This video is about "How to be Strong Enough to Walk Away from a Relationship" Stick around
to the end as I'll reveal powerful steps for you to take to become strong enough to finally
walk away from your relationship. Welcome to The SCG Show! This video is officially
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So far I've created 50 different videos about the subject of "walking away" I believe there
is great power in walking away, and it's the most popular content on this channel... it's evident that
thousands of people all have either resonated, understood, been inspired or related to this
fascinating topic, because the power in walking away in my opinion is multi-layered, yet ultimately
it's the courage in standing up for yourself. The alternative does not make you weak nor does it
make you bad, the alternative is staying, which ultimately means settling into the familiar...
staying with that toxic person... that toxic relationship... that unhappy and unhealthy scenario
an environment as well. Many choose to settle... they come out with justifications like "better the devil
you know... I can't be single at my age... I've got a lot going on being single would be way too much
I've got to stay focused on other things in my life, I can't handle a breakup as well!
When you think about it I guess they're not that bad...Listen this is what marriage is like I have
to accept my fate... I married them... I ended up with them, therefore I must put up with them regardless!"
Are you guilty of saying any of that or finding yourself
genuinely believing such statements as gospel and the truth? If so please stop,
take comfort in the fact that many people have been strong enough not only to walk away but
to stay away from their relationships... meaning they've been able to go on to better, healthier,
happier lives and better relationships... so you can do this, trust me! Anyone in my opinion can do this!
Here is how to be strong enough to walk away finally from a relationship...
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The first step to take is facing the reality of the situation AKA facing the facts... the fact is
simple = your relationship is most likely negative, unhealthy, unfulfilling and unhappy and there's no
other solution. This may sound dramatic but it had to take me getting locked out of my
home after yet another huge argument, being stuck in the pouring rain at night waiting
for a guy to unlock my front door, to finally realize my toxic relationship needed to end
Now don't get me wrong, I knew I was unhappy, I knew things weren't improving and they were
just so toxic, but it had to get me to finally realize that the fact was there was no other
option left but to walk away for good... which I did a few days later and it changed my life
Here are some cold hard facts you need to face = you cannot change them... I tried everything I could
to improve my toxic relationship, seriously everything... but in this situation a leopard
won't change its spots, hence why they're not right for you... no matter what you say
what gesture you do, unfortunately you'll never be good enough for the wrong person. Regrettably
they're just wrong for you and in return probably you for them and their expectations
What are you waiting for? Do you believe time is on your side aka the more time and energy you invest
the better things will get? No. Are you waiting for work to slow down, buying a home, having kids
getting married for things to improve? That's a dangerous and very slippery slope to go down
I hate losing as much as Michael Jordan and believe you me I tried everything to make things
right and guess what? I lost. I failed... so if you are out of options what choice have you got left?
Let's be real here... face the facts it's better than living in denial.... this is the very first
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If you're never going to take any risk in life, in this case walking away you'll get the same results
you always have. Let's paint a hypothetical of what would have most likely happened to me had I stayed
in that toxic relationship... Firstly I'd still be arguing, disagreeing and stressing over her and her
bad behavior.... I would have got married most likely again would have been full of problems and drama
we would have bought a home together with more stress and more issues there... then we might have
had children... fast forward a few years into the future and I would have been married, had kids and
had a home with the wrong woman... a toxic woman and I would have been miserable, unbelievably stressed
out, drained and exhausted all because I never took the risk of walking away into the unknown
AKA being single and alone for a while... I'll repeat this again so hopefully it hits home with you
you will carry on getting the SAME results if you never take a risk in life... in my case I would have
carried on having a toxic relationship with the wrong person. John was afraid initially like I was to walk
away from his toxic girlfriend... he assumed he'd never find a woman and be alone for the rest of
his life. So he settled, he stayed, they got married, they bought a house together, then they had kids
Fast forward to present day what happened to John? Now he's divorced, broke, he lives with his
parents and hardly gets to see his kids due to his narcissistic ex-wife... oh dear. The bigger risk for
John was taking no risk at all and instead staying with the familiar and pursuing a relationship with
a seriously toxic woman full of red flags that ultimately and eventually destroyed his life
Take the right risk... the calculated risk... the sensible one by walking away!
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Sometimes our imagination can run wild especially when we have breakup fantasies or
come very close to walking away... we often catch ourselves saying the following internally "I'm
doomed the moment I leave... oh I can't survive alone... I don't know what's gonna happen to me
Well I fear the worse... I'm gonna buckle from this pressure... I'm sorry but I'm too weak to do this.."
When we catastrophize in our mind we fear the very worse and a breakup in our mind is almost like the
ultimate confrontation. I understand dealing with a toxic person can be scary, unpredictable and so on
but so is spending another moment of your precious life with a toxic person... you're better off without
than settling and staying. Anna needed to get out of a seven-year relationship with an entitled man
a man who never appreciated her... he was really immature, he cheated on her and got caught
She catastrophized many times in her mind and thought so many doomsday scenarios like the world
was ending... then finally she walked away and stayed away too and guess what? Anna survived... she's living
her best life now and she is well and truly away from her toxic partner who was ruining her life
Let me tell you something = you will survive... you might not be able to see it now... you might find
it really hard to picture how you're going to put your life back together, but every single day, every
single moment people are walking away and moving on to brand new chapters, brand new lives without
their exes, without those toxic people, negative people, the people draining us, bringing us down
Please take comfort and have motivation that you are not alone and use other people as your
inspiration to quiet your imagination running wild... to inspire you finally to walk away
I remember a few years back that very first week after I had finally walked away and blocked and
gone no contacts from my toxic relationship. I felt completely numb, hurt, miserable, broken, drained as
a man... but despite my pain and suffering there and then I remember looking out in the distance
I looked out of the Horizon from a Hilltop... as I thought to myself "so what's next then?" Something
or somebody told me "The Best Is Yet To Come" Shortly after the pandemic started, then my dad
died tragically, then I was locked down alone and I had another brief relationship but it was very
short-lived and I thought back to that message that came to me "the best is yet to come" Right
this moment I'm the happiest and most satisfied I've ever been in a brand new relationship
through healing, therapy, recovery and one hell of a journey these past few years, the best has come and
it keeps getting better. That is the true power of walking away! The universe, God whoever and whatever
you believe in will reward you for your courage, but only if you remain strong enough to recognize
that you are standing up for yourself and what is good and love yourself enough to know you're doing
the right thing here! The Best Is Yet To Come... the better days they're just on the horizon... trust me!