Hi.
I’m Brad.
Sometimes, people call me Breakup Brad… and most likely that’s because I’m the
only person on earth willing to spend over a decade helping people get their ex back
or get through a tough breakup.
Thankfully for you, I actually do love doing that, and I’m happy to geek out on breakup
psychology… and I’m happy to make videos like this one, where I’ll give you beautiful
viewers some advice about sending your ex gifts or love notes.
I plan on keeping this short.
All I’m going to do is answer the following question….
CAN SENDING YOUR EX GIFTS OR LOVE LETTERS
HELP WIN THEM BACK?
….
…..No.
*quickly cut back to wide angle shot, and another brief awkward silence pause, then
cut again quickly to another angle of Brad for the next sentence*
Alright, and that does it for this video…..
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Thanks so much for watchin-....
Alright alright, you want a more detailed answer?
Fine.
But honestly, folks, I actually could’ve just ended the video there, because that’s
pretty much what I think about the idea of giving your ex a gift or sending them any
kind of gushy, spill-your-guts love letter.
Please do not send your ex any kind of gift, ever.
I honestly cannot think of a single situation where this would be a good idea, and I’ve
never recommended it to a client….
It’s just never a good idea, not for Christmas, not for Valentines, birthdays, etc.
Giving your ex any kind of gift when you want them back is basically saying, “I’m so
desperate for you to take me back, I’m even willing to try and buy your love back…”
Total, complete opposite of what you want to be projecting to your ex if you’re trying
to get back together.
You need to appear like you’re thriving, you’re happy without your ex, and you don’t
give a shit about them anymore… that’s the only effective way to change their mind
about breaking up and re-wire their feelings for you and the possibility of a future together.
Love letters… just as bad as gifts.
Maybe worse.
Don’t show your emotions to your ex at all, because 99% of the time it’s going to make
you look needy, desperate, and vulnerable.
I actually realize that, unlike gifts, the idea of spilling your heart out to your ex
can be appealing… you want to put it all out there, say what you feel and be done with
it….
But, as someone who has helped over 100,000 clients reverse their breakups….
I can safely say this will not help you win back your ex.
More than likely, it’ll hurt your chances.
Now, there is one exception to this -- well, at least, sort of -- and that is my Clean
Slate message template.
I’ve made videos on this in the past, but basically this is a message you can send to
your ex in certain situations where you’ve made past mistakes -- begging, pleading, apologizing
over and over -- to undo that damage and help re-set your ex to an “emotional neutral”
state.
It’s only for specific situations, and is somewhat of a last-ditch move, but probably
the majority of you watching won’t ever need to send the Clean Slate message at all.
Sorry, I can’t get into details here, this is supposed to be a short video… but you
really do need to properly set the stage and make sure you use the Clean Slate template
100% correctly, or else it may backfire and make things worse… please visit BreakupBrad.com
and watch my free video presentation to learn more, or register for my Ex Factor program
right now and learn exactly how to safely and effectively use the Clean Slate message
on your ex.
ALRIGHT FOLKS, the final verdict on sending your ex gifts or letters IS….
….exactly.
Don’t do it.
If you want your ex back, here’s a WAY better idea than sending gifts to your ex… go to
BreakupBrad.com and watch my free video, subscribe to my channel here on YouTube, and leave your
questions and feedback in the comments below.
Thanks for watching, see you soon!