I want you to imagine this for a moment you walking in middle street where it's
really busy and you begin to point to people and you can say hey you're ugly
you're so stupid you can't do that that calls too big
or you're dumb let me ask you how would you feel if you were to be doing that
would that be misaligned with who you are with others react negatively you'll
probably know that you long yes and yet you probably do that
subconsciously on a day-to-day basis unless you take control unless you
become conscious of that little voice that voice that's keeping you back on a
day-to-day basis of telling you you're not good enough yeah you want those
dreams but you can't do this look at my past unless you become
conscious of that little voice you'll never transform your life as after all
these inner voices these little voices that's what dictating your results every
single day because it's determining what you should take action on and what
you're taking action on on a day-to-day basis is bringing you that result and
that's why in today's video insider I wanna share with you the three
things I tell myself every single day when I started I took turn this into a
conscious habit it didn't feel natural at the start it felt a little bit fake
because that little voice in me because of my social anxiety background low
self-esteem background it was so strong that's why today I want to try this out
turn this into a habit and after a while you'll thank me because remember these
thoughts are determining your results the first thing I tell myself
unconsciously today it's my life is my message and this is a quote that was
once said by Mahatma Gandhi there's a story of how Mahatma Gandhi was sat on
the train about the leave to another place he was in the country of a
different country at the time and a reporter all of a sudden saw Mahatma
Gandhi and just before the train about to leave he basically just picked through
the window and said hey I'm the biggest fan and please I just need wisdom from
you just need a message from you that I can take back to my people
and Mahatma Gandhi didn't say anything because this was a day of silence so
instead he just scribbled down on bit of paper and handed it back to the reporter
reports turn round and say thank you and basically walked away and he basically
unraveled it and on this bit of paper - said my life is my message I want you to realize
that your actions your results speaks louder than words and as a speaker I
always have to remind myself that as a coach I always have to remind myself
that no matter how much I share with you my insights what would create the biggest
transformation is actually being the change as Mahatma Gandhi says being the
change that you want to see in the world because ever if everybody was to do that
think about it everybody which transform the world is these little ripples of
contribution these lip with little ripples of kindness that will transform
the world so always ask yourself every single day how are you showing up if
there was a reporter I was to assign with you tomorrow imagine the moment you
wake up there will be a reporter writing down how you wake up how you live that
day how you treat others and this this will be turned into a book that holds as
a testament to how you live your life let me ask you how would you show up in
the morning how would you wake up would you put on a snooze alarm would you go
to the gym would you have more energy would you treat everybody with kindness
would you show love more how would you show up would you procrastinate because
you'll begin to realize how you've got misalignment in regards to how you wish
to be and how are you act on a day to day basis so remind yourself every
single day my life is my message if I want others if I want the world to
change I got to change if I want things to get better I got to get better that's
what I tell myself every single the second thing I tell
myself is I'll do whatever it takes I spent most of my
life insider when I was younger dubler mediocre I spent so many years in
my life just condition negatively by people around me and it it was my fault
that accepted it as truth I was conditioned by my environment but I'm
not gonna be a victim out of this it was my fault everything else I used to have
in regards to results I used to work as a toilet cleaner when I was younger all
of this was my fault and I'm so fed up sick and tired and
sick and tired of being mediocre and that's why a decade ago I made a
conscious bold decision that I will do whatever it takes every single day I'm
saying to myself I'll do whatever it takes every single day I'm telling myself it's
not just me going through this issue the person next to you the person next to me
I want you to realize it's going for the exact same thing it's not you out of seven
billion plus people on this planet that's going through issues people have
gone through what you've gone through the question is it's what's the meaning
you're gonna make out of it because depending on what meaning you
give this story that's going on in your life right now is gonna dictate the
outcome you got a choice every single day are you gonna allow this pressure to
get the better of you are you gonna allow this pressure to basically crush
you or you're gonna allow this pressure to create you into a diamond
that's the choice you've got every single day so I'm telling myself every
day when I'm going through these problems issues in life I'm realizing
that it's shaping me the person I'm born to be I'm still gonna move
forwards I'll do whatever it takes to make my dreams a reality why because
it's not just for me by me showing up as the best version of me the world
transforms we've now reached over 20 million people all across the globe just
on YouTube alone on Facebook over 10 million and by the end of 2020 we want
to reach over 1 billion people this ain't gonna happen if I'm focused on how
I'm feeling this ain't gonna happen if I just put in the work on days I feel good
it will happen by me doing it so then I can feel it it will happen by me telling
myself I will do whatever takes no matter the adversities
that's the second thing the third thing is the quote you may refer to me before
which is I'll follow my heart and take action I don't say that at the end of my
videos for no reason insider it's a beautiful quote right it's a nice
quote but literally it transform my life I'm not the most spiritual guy out there
but I've got very open mind right so I've studied you know all of the science
stuff psychology neuroscience all of that NLP CBT but also very open to
adopting and having an open mind a growth mindset towards other fields and
one of the things I do like that spirituality is about they're in a
knowing the intuition and I true truly believe even if you look at science they
say it's the vagus nerve that's actually helping you to create these intuitive
choices every single day remembered this is decisions that shape your life every
single day if you aren't happy with the decisions or the results you're getting
remind yourself that you decided to be here the conscious choices little
choices you make every single day that's what got you here it's not the one cake
that gets you overweight but you decide to do every single day it's not one day
of procrastination that makes it really bad for you
but you decide to do every single day so if you don't change what you decide upon
nothing will change so follow your heart and take an action trust the heart trust
that don't listen to that little voice give it everything you've
got because you're born to win insider that's what you got to tell yourself
every single day I'll follow my heart and take action and go live the life
I'm born to live these are the three things I tell myself every single day I
hope you found this video helpful insider and I want you know to become conscious
of the voices happening today take ownership of this and by the way I am
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well so be absolute amazing insider thank you so much for checking out
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questions you may have or feedback you may have and as always my friend follow
your heart and take action and go live the life you're truly born to live I'll see you on
the next video soon take care