Have you ever heard the term introvert?
and wondered what it really meant or maybe you've been you've been assessed that someone else might be an introvert
This might be a hard question to answer
After all majority of people think that there's different role in their personal social
business and internet life.
Who we are when we are around people can change
frequently depending on the situation
and who is it involved, we can be allowed excitable business
person around our co-worker
or quiet and shy around someone
who are an affection. Our behaviour is
fluenced and every changing and rarely
is some one completely the same around
every person they've ever
encouraged
However, there are a few questions that you can ask yourself
from trying to decide who whether you or someone else is an introvert
when thinking about whether or not you or someone you know is an introvert
begin by asking yourself a couple questions
Do you often feel shy or nerves around most people?
Do you feel that you'd rather stay at home and play fun video games
or reading interesting book than go to
a social event or interact to another people
Do you prefer working alone or find that you don't
mind if you spend most of time by yourself
Do you feel that you need to get away from
others every now and then and form solitude on your own
if so you might be an introvert even it's simple behaviour and thought pattern
if exhibited frequently enough can be a sigh of introversion
you may have even taken the famous
myers briggs personality test which concludes one aspect
if a person is introverted or extroverted from that answers,
so what is an introvert. google to find the term as
a person predominantly
concerned with their own thoughts and feelings
rather than external things.
essentially an introvert is someone who has more even inner world
and prefer to keep to themselves rather than being focus
externally and on the environment another definition I've heard is that
introvert get recharge to when they start spending time alone
And drained when they spend to around another people
well, extrovert are the opposite. It is important to remember that
introversion is not the same as narcissism or self-centeredness
The similarity is between this
can make the two can make them seem so.
But introverted people are simply quieter and more comfortable
focusing inwards Rather than comming from an ego testical
and manipulate stand point
introvert are typically people who like to work alone
be by themselves often, be in quiet or peacefull situations
typically prefer to listen to others
rather than talking and they're often
extremely observational and self-aware
if you r friends about whether or not
you are the person questioning is an introvert
Here is the longer list of traits
which an introvert person usually possesses
An introverted person is usually extremely self-aware
Observational, likes to be alone
or spend time and soul to
Prefers the quiet, also prefers to be in small groups
they're highly thoughtful, they might avoid social interactions when possible
they're also generally keep emotion to themselves
they're known by their friends as
extremely private or reserve people
they tend to be listeners more than talkers
and they focus on intelect and details
while this listing composit traits that are not necessarily
positive nor negative, one of the biggest challenges that an introvert can face
is having social encounter
in day to day life
as mention previously, introvert are often not
interested in having an outgoing nature
or may not even be sure where to begin cultivating one
the thought of not being comfortable enough to open up
and lighten up around other people
may seem disconcerning
after all people surround us in many aspect of other life
from work to business to school, education and even personal relationship
such as friends and family and intimate partner
the idea or actual feeling of shying away from people can seem unenjoyable, uncomfortable
and even un and unprofitable
and this is the case for many introverts
let me ask themselves
how if they can become more people person
or even just persist better social skills
well, this is not necessarily the case with every single introvert
but there're often be times when they were wish that one was more social
whether they'll be an important public situation
around someone that they like
or even just because they are temperately desire to break away from themsselves
to connect with other people to increase their network by networking
if you find yourself relating to this feeling
here are few tips you have to ignite
your social skill provided by a life fact.org
number 1. just do it
you can watch my video on my channel about the forward method and
they include the one two three method which is great method to ignite your social skills
tip number two is to relax and get comfortable
if you have to meet people in a places that you're comfortable around
like your own house or a restaurant that you often visit
tip number three is you set simple goals about meeting new people just like any other goal in your life
if you write it down and it is a simple
smart goal you'll have better change of achieving it
tip number four is to get help from your already outgoing friends
just like an success psychology
being around people that are better than you
that are where you want to be is going to boost your confident
it is going to boost your likelyhood of being where they're act
tip number five is to embrace the nerves
tip number six is to make it about other people not yourself
this take respon life of of you and it's actually one of the best tip i've got out of the books
how do win friends and influence people
and the last tip is to drop the introvert label
all together the last tip is especially
helpful in trying to break away from any habit or behaviour
labeling our yourself as somethings specificly can often
allow into the habit to a patterns and behaviours
associated with that label
when we think we have found the world or a description
to identify ourselves we tend to subcontresly become this label unententionally
you know your brother who is really good at sports
your sister who isn't the smartest but is a social butterfly
it's important to try and never label yourself
in a negative conertation as it can lead you being sadness and stuck
when it comes to your own personal growth
despite the previous idea to help you become more sociable
and comfortable interacting with others
it's perfectly find if you are happy if you're being by yourself
there are two sites to this point
on one site it is sciencetifically province that
cultivating and maintaining social health can have positive effects on physical and mental health
where of presenting he is posing argument in a form of
he said Anti-social behaviour is a trait of intelligent
in a world full of conformists no matter what your opinion is
this must be true introvert, extrovert and ambivert
all have just is much change in life, love and success
in fact some of the most successful people in the world
are consider introverted such as
Bill Gates, Albert Ainstan,
and even Abraham Lincon
Despite they're introversion and preferences for being alone
these individuals have shape and change much of society
without their contribution and their ability to speak up what they're believed in
many other innovations and cycle thinking
what ever gone unnoticed
it's important to remember what you say matter
as well as a fact that you have your dream and idea
and i have to be the building block towards the better world
overall, introversion as well as any thing else can be a positive thing
if she's gone the right way
althought I believe they help us make the introversion and extroversion
to an ambiversion is best suitable for entrepreneurial leaders and creators
Typically, introvert are very different than how the media portray them
They're typically not the dramatically nerves
byding over thinking individuals
They can be written or shown as
And many introverts can actually posses refind conversational skills
or general talent due to the highly thoughtful and insightful ways
a mere introverts no extroverts are better than others
introvert can take comfort
in knowning that they are silent intellect and often innovative