Well hey there I'm Emma from mmmEnglish!
And I have an extremely useful lesson for you today.
I'm gonna teach you all the different ways that native English
speakers use 'like' in everyday conversations.
And if you're thinking about using 'like' as a verb,
well that's one way
but I've got five extra ways that you can use 'like'
to help you sound more natural and more fluent
as you're speaking in English.
So like let's get into the lesson!
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One of the most interesting things about language is that it's
always evolving. It's changing and developing over time.
And a really good example of this is the verb 'like'
because it has a few different meanings.
Of course, it can mean to enjoy or to love.
I bet you know that one.
But these days, the verb 'like' can also mean
to show that you think something online is good
by clicking that little symbol and showing your support, right?
Now actually some people think the
overuse of 'like' in spoken English is a bit of a bad habit
but I think it's actually a really useful and a really fun tool
that you can have in your toolbox for English conversations.
We know that 'like' is a verb but let's look at five other ways
that we can use 'like' in English
and sound more natural and relaxed as you speak.
'Like' is often used as an adjective
and when it is, it means the same as similar,
to be like, to look like, to feel like,
to taste like or to smell like.
This dish looks like it's savoury but it smells like dessert.
In this context, we're using 'like' as an adjective
to compare two things.
It's five degrees today but it feels like minus five.
Feels similar to minus five degrees but it's not actually minus five.
Watch out for this one though
because there are a couple of different meanings for feel like.
Feel like can mean want.
I feel like an ice cream.
No. I mean an ice cream. I want an ice cream.
I want to eat an ice cream because it's hot.
And feel like can also mean think.
I feel like this is a bad idea.
So another way to say that is to say:
I think this is a bad idea.
I've got a feeling. I feel like this is a bad idea.
'Like' can be an adverb as well.
And using 'like' as an adverb is going to help you to sound
super natural when you speak.
It's really commonly used by native speakers in informal situations.
So as an adverb
'like' is a synonym for about, around or approximately.
I spoke to her like ten minutes ago.
So here the meaning of 'like' is about.
I spoke to her about ten minutes ago.
He spent like
a month in Colorado.
He spent approximately a month in Colorado.
Or around a month.
Notice that 'like' is always used before an amount
when it's an adverb like ten minutes or one month.
And it's not just time. It can be used before any number.
It only cost like twenty bucks.
There are like ten left in the jar.
We also use like as a linking word so linking words help to connect
ideas in sentences in both written and spoken English.
And, because, as a result, they're all linking words
and they're really useful in English sentences.
And 'like' can be a linking word as well.
My nephews love playing on toys with wheels,
like scooters, bikes and skateboards.
I love old-fashioned names, like Arthur and Iris.
So in this context, 'like' means
for example or for instance.
Just keep it in mind that 'like' is commonly used in
informal, spoken English.
In a more formal context or when you're writing,
it's much better to use 'for example' or 'for instance'.
But in spoken informal English,
like, very casual, very natural.
Now this is where the fun begins.
We're going to talk about some of the newer ways to use 'like'.
Some people out there,
they might argue or they might disagree with me about
what I'm about to say or what I'm about to teach.
They might say that 'like' is not proper English when it's used in
this way, in the way that I'm about to teach you. But
if a significant number of English speakers around the world
are using the language in this way
in their everyday conversations then
I think that it is worth learning about and it is worth
understanding.
And can you really say that something is not proper English
when so many people around the world are using it this way?
I don't think so.
We can use 'like'
to retell stories and to report what someone else has said
and when it's used in this way, it's called the quotative 'like'
because we're quoting what someone else said or
what someone else felt or implied.
My boss was like "I need the report in an hour.'
And I was like,
"Well are you kidding me? That's not enough time!"
When I say my boss was like or I was like,
it's really similar to saying she said or I said
in reported speech, really similar.
But not quite the same.
When used in this way, 'like' is less precise than reported speech
but it's also much more expressive
because I would never say
"Are you kidding me?"
to my boss. I would never actually say that.
But I would think it or maybe I wish that I had said it at the time
and it makes for a much better story when you're retelling it
to someone else.
When we use 'like' instead of say or tell or ask
we can retell not only what someone else said
but also what they were thinking or they were feeling at the time
so it's quite useful and it makes for really great storytelling.
The things that you didn't actually say but maybe
you wish you had
or a feeling that you had at the time
when something happened
these can all be expressed with 'like' in this way.
That's got to be a little nerve-racking.
I was like, ah I hope I get it. I hope I get it.
And then they said my name I was like, that's awesome.
He didn't actually say those things.
He felt them.
He was talking about how he felt at that moment.
And we can even use 'like' to reenact facial expressions and
gestures and that's why it can be so expressive
and such a great and useful tool when you're retelling stories.
So for example if I'm retelling a story I might say something like:
My neighbour was telling me how someone keeps
stealing all the lemons off their tree
and then Shah walked over with a couple of lemons in his hand
and he was like "Hey, check out these lemons!"
And I was like...
So this quotative 'like' is only really used in casual,
spoken English so make sure if you're writing someone else's
words or you're telling a story in written English,
you stick with the regular reporting verbs and reported speech.
Remember, I recently made a lesson about reported speech.
You can watch it right up there.
Last but not least,
we can use 'like' as a filler word.
And a filler word or it's also called a discourse marker,
they're used to connect or to organise our thoughts
or even to express a certain attitude while we're speaking.
They allow us to think about what we want to say next without
interrupting or disrupting the flow of conversation
so they're really useful.
They help our speech to sound more natural and less robotic
and they also help other people who are listening to you
in a conversation know that you haven't finished talking yet,
that you're still going.
Filler words like just, actually
and even um, they're useful and of course like, as well.
They're all filler words.
And even though it's best to avoid filler words if you can,
they're also extremely useful in conversations to help you
hold your thought while you think about what to say next.
Um it's like if you have to do work or like
do housework and clean your room.
It's like stuff like that.
I'm saying 'like' quite a lot there because I'm trying to think about
what I want to say next.
And using 'like' as a filler word can be really fun,
especially if you try and copy a bit of the intonation of
some of the more famous examples of 'like' being used in this way.
If you've ever seen the movie Clueless you'll know exactly what I'm
talking about. It's one of my favourite movies.
I said RSVP because it was a sit-down dinner.
But people came that, like, did not RSVP.
So I was, like, totally buggin'.
We just heard 'like' as a filler word.
People came that like, didn't RSVP.
Now this sentence would make perfect sense without the word
'like' in it but she's using 'like' as a way of adding
dramatic pause or it exaggerates the information that's following.
It's like if I said
Clueless is like, my all-time favourite movie.
'Like' just helps me to illustrate how much I love it.
It flows and it sounds really natural.
It's definitely not perfect English and it's not needed
in any way but it's very much a part of naturally spoken English.
What are you going to do about it?
Now adding a few likes to your spoken English is gonna
help you to sound more confident and more fluent in English.
So make sure you're listening out for the way that native English
speakers use 'like' as they speak and start thinking about
how it's being used, what type of word is it,
what function does it have in that sentence?
And see if you can start using 'like' in some of these different ways
play around with it a little bit, have some fun.
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Bye for now!