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hey trip Kramer here from
trippadvice.com talking about some gift
ideas to turn her into your next
girlfriend
well we're gonna go a little bit of a
different route with this video so stay
with me here you are not gonna be
literally buying her gifts and I'm gonna
explain why that doesn't work although
it does in a very small way which we'll
get into now there is nothing that you
can buy a girl that is gonna make her
want to be your girlfriend now here's
the thing I know what you're gonna say
in the comments below
ya know [ __ ] love money girls just
want the ring yada yada yada listen
here's the deal if you're dating a girl
who is all about material possessions
and wants stuff from you well this girl
was never into you in the first place
and she just wants your money she wants
things otherwise it's not gifts or
tangible goods per se that make a girl
really attracted to you okay it's your
personality it's the way you behave
around her that builds attraction and a
whole bunch of other stuff including
something called the five love languages
okay no this is we're gonna get into the
meat of everything here the five love
languages is a book by Gary Chapman it
is a best-seller a lot of dating coaches
talk about it's talked about so much
that you might have even heard it before
and the reason why is because it's so
simple and effective and it's basically
the way people receive love so you want
to give her the gift of receiving love
now this doesn't mean that you say I
love you to her it could potentially but
really it's broken down into five
different categories the five love
languages which are funny enough one of
them is gifts but we'll talk about that
a second gifts words of affirmation acts
of service quality time and touch those
are the five right there okay so what
does this have to do with
you and her well everyone feels loved in
one of those ways sometimes a couple of
those ways so for example for me I am
touch and quality time right so being
physical with the woman and spending
quality time with no distraction is
something that I like what is it that
you like in fact I want you to write
yours down below out of all the five
again words and affirmation that's like
people saying really nice things to each
other like I'm proud of you maybe I love
you things like that then you have gifts
which I know what I said earlier like
don't get gifts but you know little
small things it doesn't have to be
something like expensive like a purse or
something like that but little tangible
objects that you know might say to her
let go he was thinking of me you know I
don't know one day you guys are on a
date and you bring her something like
something that she mentioned before that
she really likes again not like the
first or second date like down the line
when you guys been dating for a long
time so that's gifts then we have touch
which already went over quality time
which I went over and acts of service
acts of service doing something nice for
someone so you feel loved in some of
those ways she feels loved in some of
those ways and that is the gift that
you're giving her that it will turn her
into your growth and that will beyond
girlfriend be able to sustain a
relationship some of the biggest
complaints that people have in
relationship so that they don't feel
loved and they don't know why and these
are the reasons cuz it's the five most
common categories that I just explained
where people feel and they're loved by
the other person so here's what you do
you got to find out what these are from
her and here's the trick when you guys
are first dating bring it up to her in a
way where you just heard about this so
you say to her have you ever heard of
the five love languages and she'll say
either yes which is great and you'll say
oh what are yours or she'll say no I
never heard that then you explain it to
her just like I explained it to you
maybe a little bit better and then you
guys can talk about it you just said and
you say like oh I found out about this
it's just interesting and then you guys
talk about it because just it's an
interesting topic of conversation and
that way you're gonna find out what her
love languages are and then boom now you
know and you can start being able to use
this to make her feel special make her
feel loved and wanted
which is what most people want
especially in relationships and then
she'll be falling into your arms what a
great way to escape and avoid the
friendzone using these five love
languages but if you are still in the
friend zone or you constantly get in
there I want you to check out a blog
post that I wrote about how to avoid the
friend zone and there is a link in the
description below go there and read that
post if you find yourself always
entering the friend zone and never
getting to the point where she actually
likes you or games to the point where
she wants to be your girlfriend
learn about that go check it out don't
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