Tripp Kramer here from
www.trippadvice.com. Do you want to know
what the death of attraction is? I will
tell you right now, it is predictability.
That is right. When you are predictable
it doesn't matter when you first meet a
girl, it doesn't matter if you've been in a
relationship or a marriage for years.
When you're predictable, you are boring.
So what is the opposite of predictable?
Well, I guess you could say unpredictable.
But I would also say intrigue, doing
something that gets a girl interested.
And so with this idea what I want to
share with you today is an amazing text
message that you could use that can
build intrigue when you are texting and
talking with the girl. Now before I tell
you this text message, may I remind you
that you cannot build attraction over
text. Yeah, I guess some guys have been
able to do it. But what really is the
point of texting is to get her to meet
up and also to get her to respond. If you
haven't been able to get to respond yet
then you haven't intrigued her or you
haven't attracted her from the very
beginning when you first met her. This
text message that I'm gonna be telling you
today is going to be one that is going
to start that intrigue and get her to
respond. This is something that you
could use if you haven't heard from the
girl in a while or maybe you guys went
on a few dates and you wanted to follow
up with something to get her to respond so
you guys can meet up again. That's what
this text message is used for. It's not
going to be to build attraction. Just to
get the conversation going and get it
flowing, so then eventually you can ask
her out and get her in person. That's the
whole point of texting, if you haven't
heard me say that a billion times on my
other videos on texting. That is the
point. Here is the text message and it
goes like this, you're going to say to
her "Can you keep a secret?" That's
the text message. That's a little weird
text message that will really build that
intrigue. "Can you keep a secret?" I mean
think about it, if you're ever around
someone and someone says to you can you
keep a secret? Automatically your
ears perk up, wait a minute yeah
what's the secret? What is this person
going to say to me? Same thing works over
text and again this is going to be used
to garner a response from her. Now I want
you to try this out and again I told you
why you're going to be using this text
message, but also you're probably
wondering what the follow-up is. Well
there's a bunch of different follow-ups.
And of course you have to have a
follow-up. If you say to a girl can
you keep a secret,
you'd better have a secret or at least
something funny to go along with it
because she is probably going to be
responding to this text message. I'm
going to offer up a couple of really
good follow ups that you can use to use
this. I encourage you to use
your own. You can use some of these that
I'm telling you right now, but I want you
to take the basic idea and the concept
of these follow-ups that I'm using here
and then try to make one up for your own.
Okay, so here's a few of them right now.
If you've been dating her for a while
and you guys have been on a couple dates this
is already where you know for sure that
she's interested in you, you can say to
her "I think I have a little crush on you."
Okay, that could be your follow up. She's
going to say yes like you're gonna say
can you keep the secret, she's gonna say
yes and you say I think I have a little
crush on you. Again this is not
something you're going to be using if
you guys have only texted a few times
and you've never seen her. This is something
you might use after a couple of dates, it
gets things flirty, gets things flowing.
So you can say something like that. You
can also use this for humor, so so you
can have something that's obviously not
a secret. An example of this might be
you say to her, can you keep a
secret, she says sure she says yeah you
say well I cheated on my 8th grade
spelling test sigh dot dot dot. I had to
get it off my chest.
Something funny like that. Maybe
not exactly that one, but anything that's
obviously not a secret. Again, this is
just getting her to respond and getting
the conversation flowing again. Another
one that you could use that just keeps
conversation going is she responds to it
and then you say good and then you say
dot dot dot, how was your weekend?
This is a little joke saying well I
don't have a secret and you're just
basically saying good I was just
checking to see you could keep one and
then you say how's your weekend or
follow up with another question or even better
follow up with something that you're up
to that's interesting instead of just
asking her something. Now you might get
response where you say to her can you
keep a secret and she says no. Well in
that case, what I want you to do is I
want you to say me neither
but I'm going to tell you anyway.
So you're just going to agree with her. You're
going to say ah me neither, but I'm
going to tell you anyway.
And then you can follow up with one of
those or again something that you're
coming up with on your own. The
whole point of this is to get her to
respond and eventually get her out on a
date. If this stuff is all confusing
to you in the sense that you still don't
know how to attract a woman or you don't
even have a number to text or you've
been texting her or you even use this
text message and it doesn't work, well
the problem is you're not getting
girls attracted and you're not getting
them invested in you. Here's what I
want you to do, if these are still problems
for you, I want you to check out my
program called Hooked at www.getherhooked.com.
I'm going to put a link in the
description below this video.
Basically this is a program that teaches
you step by step how to get a girl
hooked on you and I give you some of my
formulas, some of my very best techniques
that makes it so texting a girl is super
simple to get her to meet up because
you've already done the necessary things
to get her hooked on you. In order to
learn more about that like I said go to
www.getherhooked.com and here's what I
want you to do. Right now I want you to
write down below what a good
follow-up would be and I know there's
going to be some jokesters and all that
stuff, but I want some serious
responses. What would you put if you said
can you keep a secret and she says yes?
What would be your follow-up? Let's put
some down there so we can all kind of
learn from each other and have some good
responses and also I want you to
test this out. Send this to a
girl and let's see what kind of responses you get. Go do that.
Check out Hooked and I'll see you on the next
video.