- If you could go back to the first time we met,
what advice would you give yourself
regarding being in a relationship with me?
(both laughing)
That's a great question right there.
(cards shuffling)
(mouse clicking)
- Oh God, I'm scared.
What would you warn my next partner about dating me?
Oh!
- First of all, bitch, she's mine!
(both laughing)
Honestly, your last relationship showed how mature I am,
like in regards to handling when she called, you know?
So what I would warn them is the same thing I told.
Like, she has a lot of things that she's working through,
and you gotta be patient.
Okay, my turn.
Ah!
What do you remember from the first time we met?
- Oh! - These are good!
- Aww!
I remember you walking past and me saying who is that?
And then, since you were my suite mate's friend,
she was like oh, that's Briana.
So I just remember, like you walking past
and asking me if I wanted to take a walk after studying.
(both laughing)
- Very true.
Okay, your turn.
- What are your three favorite memories we share?
- Okay, perfect.
And I think you know the answer to these.
I don't have specifics but any time
that we first met in college,
my like all-time favorite memories.
Like our first kiss, our first everything.
Like that era was perfect for us.
I wanna ask you that but I think
we're on the same page, right? - Yes.
- Okay, my turn.
(sighs) I don't like this question
but I'm gonna ask it anyway.
- Okay.
- What are you hesitant to ask me?
(gasps)
I'm scared.
- Oh!
- I don't know why I just got teary-eyed about that.
'Cause I feel like there's something that you wanna ask.
- (sighs) Yikes.
Hmm, what am I hesitant to ask?
I'm very hesitant
to ask about your prior relationships after us.
Like that's one thing.
I'm just like, I don't even wanna know.
I wanna know but I don't, like all at the same time.
Like why is she fucking with this person? (laughs)
- Yeah.
- It's a very, very big trigger.
- Do you want me to answer? - Yes, answer!
(both laughing)
- This actually just came to mind.
I'm really hesitant to ask you
about when you cheated on me.
- Oh, I knew we were going there!
- Yeah, I'm hesitant to know the details
because it still pisses me off.
Like it makes me upset.
Like it really makes me so,
like even thinking about it makes me
like wanna punch you in the face.
- Mm! (laughs)
- (laughs) I mean, I wouldn't obviously, but like you know?
- Mm-hmm.
- So I'm hesitant to ask about that.
Like I'll ask about anything else.
Like sometimes I'll ask you and like kinda shut it down
before you really even answer me.
- You do.
- But like that is just like
for me to even ask did you was a lot.
And then when you were like yeah, I was like...
I was so lightheaded and I think I was laying down.
I'm like, what?
And I'm just finding this out, how many years later?
Are you kidding?
You know, so yeah.
- Yeah and damn.
All right.
- Wait. - What's the pain in me?
Wow.
- I knew this question was gonna come.
- What's the pain in me you wish you could heal?
- Without a doubt, without a doubt,
it would be your grandma.
- Aww, that was deep.
- Yeah, I knew this question was gonna come.
I knew it. - Ugh!
- And it's making me teary because--
- It's making me teary. - Yeah.
That's the one, 'cause I thought about it,
and I'm like why are you thinking so hard?
Like there's a lot of things but I feel like
everything else you can resolve.
That's just something that is difficult.
You can take your time.
I know.
- Okay.
- Yeah, I knew that question was gonna come.
I knew it was.
I'm gonna ask you the same thing, but when you're ready.
Mm-hmm.
- I would say...
It's a lot.
So kind of like if I could take everything,
I would. - Like what?
What do you mean?
- Like, you know, like family,
and being the one that everybody relies on,
even when you don't have it yourself.
Like I feel like that's one of the biggest things,
as far as like your pain.
Or like people loving you, and loving you genuinely.
I feel that's a very big pain of yours, too.
- Okay, that's fair.
All right, wait.
Are you ready to move on?
- Yeah. - Okay.
Hmm, okay.
- You and this.
(laughs)
Okay, so-- - What does that say?
- I get to ask any question I want.
- Okay, fine.
- I don't have a question.
- Ask the question on the card.
Oh, that's what it says?
Ask any question?
You could say pass and we can stare at each other.
(laughs)
- Okay, I mean, we're gonna pass
but if I do think of a question, I'll just throw it in there
because I have no idea.
I think I want the details for certain things,
like your car.
What happened to your car?
Who is that woman?
(both laughing)
When did that happen?
See, I got questions!
(both laughing)
No seriously, let's talk about it.
- About what?
- Your car.
Because I didn't know that that happened to it.
I thought that it just died because it was dying.
Yeah, uncomfortable now, huh?
You don't have to go into detail but like
who is this person?
Do I know this person?
- No.
- And when did you meet them, after--
- Yes.
- Were we talking?
- No.
- Were we even friends?
- Nope.
- Okay, cool, that's all that matters.
(both laughing)
'Cause I feel like that's just...
Because I'm very monogamous, like literally,
I could be talking to someone
but if we're getting serious,
I will drop them like a hot potato.
Like excuse me, this is not working out.
But this is how I am with all my love interests.
I like to focus on one person
and I like that to be reciprocated.
So, I'm sorry if I keep asking about if you're talking
to someone while you're talking to me
or even if we're sexual.
It's just because I want the same respect reciprocated.
- Yeah.
- And that's it.
- Which is understandable. - Mm-hmm.
- What do you think I learned from our relationship
that I will take into my next one? (laughs)
- Oh God.
I think I like gave you a run for your money.
Shit.
Like it's not about looks, it's not about the physical,
and it's also...
Even intellectually, I feel like you can find people
that have conversations but like you need to find
someone that can cater to you emotionally.
'Cause you're actually very emotional, too.
So I think that our relationship taught you those things
and I hope you take it to your next relationship,
if your next relationship isn't me.
- (laughs) I knew you were gonna say that.
- (laughs) I have to put it in there
because now we're like open to the possibility of like,
okay, if we work through our shit,
then maybe we can have something again.
And I'm not opposed to it.
I always said like, when people ask like
would get back with her?
And I'm like well, if we fix the shit
that we need to fix with ourselves,
I feel like we would have a beautiful partnership.
I feel if we decided to parent, like we're great partners
outside of lovers, you know?
- Okay.
- That was me or you?
- You.
- Okay.
I don't why I feel like we're speeding but like...
- We're not. (laughs)
- Oh, okay, I just answered this,
but would you ever consider dating again?
Why or why not?
- Oh God.
- Girl! - Right now, no.
- Is it because of our drive because--
- I just...
Mm-mm.
I like being single.
Like I don't, I just--
- But this is interesting because a few hours ago,
are you just joking?
Like when you say things like we'll get married or--
- No! - Or when you call me babe?
- I mean, you're always babe.
(sighs)
- (laughs) I don't know what else to call you.
- You're full of shit.
- What am I supposed to say? - [Both] Bri?
- Yeah, call me my name. - Ugh, that sounds weird.
- Don't call me babe, then.
I love being single.
Oh, oh, I'm gonna--
- You are the same one who say the same thing to me.
- But I keep it consistent.
I'm pretty consistent.
Okay, okay, we're gonna talk it out, then.
Because I'm not, I--
- Fix it, fix it, go ahead, fix it.
- I play with the idea of like--
- And that's me too.
It's a good idea, it's--
- Okay, so-- - It feels good.
- What's the question again?
(laughs)
Would you ever consider dating again?
This is would you ever.
- Oh yeah, eventually.
- (sighs) 'Cause the way you said it was like, no!
- Never! (laughs)
- I just wanted to push you out of the chair
like conversation over, we're done with this
because you're full of shit.
- Yeah, I didn't mean it like that but right now,
just taking my time.
- I fucking agree, I do-- - I'm taking my time.
- I don't wanna be in a relationship with you.
I don't, I don't want to be--
- You didn't have to whisper that!
(both laughing)
We can all hear you.
We're right here!
- I do it often, though.
That's just how I talk, you know that.
- That's how you do it?
- Shut up!
But yeah, no, I agree.
I don't think that we should be in a relationship right now,
not even a few months from now.
I think that we need time. - Yeah.
- But we can be good friends, best friends.
Even though I hate that term.
- That's fine, you're my best friend.
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