There are 3 flirty phrases that you can use when you're talking to a girl to ensure that not only
she knows that you're flirting with her, but she can actually become attracted to you. And these
work almost 100% of the time, if you know how to do it and if you use them right. Remember,
flirting is all about building tension. And so these phrases that you're about to learn are
going to build that tension between you and the woman. If there is no tension there at all, then
it's going to be hard for her to become attracted to you. This is one small piece of the big puzzle.
However, the piece matters a lot. Let's get into it. Here's the first one, you're gonna say to her,
you're not one of those girls who... doesn't read, doesn't like dogs, only listens to top 40 songs.
Now listen, you don't have to use those exact examples. But you can fill in the blank just by
saying you're not one of those girls who, and then in that fill in the blank, you're gonna put in the
kind of traits of a woman that you're looking for. And you only want to do this once in conversation.
If you're on a date, or if you do a cold approach and you've been talking to her for about five
minutes, you're just going to insert that - "Hey, real quick, you're not one of those girls
who listens to only top 40, you have some more taste in music, right?" This is you qualifying.
We are qualifying her to see if she's a good fit for you. Now, not only are you qualifying her,
and that's going to help you pick out the right woman for you, but it's flirty because
it's building tension. You're showing her that you're only interested in women that have similar
interests as you or have something in common with you. Or maybe in this case, you really want to
be with a woman who doesn't listen to only top 40 music, for example. This shows boundaries and the
reason why it's so flirtatious is because when a guy is just being nice all the time and agreeable
all the time and never qualifying her, it becomes a very boring conversation. I go like this because
I'm imagining a very straight line with no spikes of emotion in there. Number two, you're just gonna
straight up say to her, "You know what, I don't like you anymore." Now, you have to use a smile
with this one. To be honest, you need to be using a smile with all of these because flirting is a
subtle act of showing interest and disinterest at the same time. If you ever show a slight
disinterest, you need to have a smile on your face to counterbalance what's happening here. Because
you're not literally saying to her, I don't like you anymore. But you're saying "I don't like you"
in a playful way. And that's why there's a smile on your face. You're gonna say it anytime you want
when she says something that you disagree with, or maybe even you're just being playful, and you're
just responding in any way possible. "You know what, I don't like you anymore. You are my new
enemy." You can say it just like that. And you're doing it again with a smile on your face. The
reason why again this is flirting is because it's building tension. Most guys will never say that to
a woman. They think they have to be nice all the time and agreeable all the time, but instead we're
doing the opposite. And that's the common theme of these 3 flirty phrases. Which brings me to number
3. "I can't believe how in love you are with me." What are we doing here? We're pegging her
the fact that she is interested in you. And this can be said again just once. We don't want to use
this multiple times - when she shows any sign of interest, even if it's small. You say it in a very
joking manner. If you say it serious, you don't have a smile on your face, then it's going to come
off too real and it's going to come off arrogant. This is a good example of what's called cocky
funny. Cocky funny is exactly what it sounds like. You're being cocky and funny at the same time. It
makes it more playful and fun and actually shows some confidence. I can't believe right now how
in love you're with me. I know. I get it. I'm amazing. What can I say? Cocky funny was actually
a term that was coined by an old dating coach named David DeAngelo, who's now known as Eben
Pagan. And he taught this and it's a really good way of that kind of push pull. Most guys are never
going to be doing this. They're never going to be cocky funny. You know who is going to be cocky
funny? Guys who are more confident, they can get away with that. Now I went in order of it being
increasingly more challenging. And that's because you have to be careful with when these are placed.
You want to play with these and the best way to use them is not to use all 3 right away or you
might screw it up. Instead, take one of these, maybe one of the first ones or if you feel bold,
you can do the last one that I said, and place them in a conversation with a woman and see the
reaction. Again, we want to stand out. We want to be unlike other guys she's talking to who are not
going to be jokey and cocky and pinning things on her and qualifying her and actually saying
to her that we don't need her and we can have other women. And yes, you are subconsciously
saying to her that you have other women or can be with other women when you're doing this
playful disqualification that you're seeing here. Subscribe if you're new here. I got more videos
coming out just like this. Hit that like button if this helps and use these to be more flirtatious.