beautiful people of YouTube welcome to my latest and greatest a breakup advice
video I am of course breakup Brad and in this video I'm gonna talk about how long
it typically takes to win back an ex-boyfriend or an ex-girlfriend of
course it that answer to that question is going to depend on your specific
situation but right here in this video you're gonna learn all about it so keep
watching now guys when this video is over please do a few important things
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soon as you finish watching it right now how long does it normally take to get
back together with your ex now this is a super common question and it's actually
a pretty good one too and as I said you know the answer is you know basically it
depends so in a second I'm gonna cover several possible scenarios that you
might be facing and the general prognosis is give you a general
prognosis for each of those common situations now before I jump into it
remember one very important thing you cannot rush the process if you try to
take shortcuts or ignore my advice and do too much too soon you're almost
certainly going to push your ex even further away at some point and that's
only gonna set you back and make it even more difficult and more time-consuming
to win back your ex now trust me on this one
please don't try to speed up the process or ignore my advice about how long you
need to wait before doing certain things to try to retrack your ex it's almost
certainly gonna backfire on you now on to a few common situations and what each
of them means in terms of how long you can expect it to take to get back
together with your ex scenario number one your breakup was recent you know
within the last 30 days or so and you've already done everything that I teach in
my ex factor program and here on YouTube from day one so essentially this means
that you've done all the right stuff - to help RIA tracked your ex and you
haven't made any major mistakes in this type of situation which isn't very
common unless you're smart enough to find my youtube channel and register for
the X Factor guide right after breaking up the outlook is usually very positive
now if this does sound fairly similar to your current situation then you do
clearly have a good chance at getting your ex back and that is likely gonna
happen fairly quickly now there's no guarantee that you'll succeed in
starting over with your ex regardless of how well you handle things after the
breakup but typically in these situations you can't expect to have your
ex back within around six weeks or so so in other words you know with
a couple of weeks after you finished the 30-day no contact period now sometimes
no contact on its own is gonna be enough and your ex may even ask you outright to
take them back after just a week or two after you start ignoring them now that
is a best-case scenario but it does happen quite often sometimes you know it
will take several in-person meetings and lots of flirting and attraction building
to completely change your ex's mind about breaking up but as a general rule
you can't expect things to happen fairly quickly you know within one or two
months or so usually if your relationship wasn't serious or you only
dated your expert for a few months before breaking up that may cause things
to take longer or or reduce your odds of success in general but you know for most
of you in this kind of situation you can expect success fairly quickly now to
find out if your current scenario falls into this category that I just described
just take the free quiz at breakupbrad.com slash quiz and that quiz
is gonna tell you your odds of success and a higher score in the quiz you know
kind of over seventy five ish for instance suggests you're in a situation
similar to the one that I just described and therefore there's a really good
chance that your ex will take you back in the near future now on to scenario
number two which is where it's been two to four months since your initial
breakup and you've been following my advice closely for the past month or so
in other words you know you fumbled around a bit for a while after the
break-up maybe you made a few mistakes and you've now put an end to any
unproductive or possibly even harmful behaviors and you've started applying no
contact or you've already finished the full 30 days of no contact now in a
situation like this assuming you and your ex were serious and together for at
least six or eight months or more then you're probably going to be able to turn
the ship around within four to six weeks assuming you do exactly what I recommend
in my ex factor program and you don't cave in and make a mistake that can set
you back weeks or even months now as you all probably know from watching my other
videos the key to winning back your ex is to completely reverse their mindset
remember the day that he or she dumped you they saw you as as sort of a
low-value or romantic partner and felt that the logical thing to do was to move
on and try to find someone better but you can change their mind using the
psychological tactics that I teach and in doing so you'll basically be
resetting their feelings about you and your value generally so really that's
why it may be another two months potentially before you're able to seal
the deal with your ex your ex alene time to to let go of the negative
some feelings and become attracted to you once again now if your ex was more
uncertain about the break-up generally and maybe even you know started having
regrets soon after you began employing the no contact phase then things will be
easier and will progress more quickly once no contact ends on the other hand
you know if the breakup was ugly or you screwed up and you hurt your ex and made
them feel angry for some reason during the final days of the relationship then
you might need you know six or eight weeks to to fully reset their emotions
and rebuild their attraction for you eventually their attraction and the fact
that they they miss you like crazy is gonna cause them to ignore any rational
reasons for breaking up and forgive you for any wrongdoings and scenario number
three is when it's been three to six months after the breakup and you've made
a number of serious mistakes since breaking up or your ex was very upset
and angry at you when you first broke up now this could be a situation where
you've made some significant mistakes already that you know that have already
hurt your chances you know things like repeatedly begging pleading your ex or
even bringing out you know your inner psycho and when you showed up at their
house or randomly sent them drunk texts gushing your heart out or it could be
just that you completely ignored my advice and you failed to employ no
contact at all for months after being dumped and now you're suddenly starting
to wake up and get things you know right in hopes that it's not too late to fix
things with your ex in fact even if you haven't made any big mistakes and you've
listened to some of my advice but your ex was furious about something that you
did or said at the time of the breakup and hasn't completely forgiven you yet
then you're also probably in a similar situation currently if this is where
you're at currently with your ex then the road to starting over in a new
relationship is gonna be long it's not usually impossible especially if you
begin really sticking to the 3r system and the techniques that I explained in
my ex factor guide but it's gonna take at least a couple of months typically
anyway you might get lucky and your ex might be you know particularly emotional
and prone to heartache but it's not gonna be be quick or easy to get them
back most of the time when you're facing this sort of scenario now you could find
out your odds of success by using my quiz as I mentioned earlier
breakupbrad.com quiz is the URL and once you take that quiz your results report
will tell you more about where you stand and how much work you have ahead of you
to get them back the quiz is completely free it takes five minutes I mean the
quiz link is also in that description below the video as well right and onto
scenario number four whether it's either been you know a year
or longer since the original breakup or it's been you know six to twelve months
but you've made numerous major mistakes during that time basically folks this is
the boat you don't want to find yourself in
there's no lifeboats left and you are a long way from shore
you know don't lose hope completely especially not if you haven't confirmed
how bad things really are by taking the quiz that I just mentioned but don't get
your hopes up and hope for an immediate quick fix that's gonna make your ex come
running back now I do you know I hate to sound harsh and there's no sense crying
over spilt milk but if you've got to this point then you probably should have
sought my help a little sooner or at least had better control over your
emotions and actions that led you to this dire situation that you're in right
now now sometimes you might do everything right and still end up in a
bad spot like this but most of the time it is because you did everything wrong
four months after the breakup and now of course you're facing a tough uphill
battle if it's gonna take months or even longer so this is when it's time to
think hard about whether you still really have any shot at getting them
back at all now I have previously made a video about this exact topic how to
determine whether it's time to to give up trying to get your ex back altogether
and I will link to that video in the description below but you should also
take the quiz as well because if your score is bad you know below 60 or so
then it's likely not a matter of how long will it be before I get them back
but rather how much more time do I waste trying to save a sinking ship
now if there is still hope at all then expect to spend a minimum of two to
three more months rebuilding your ex's attraction and repairing their mental
image of you before they'll take you back and go to breakupbrad.com slash
quiz to figure out if things really are that desperate and hopefully you will
score at least you know 55 to 60 ish or above and finally scenario number five
your ex is remarried your ex has gone to court and taken out a restraining order
against you or your ex has passed away now if that describes your situation
sorry your foot but most of you are not in a hopeless situation so please start
doing things right beginning right now and you should be a month or two at most
away from having your ex back in your arms again now what you want to do right
now start by watching the free full video on my website or actually better
yet sign up for my ex factor guide to get entire access to the entire system
within the next five minutes and you can do that at breakupbrad.com slash buy and
of course as always feel free to leave any quick questions or
in the comments below so I can get back to you personally and that is a wrap for
this video ladies and gentleman thank you very much for your ongoing support
and I'll see you again in my next video
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