i'm coming to you live from kansas city or more specifically olathe kansas so
holler back if you are in the kansas city area what we're talking about today you guys is could
you be a good coach this is going to be super interesting for a lot of you uh because they're
we'll get into it here in just a second but i want to make sure that you guys understand the
potential that you really have and what it takes you know what it actually takes and that it's not
just advice giving okay but that every single person on the planet can be really good at it
so that's what we're going to be getting into so let me just say this you guys can win things
all you have to do is subscribe to my youtube channels comment on my youtube videos and share
my youtube videos into social media tagging either myself or my business page in it either
way and one person every week you guys is going to win something and i also just wanted to say
for the next oh my gosh 10 days we're basically going to be on vacation so between vacation
and a speaking gig in texas which i'm very excited for if you guys aren't signed up to
go to the great american summit in texas in irving texas it is uh january 7th and 8th
that is going to be the place to be it's going to be a really awesome event but anyway
between now and january 10th i'm basically going to be somewhere other than home and
i've got my little family with me and we're all just kind of like extremely nomadic right now so
that's you're not seeing my house behind me you're not going to understand that between now and the
10th i'm also going to not be at 10 a.m eastern standard time every single day i'm doing the best
i can to be as close to that as possible but understand it's vacation and traveling and i'm
not always going to be right on it i'm going to do my best to be close to it so just so you guys know
uh to set the expectation melanie i see you good beautiful morning from iowa oh i love
it i love it andrea good morning happy to catch you live oh nice to nice to catch you live
oh my gosh you guys okay so what we're talking about today is
can could you be a good coach so let's really just get into this right
nobody believes or everybody believes that they're if not everybody okay most people let's say that
most people believe that they're not
good enough or they're not worthy of being a coach they believe that they need to do something
more whatever that more is it's it's i like almost i should just create some sort of word of moreness
because people always think they need to do something more than what they've already done in
order to be validated to be able to coach somebody let me put things in perspective for you okay
because that is a limiting belief and it could keep you from the success that you deserve
okay and so my job is to make sure that anytime you are thinking things like that that i bring
some truth to that instead so you could maybe look at it differently and realize oh my gosh
maybe she's right okay that's that's my job here and so if you're thinking well i need to do
more i need to get you know a certification or i haven't been through enough or who am i
to be a coach if you're thinking any of those things first of all you're normal i think
everybody goes through that okay it's it's called imposter syndrome and everybody has it everybody
the most successful people in the world have it they continue having it it's not imposter syndrome
is actually i did a whole on a whole video on this before imposter syndrome is really the only people
that get imposter syndrome are the people that are deserving of what they're doing the people that
don't get imposter syndrome are the cheats the frauds and the actual imposters so there's that
okay so if you're feeling it know that that actually means that you're good so anyway
what qualifies you to be a good coach okay what qualifies you to even be able to coach
it's as simple as this
have you been through something in your life that whenever you were going through that thing
you really wished my gosh if somebody could just lead me through this if somebody could just
show me the right steps to take here so i don't have to fail and fall and fail and fall and go
off course and get confused and listen to the wrong person and then listen to another
wrong person and three months down the line i realized those were the wrong people to listen to
and oh my gosh if somebody could just show me the right way to do this thing
now when i go through all of that when i just went through that was there something that came
into your mind where you were like oh yeah i did for me it was when i first started business
right when i first started business for myself now i had worked for godaddy for a little over
five years i was no stranger to small business online i was no stranger to that at all but i was
a stranger to doing it myself okay i was helping with products i was talking to business owners
but building my own business that was brand new to me and so if i had had somebody and i looked
for him i looked for him high and low i found a lot of people on the front of ferraris you
know what i'm saying but i looked for them high and low they didn't exist i couldn't find them
maybe they did exist but they they weren't to be found you know which is a whole nother video
and so that's what i've become for my people is i am the guide i am the person that
helps you quit your job and be able to create sustainable income from home that's what i do
it's what i coach on it's my it's my calling card it's the thing i love to do right
and so for you when i went through all of that what came to the top of your mind
i would love for you to put it in the comments section of what came to the top of your mind if
you want to call it out if you don't if you feel like you want to keep it to yourself
that's totally fine there's nothing wrong with that okay but if you want to call it out and
say this is the thing that i went through that i really wanted someone else's help to go through
right maybe it was trying to figure out how to work with allergies with your kids
you know maybe it was how do i do this natural childbirth thing right i've got people in hbr that
they work with infertility right how can i be able to have this baby what is the best thing
to do to my body or for my body or with my body to be able to have a baby you know because these are
the things that you can google all day long and that's where imposter syndrome comes in by the way
because you first think to yourself tell me if i'm wrong you first think to yourself oh people could
just google that people don't want to just google it okay they want a guide they want a person they
can bounce questions off of that's why we have group coaching and hbr for life is because we're
there for you to bounce questions off of it's the purpose of it right that's people don't want
to just google search things because google can be deceptive right it's just because somebody's
really good at seo and their website comes up doesn't mean that they're actually the best answer
for you right it doesn't mean that they actually know what they're talking about at all they just
know how to do good seo and they're really good at selling and marketing but it doesn't mean
that they're actually going to be able to help you do the thing that you want to do am i right
so you guys how do you know if you can be a good coach well shoot
what have you been through that you really really needed somebody's help for
and because you didn't have their help you had to figure it out on your own
but here's the beauty because you had to figure it out on your own now you know something that
cannot be taken away from you and actually builds value and adds value to who you are as
an individual is that makes sense and so now you can help the other people that are going through
that same thing and it's all from a place of service guys that's the beauty here
and so whenever people say well i can't be a coach because i'm not
x y and z i say okay i'm gonna call
bs on that i love you so much i'm gonna call bs on that that's just your that's it's self-sabotage
and the thing is is self-sabotage in this instance keeps your people that you're here to serve that
you're on the planet to serve it keeps your people stuck where they are because you're too afraid to
step forward and say i own this i am good at this i am going to help people do this thing
and so if you've been through it and you understand really how to get through something
it's your responsibility to help other people do it and you guys setting up coaching is as easy
as going to acuity or some sort of um uh booking site right so acuity acuity scheduling i think is
what it is and you set up a link for people to be able to set up time with you and so whenever you
begin to have them setting up time with you you can do it in a very inexpensive way you know for
your first people as you're you know getting your feet under you so to speak you know what you know
you don't need to you don't don't think you need to discount anything you know what you know
but oh mike are you going to do this right in the middle do you like
this they love he goes they love this
they love this
we're on vacation this is what's happening here
oh my gosh but you guys that's all you have to do is set up a scheduler
start take start letting people know that this is what you're doing hey i'm here
to help x y and z boom there's an elevator pitch for you hey i'm here to help x y and z
super easy and if you're already following along with all of the hbr stuff then i mean it just
weaves into everything else everything that i teach you guys everything that i teach you guys
weaves into itself it's not multiple income streams and then you have to focus on this and you
have to focus on this and you have to focus on you know you focus on the well-being of your people
and everything weaves together and that is the system of hbr like where i teach you how all of
that works right if you're not in hbr just a heads up it is super discounted right now so i'm just
going to say this and then i'm going to pop some of you up here you would go to living the dream
with marth that is my facebook business page you would message me the words let's do this rainbows
and unicorns whatever you want right now i'm not going to beat around the bush right now it's 9.97
it's going up to 10k by the end of the month or not the end of this month the end of next month
and uh i would jump in now that's that's what i'm that's what i'm saying this is this is the place
where you're gonna find the support you need you're gonna find the community that you need
you're going to find the direction that you need and you're not going to
try fail try fail try fail try fail try fail this doesn't work and this doesn't
work and this doesn't work it's you're going to know the system that works all that you
need to develop is how who you people are how you're going to serve them and then the system
is built in okay that is the hard part and you don't even have to think about that
you just think of who are your people how are you gonna serve them but we even help you figure that
out okay so this is this is where everything changes for you but it's up to you totally up
to you i'm not gonna do a hard sell on it let me see what you guys are talking about
susan how to live daily again going through the loss of family there it is
that is what she is helping with i really wanted someone to help me figure out how to not
live from paycheck to paycheck they're nice very nice amanda thank you for sharing your
knowledge and encouraging others to step out in this way when you called me up to do this
everything aligned in so much has happened over the course of this year oh amanda i love it i
love it i love it i love it andrea belief in ourselves to do this thing so key i have grown
leaps and bounds in this through learning business from you martha oh shucks thank you i appreciate
that you guys joey holding the hand of others let me get it up here holding the hand of others
raising empaths the highly sensitive child i do believe this is where i'm supposed to be
but at times my heart for other things like learning organically with children pops in
i believe it's all intertwined and i'm finding my groove i believe those two are intertwined
absolutely andrea mine was chronic jaw pain 100 it was insane the amount of misinformation out
there see that's the thing people don't want to google it guys i'm so grateful to be able to
help people now with what i learned in the five years of pain i went through there it is
there it is you guys this is true this is all of this stuff is real this is
you don't realize it because it's so like ingrained in you that you can't
coach that you can't make income based on your experiences but my gosh it's where everything
is going and if you're not going to jump on now then you're going to behind be behind
other people that jumped on and so in your niche is what i'm saying so you're right now you're
at the cutting edge it's important to recognize the opportunity that's in front of you right now
and jump because if you don't you're going to have other people doing the same thing that you want to
do and then you're going to get upset and you're going to say oh well i wanted to do that well why
didn't you i love you so much but why didn't you you know and at the end of the day are they your
competition no because i can show you how to make things blue ocean instead of red ocean i'll i can
help you set apart right from everybody else but you're going to have to work through a lot more
imposter syndrome and self-sabotage if you have competition in the marketplace and so
i'm trying to help you avoid that by jumping in right now that's the important thing
but anyway um i am jumping out of here we are going to go do some vintage toy shopping today
and my sister and her husband are going to come with us and we're going to just have fun so
anyway we're going to pop out and do that you guys have the best day ever i will see you later bye