- I don't get into it much,
it's none of their goddamn business,
but here I am on camera saying it, so.
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- My name is Kennedy, and I am a virgin.
Just saying it out loud doesn't make any difference
to me, 'cause I say it out loud all the time.
I'm very open about talking about my sexuality.
- Do people automatically think you're a freak?
'Cause you're very individualized,
like you're very you.
People like that are usually like freaks.
- Yes, I do, but I'm not going to rush into it,
it's not something I feel like I need to do.
If I get those urges I can take care of them by myself.
- I did?
- He's not a virgin.
- There's no way that that guy's a virgin!
- I haven't found the right person.
And when I was brought up Catholic,
you waited 'til you were married.
- (laughs) Pissed me off?
No, no, no, no one said anything that really pissed me off.
- Right off the bat, I'm gonna say he's a virgin.
- Ouch.
- You're a virgin.
- M'kay. - Yeah.
Is that offensive?
(laughs)
- I thought it was interesting, though,
like how they gathered it up.
Like respect or kindness is immediately associated
with oh, so you don't get some?
- The way you approached me,
you just seem like a very like, wholesome guy.
(laughs)
- I'm surprised that nobody guessed that I was a virgin.
I guess it's because I'm more confident
here in a studio in front of a camera.
But out in the world I'm very awkward
and shy and nervous around new people.
I'm more of a stay-at-home, nerd on the computer.
- So do you do online, I assuming online dating at all?
- I have Tinder, but I use it more like a video game.
It's something to do with my thumb.
- Okay.
- Lately I have, lately I have.
- Do you have a Tinder?
- No.
What is a Tinder?
- It's like an app that you swipe
and you go, I would fuck that person
or I wouldn't
fuck that person. - Oh, I'll check it out.
- No, it's terrible.
- It's kind of a trip.
The connection between intimacy and sex.
Now they're, I think, completely different.
I found I've had a lot deeper connections,
relationships even, than a lot of my friends
who get out a lot more, you know what I mean?
- Absolutely, yeah.
- I eat pussy.
Who doesn't like to eat pussy?
Man, I'm just saying, but.
So, you know, you get good at that,
and you make friends.
- Definitely.
There's a lot of that, I guess you could say
toxic masculinity that goes around,
and the assumption that everybody has had sex
and oh dude, how many chicks did you bang?
And it can be a lot of pressure for anybody.
I know it is to me.
- It doesn't make me sad.
I'm meaning to care more.
Doesn't make me sad.
- Yeah, yeah, I mean that's kinda why
I want a sense of control over it.
And my own bit was because it's
you know, kinda really important.
So it's one of those things.
- I would sort of like to choose my virginity once,
and then I guess go back the next day
and then sleep with that same person.
But, just to say that I chose it,
that's important to me.
- It'll happen if it happens.
In the meantime, I'm just gonna do me.
And if someone happens to go along those same lines,
and be on the same path as I am,
then I mean, yeah, I'll get involved with them.
It's not really on the radar at the moment.
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