hi everyone I hope you're all well so today has come to pass in which we see again how
modern feminism has failed modern women this week a tech talk influencer named Ms patch
has gone viral for a video in which she laments the hardships of dating as a liberal woman
namely the fact that she wants a traditional man but is having a hard time finding one
who is not you know conservative also this video is sponsored by surfshark let's take
a look shall we do you want to know one of the saddest realizations I recently had was
that as a liberal woman it is really hard to find a man who is willing to play the more
traditional masculine role in the relationship in today's day and age who is not a conservative
a man who wants to pay on the first date who wants to open your door who has that want
and desire to take care of you and to provide who was not a conservative and obviously as
a liberal woman I do want to be respected from my Independence and I do want to have
my own autonomy in the relationship and not be confined or conform to the traditional
female Homemaker child bearing role and most of the men that I've dated we do have that
more natural provider masculinity about them are normally conservative so I don't really
know what to do because I don't want to compromise my morals and values just to find a man but
am I asking to have my cake and eat it too now needless to say there was a lot and I
mean a lot going on here first and most obvious the fact she is reinforcing all the negative
stereotypes of quote unquote modern women that get flung around on the manosphere depicting
women who want to be provided for by a man in a relationship in the traditional sense
that is being protected and being supported financially without doing the thing that complements
and facilitates that kind of relationship that is of course undertaking more of the
domestic duties and facilitating her man's needs in the home so it would seem at least
at face value that Ms patch is very much looking to have her cake and eat it too as she puts
it which of course was pointed out to her in the comments multiple times I want a traditional
Man without being a traditional woman LOL all of the benefits and none of the responsibilities
I want everything and I'll give nothing in return there I fixed it for you good points
very good points it certainly is emblematic of the lie that has been sold to Young leftist
heterosexual women by unscrupulous feminist leaders who have an entrenched dislike of
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[Music] so what is that big lie salty young woman by modern feminists many lies in this
case it's the notion that men and women are the same each are blank slate and that any
differences between them are largely socialized rather than biological or evolutionary in
this case you have a modern woman who lives in LA and according to her other tick tocks
Works in Fashion so would be you know solidly on the left seemingly wrestling with herself
over her desire to be with a traditional man as if the notion of it would somehow compromise
her purported values now it's pretty clear from the disdain with which she talks about
the concept of being a wife mother and Homemaker that she is very far into liberal feminist
Dogma as is the fact that she's obviously got a pretty far our out view of conservatives
and what conservatives apparently expect of women to the point where she can't rationalize
dating one even if he can offer her the tradition and chivalry she wants all of which can be
seen in her follow-up Tick Tock posted after the original went viral okay to all the conservative
men coming for me in my comments just listen she literally just said it perfectly look
so I want to be seen heard and respected from my ideas thoughts and feelings instead of
blindly submitting to my husband and being so confined to a child bearing Homemaker role
I have so much more to offer than that and I think it would be doing myself a disservice
to solely confine me to the home okay say here that at least this Lefty woman is able
to talk about compromise and meeting in the middle I mean the usual attitude of left-wing
women at least from my experience is that not only would they never date anyone with
different political views to them they would also berate and potentially cut off any girlfriends
of theirs who do the bigotry is that strong just had to make their point there nevertheless
this young woman finds herself in the quandary that possibly a larger number of young leftist
or Progressive women find themselves in nowadays the thing is and if we're talking averages
here women are evolutionarily conditioned to seek out and meet with typically masculine
men that doesn't mean they have to be you know like a big brawny Lumberjack type it
is enough that they are assertive ambitious productive emotionally supportive chivalrous
and have a protective provider mindset a typically masculine attitude is just as attractive as
atypically masculine physique and in spite of what they tell themselves about being strong
independent woman who either don't need no man or are happy with more modern men who
behave essentially like you know women this also generally applies to left-wing and Progressive
women as well the female desire to feel protected and looked after is built into our DNA says
evolutionary psychologist Jeffrey Miller a professor at the University of New Mexico
and author of several books including the mating mind it's a mismatch between what Progressive
women say they want and what they actually respond to Miller told me women's instinctive
mate preferences have evolved for hundreds of thousands of years for guys who are competent
strong good providers good protectors and happy with a sexual division of labor he added
women want decisive men who are also compassionate and thoughtful a 2018 study from Iowa State
University backs this up reporting that Progressive women prefer men who demonstrate more traditional
dating behaviors the women found these men to be more attractive because they signal
a willingness to invest by being protective committed and by providing resources all of
this is of course because women are the bearers of children and right back to the days of
the proverbial cave people were always looking for the male with the biggest Club to protect
the cave door from predators while she stayed inside and birthed babies the problem I think
a lot of Lefty women find is that generally speaking in the Modern Age these kinds of
men tend to be non-leftists and I don't even mean conservative here I mean we all know
that to a lot of these women probably not mismatch of Tick Tock but certainly those
further to the left that anyone right of Stalin is literally Mussolini and the truly ironic
thing about it is that these liberal feminists don't seem to realize that feminism well yes
it did deliver certain civil rights that women did not used to have has largely beaten this
kind of traditionalism and chivalry out of men when it comes to dating especially men
on the left I'll refer you back to the New York Post my friend Mark 36 is a catch by
many New York City standards he's good-looking highly educated and a talented photographer
he's also Progressive and participates in protests and gives to left-leading causes
and Mark is looking for love he wants to get married and have kids in a liberal City like
New York swimming with single women wishing they weren't one could assume Mark wouldn't
have a problem finding a mate and while he dates and recently had a couple of short-lived
relationships Mark remained single he's trying to understand why I'm really open-minded and
cool about gender stuff on dates but I always feel like I'm walking on eggshells Mark told
me if I pay for dinner it signals I don't value my date as my equal so I'm super casual
about it all if she wants to pay or split it or whatever that's fine with me I told
Mark that despite his best intentions his egalitarian dating style could be the problem
that's holding him back while some women balk at any hint of traditional male gender Behavior
more lament the loss of chivalry talk about your Catch-22 fortunately for Miss patch she
has apparently found a guy who is Progressive but also chivalrous so this is for all the
trolls that commented on my last video listen the [ __ ] up into the thousands of you
that said that I wouldn't find a progressive man who's also conservative in some way well
guess [ __ ] what your girl went on a date last night with literally a guy who's conservative
in some ways but also very Progressive in other so he's Progressive in ways like wanting
to please reform uh caring about social justice issues also feeling the need to take care
of the home and help his wife cook clean take care of the kids he's pro-life he's pro-trans
and he supports the lgbtq community but he's also conservative in ways that he likes his
guns he wants to provide financially for his girlfriend or wife um he takes that gentleman
role seriously so he's very chivalrous so basically he's Progressive in all the social
issues yet he's very traditional in wanting to provide and take care of his family and
his wife and take care of her needs make sure that she's treated make sure that she's well
taken care of basically and that's exactly what I've been looking for so hope it works
out now if I were a cynical person I would say that guy sounds a little bit too much
like a male feminist nice guy for my liking that hey I guess it's good that I'm not a
cynical person am I right all in all this is just one of the many problems modern feminism
has created for both men and women let me know what you think of it all in the comments
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