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So, it’s a Friday night, you’re going out with your friends.
You want to have a good time and you guys are going to meet up with some other people
at a party.
You walk into the room and there are fifty people.
And let’s just say that forty of them are wearing blue, nine of them are wearing black,
one of them is wearing red.
Who’s the person that you are probably going to notice first?
The answer is obvious, right?
The person in red because they stand out, because they stick out in a sea of the same
of banality, they are something that’s different and it naturally catches your eyes.
So, under that knowledge, gents, if you want to be seen, if you want to be noticed, dress
differently than those around you.
Now, I’m not saying take this to an extreme, but I am saying what can you wear with confidence
that will help you stand apart from the crowd?
For some of you guys, it may be a red suede jacket.
But to be honest, it doesn’t have to be that in your face to be effective.
The key is to find a style that suits you, a go-to outfit, a particular item that every
time you put it on, it makes you feel like a million bucks.
It gives you the confidence to go in there and just simply be yourself and to look and
feel natural.
[Music] Now, this next one is super powerful and it’s
a lot easier than it sounds and that is walk into the place with a beautiful woman on your
arm.
And I know a lot of you guys are like, well, that’s the whole point of going there.
No, when you walk in with a beautiful woman whether it just simply be a family friend,
whether it’d be your own sister – and I’ll tell you a story about how I used to
do this with my sister and we didn’t even realize what was happening.
But, basically, other women measure you by the way other women react to you, the way
other people react to you.
And nothing sends a signal as powerful as you’re walking in with a great looking woman,
you are already validated.
There’s something about you.
Now, I’ll tell you that my brother and my sister, you know, we would actually go out
together, but our sister was a very good looking woman and it was something that instantly
it’s like, who is this guy?
And, she would actually make introductions.
I didn’t need to make introductions for, you know.
Point being is she realized, hey, at the time, I was single, I was going out, we were having
some fun and all of a sudden, I got more attention because I was already validated.
Now, this next one has nothing to do with the looks and everything to do with the nose.
We’re talking about leaving an intoxicating scent trail.
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Whether you go with the parfum, the Elixir, or the original or any of the other flankers,
this is a fragrance that again and again women highly rate.
They absolutely love the smell of.
And, it’s, yeah, popular, but it’s not over the top popular.
Now, if you want something that’s a little bit harder to find, less synthetic, still
is a banger when it comes to getting compliments from the ladies will draw them in, Stronger
with You by Armani Exchange.
And for the mature guy, a tried and true go-to, Dolce & Gabanna’s The One.
You can go with the EDT, go with the EDP, go with any of the flankers.
Except maybe the gray, but this one right here is just a solid, which is really a no-brainer
one that, yeah, is going to leave a trail that’s going to have them following you.
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Now, this next tip isn’t always practical, but if it’s worked for you, I would love
to hear from you down in the comments below.
But, that is to travel and go out with new friends with new people.
Why?
Because most likely you’re going to have an accent, especially if you go to a different
English-speaking country.
If you go to a region or an area, where your accent is just different, it is actually very
attractive.
You’re from New York, you go down to Austin, Texas, people especially maybe if you’re
from Boston, people are going to pick up on that accent and it is a conversation starter.
Now, some accents are more attractive than others.
If you’re an Australian or you’re English and you’re in the United States, you probably
have had this happened to you that all of a sudden the ladies were like, “Oh, wow,
where are you from?”
South Africans get the same thing.
So, guys, come over and visit.
[0:05:03] But, if you’re an American, you’re traveling
I find over in Poland, if you are over in, you know, England.
I find it actually you’ve got good manners, if you are friendly, if you are somewhat attractive,
all of a sudden, people look around like, “Oh, from the States” and a conversation
ensues.
Now, does this always happen with a beautiful woman?
No, but they do hear the conversation.
They see the way other people are reacting to you, which in general you buy a few drinks,
you start having a good time.
It can be very positive.
Guys, it is so easy to just meet people in general when you travel especially if you’ve
got a friendly disposition.
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Next up, you want to work to enhance your best features.
Perhaps it’s your eyes.
Now, some of you guys have amazing eyes not that I’ve seen them.
But, you’ve received a few compliments on this, right?
So, use this to your advantage.
You’ve got those piercing blue eyes, those green eyes.
Wear a green sweater, wear the color green because guess what?
It reflects in your eyes and it draws them out.
Get the right shade of blue.
Brown?
You know there’s a reason that I go towards tans, I go towards olive greens because they
work with my eyes, my natural complexion.
Now, this can slightly change over time as you get older your colors, you know, you may
want to go for a little bit lighter colors and maybe your eyes aren’t your strongest
features.
But, understand where are your strengths and play to them.
Be careful of the weaknesses and make sure they’re not going to sink you, but double
down triple down over on your strengths.
You may be, yes, a little bit on the shorter side, so wear something that shows off your
amazing physique, the fact that you spend all that time in the gym, you’re a former
bodybuilder.
This is something that, yes, some people are going to be into.
Maybe you’ve got an ability to grow amazing facial hair.
I don’t.
So, you do, use that to your advantage because there are just some women out there that love
a bald head, they love a beard.
And they’ll come up and put their hands on it, start talking to you and next thing
you know, you – You love motorcycles, well, bring it into
the look, bring it into your image.
Use your strengths to your advantage.
Now, this next one is so simple, but it works.
Roll the shoulders back and stand up straight.
Women pay attention to a man’s presence, to his posture, the way that he holds himself,
when he walks around, when he’s talking to a crowd.
And you just want to develop the habit of not, you know, a lot of us because maybe we’re
on our phones because we’re constantly working in a desk, we develop this scrunch over look.
Guys, you want to combat that.
Find exercises, maybe go a chiropractor.
Find some ways exercises that can combat this because you want to stand straight, you want
to stand confidently because that’s the way it comes off is that you actually look
more confident versus looking defeated versus looking like you’re trying to minimize yourself.
Guys, look like you’ve got something going on and she’s going to be drawn to that.
And, building on it, don’t be afraid to engage in your passions.
Yes, you may be an [Elden Rings] fan, you may be deep into Lord of the Rings, whatever
it may be, don’t be afraid to have those conversations because that’s who you are.
And, yes, it will identify you as a geek, but she may be a geek too.
And she overhears this and you’re talking about your power levels or whatever it is,
you know, what you think about the latest Amazon, you know, show, Rings of Power.
Point being is she’s going to say, “I want to be in on these conversations.”
You’re pretty much laying out your cards, who you are and there’s nothing wrong with
that.
You may be into kite surfing, you may be into rock climbing, you may be into motorcycles.
Don’t be afraid to talk about your passions because when you do, you get excited you talk
a little bit louder, other people hear this, other people pick up on it and if they’re
into that kind of stuff, it is a great conversation starter.
The next tip to be seen to get noticed, wish her a happy birthday.
Now, most likely you will not be correct in doing this because there’s what?
Like a one quarter and one percent chance that it will be her birthday.
If it is, great, opening line.
But, guys, you started the conversation, most likely she’s not going to tell you to go
hike or get out of here or go away.
She’s going to say, it’s not my birthday, most likely, right?
Okay, guess what?
You know what she’s going to say, you can come up either with a clever line or you can
just, you know, start the conversation just say, “Hey, I simply saw you and wanted to
say hi.
I haven’t seen you before.”
You started the conversation.
She is getting a little bit of a chuckle out of it.
Guys, come up with a fun clever line.
Now, I know pick up lines are, you know, for the most part dead, but they can still work.
You might as well give it a shot.
And if nothing else, just say, hello, hi, I haven’t seen you around here.
Especially if this is a party, if this is an event, you want to talk to people.
I know most people are on their phones, so look for an opening.
But, once you see it, don’t be afraid to go in there and shoot your shot because at
worse case, you’re simply going to, yeah, get shot down.
And get used to, you know, I would say and this is bigger, just simply start talking
to people in general.
It doesn’t matter who they are, where they are.
You’re not trying to get anything from them.
You need to build up the habit of talking because everything we’re talking about here
is about being seen about getting noticed, but one of the most powerful ways is simply
being able to start a conversation with anyone.
[0:09:58] And when you can genuinely have a conversation
and not be after anything and people can sense it, they can feel it, they all of a sudden,
you’re a master of small talk and this happens with practice, you can get better, all of
a sudden, you can become that guy who everybody knows, every notices, is seen by all because
he’s just a friendly go-to person that people like to be around.
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You know this, you’ve heard it, but what’s the data actually say?
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