Sonam ani come welcome back to Allah
loves so this is a very special story
that I learned very early on while
studying the Companions of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam because a
lot of times when you're hearing had
eats about rushing to do good and this
idea of the Companions being highly
motivated which they were sometimes that
could lead a person to not be very
deliberate about their actions and the
things that they do so this is a hadith
which takes place with a long incident
in the backdrop where you had the tribes
that were coming to see the prophets
like some the delegations that were
coming to the prophets of the law and he
was Selim and people were rushing to get
off their camels get off their horses
jump and run to the prophets why some so
they could kiss his hand so they could
they could greet him and there was one
person that stayed back for some time
and you've got to think well who's the
one that's getting the camels set who's
the one that's keeping things in order
who's the one that's actually staying
behind making sure that no one dropped
anything who's that guy right that guy
was a little face edge was a nun Saudi
he was a young man but he was very
deliberate about the things that he did
he was very calculated so he was the one
that was making sure that everything was
tied properly and so he stayed behind he
made sure that his tribe had all of
their belongings with them he tied the
camels properly he went and he changed
and he made himself presentable then he
came to the prophet sallallaahu he was
Selim and some of his tribe they kind of
mocked that deliberation or they felt
like he was being slow but the prophet
sallallaahu aunty who is Selim said to
him that in a fika hustle attain that
you have in you two qualities yuhibbu
whom allah that allah loves about you
and he said what are they Oh Messenger
of Allah he said a hen will Anna your
forbearing and you are deliberate
forbearance and deliberation now those
words are tough words so let me explain
them forbearance is when you are
particularly patient with people so he
talks about patience and holding
yourself back right it's a lot easier to
be patient with natural disaster with
something bad happening that's outside
of anyone's control
than it is when it's someone in front of
you
that is really messing with your
patients right so the profit slice of
them and the incident that we covered a
few episodes ago with ie shuttle the
Elan and the people that shouted out to
him a semi tecum the profits I son was
showing forbearance he's holding himself
back restraining himself right and so
when you have hidden when you have
forbearance you are able to hold it in
that's why brahim on Islam is described
as Hadean one of the names of Allah is
an Halim one who is for bearing a lot is
for bearing with us Allah tolerates our
our our weaknesses our sometimes
wickedness and Allah does not punish us
right away but instead Allah gives us a
chance to repent so a hidden is that a
person is forbearing they're calculated
they're well restrained and so their
anger is only for specific contexts and
it's carried out in a way that is
pleasing to Allah subhana WA Ta'ala
elana is a related quality of being
calculated of being deliberate of making
sure that you do things properly now
Allah is the opposite of hates the
prophets line so I'm sorry a tomb in a
shape on that hast is from the devil and
Allah which is to be deliberate is from
Allah and Anna is that a person takes
their time to make sure that everything
is done right that nothing is out of
order and so just as there have they
have a great sense of self-control they
also have a great control of their
environment as well they're making sure
that they're always doing things
properly calculated structured not in a
way that would hinder progress but in a
way that would sustain it not in a way
that would make them too slow but in a
way that would make sure that their
speed and going ahead with good things
are done in a way that would maintain a
momentum a steady momentum towards a
loss of panama's on towards those good
things so hen and Anna come from the
same the same well the same fountain
which is to be forbearing to be calm to
be collected to be deliberate about what
you do and allah subhanaw taala who has
that quality himself of being for
bearing loves to see it in us and loves
to see that we take our time to make
sure that things
right and that we don't rush and that
we're not hasty with the things that we
do and some people might criticize that
as being slow but it's not slow just
like some people might criticize a
person who doesn't react to insult or to
to foul nests in like manner as being
too slow or being too reserved all of
those things are actually beloved to
Allah subhana Allah because they're done
from a place of intentionality and we as
believers are taught to be intentional
about the things that we do so we ask
Allah spent time to put those beloved
qualities in us as well and to allow
them to manifest themselves in our
personality and in our work and how we
control our environment exactly low
height and see you all next time in sha
Allah so now I want a camel to live in
account