wasn't you trying to impress everybody that's not
impressive what I like to do is singing I like to go to a karaoke bar and get up
on stage and sing my heart out and sometimes I get approached afterwards by
a girl that either says oh my god I love that song you did it so well bla bla bla
or just congratulating me on how good of a singer I am and honestly you don't
have to be that good of a singer you just need to be able to nail one song
alright and now of course if it's the same crowd at that same karaoke bar you
need to learn more than one song but sometimes one is all it takes to get
approached plus it creates a lot of social proof in the bar if other people
are cheering while you're singing and it shows a lot of balls to get up on stage
in front of all those people so it does show attractive qualities like courage
another example is one time in Hollywood at saddle ranch I saw one of the
bartenders ride the mechanical bull now obviously he had a lot of practice doing
it so he it flawless I mean he looked like an
expert at it everybody gathered round everybody was cheering and people did
approach him afterwards and my last example this is public speaking if
you're at a certain type of event it could be business it could be self
development and you're an amazing public speaker and you move people and you
motivate and inspire people then a lot of people will approach you after your
after you get offstage and hopefully some of them will be beautiful women and
number one last but not least is interesting fashion I have a rapper
friend named Prince Malik who lives out in Miami and every time we go out to the
club he dresses really really well and kind of over the top a little bit but it
fits his personality because he's a rapper but he gets approached by
beautiful women every single time we go out this is number one because it's
really the easiest back in the day I used to wear a lot of fedoras and girls
would walk up to me and often approach me by just taking the fedora off my head
and putting it on their head and then boom now we're in an interaction easy as
that but don't go over the top you don't want to look like a fool like these guys
here's mr. e and Neil Stross back in the day to pick up artists looking really
ridiculous in my opinion but I guess I can't really talk as I've worn a rock
star cowboy hat to the club before and unless you're a cowboy a rock star or an
oil tycoon save the cowboy hat for Halloween instead make sure your
personality fits your style one option is to wear really nice well tailored
suit women will make excuses to approach you if you look really good or you can
go to the other extreme and just wear a funny t-shirt for example Duke one of
our trainers has a t-shirt company and one of the t-shirts that he sells says
let's make out and he does get approached by women when he wears that
t-shirt now if all that doesn't work you could always just point at her and
signal her to come over and then say if I can make you come with just one finger
imagine what I could do with my whole body no that's not creepy at all now
remember what I said before don't rely just on these things to solve all your
problems with women they aren't going to just magically fall into your lap you
want a lot of women in your life or just more option
then approach them and remember like I said before you are a man and you go
after what you want in life so don't just rely on these tips to try to get
women to approach you man up grab your balls and approach those beautiful women
that you see the ones that you want to talk to and don't worry I'm gonna help
you know exactly what to say and what to do when you see those beautiful women
that's why I created a free conversation cheat sheet so you know exactly what to
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