Love is one of the greatest blessings we have the joy of experiencing...
But what if the person who has stolen your heart has different interests than yours,
or even deals with completely different circumstances altogether?
Is this relationship inevitably doomed to fail?Well, once again, Astrology is here to
give us a hand for our love life to strive and become a better version of itself.
Is it a marriage that will bring nothing but trouble or is there a way to complement each
other after all?
Welcome to Lifesolver and In this video we answer Is capricorn man compatible with a
Cancer woman?
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The Capricorn man is self-demanding, so he prioritizes work and austerity over emotional
needs.
Therefore, he strongly feels that developing emotional maturity as well as adaptability
to reality requires thwarting Cancer's childish needs.
He knows that life is not as one imagined it as a child!
It is necessary to go out into the daily fray to become an adult.
So, the Capricorn personality and its conviction that it is essential to assume objective responsibilities
towards society and oneself clashes with the Cancerian tendency to be tolerant and indulgent
with their own most basic and subjective emotional needs.
As a result, the Cancer woman's personality is perceived by the Capricorn man as immature
or childish.
Also, for the Capricorn man, adjusting to reality imposes sacrifices and efforts, but
he feels that his Cancer partner pretends to avoid this to stay in her illusory world
of childish insecurities.
Fulfilling "what should be" conflicts with the naive whims of the Cancer woman's personality.
Besides, the Capricorn man emphasizes the importance of moderating his most basic emotions,
overcoming the illusion that there will always be someone to take care of us or protect us.
It seems inevitable that the susceptibility and vulnerability of the emotional world of
the Cancer woman are presented as a threat before which he feels it is necessary to be
inflexible and rigid to promote her growth.
On the other hand, the Cancer woman perceives her Capricorn man as cold and demanding, insensitive
to her fears and emotional needs.
For the Cancer woman, the world of duty and social commitments must never prevail over
her feelings.
Therefore, she cannot understand the harshness with which Capricorn imposes responsibilities
on her, regardless of her sufferings.
This tension between a pragmatic world and a world of subjective sensitivity frightens
the Cancer woman.
The delicate and emotional world of Cancer seems to disagree with the pragmatic view
of the Capricorn's man reality.
The Cancer woman feels like the Capricorn man is forcing her to sacrifice peaceful family
life to become involved with society, an impersonal realm of work and career development, rife
with opportunistic ambitions and lovelessness.
So how can these two manage to tolerate each other?
Well, after the relationship settles down, the Capricorn man realizes that the more fragile
parts of his being need to be nurtured from time to time.
Therefore, he will be able to tolerate those moments when his Cancer woman's sentimentality
takes center stage.
The Capricorn man's personality understands that tenderness and warmth are necessary and
that they invigorate his personal will and equip him better for the effort.
Although he still perceives the threat of vulnerability it represents, he accepts that
emotional sensitivity is functional to achievement in society and that he must learn to include
it if he expects solid and tangible success.
The Capricorn man learns that incorporating affection and contact with human sensitivity
allows him to benefit from a loosening of ties that leads to much firmer and stronger
achievements.
Besides, feeling loved and cherished gives him greater confidence and strengthens his
relationship with the objective world and his social commitments.
And no one better than the Cancer woman can remind him of this!
Meanwhile, the Cancer woman also begins to appreciate the benefits of her relationship
with the Capricorn man.
Although she feels that his severity and excessive rigor in meeting social norms, she values
the maturity that he displays in his life.
She understands, moreover, that these qualities are what she needs to develop, and there is
nothing better than the presence of the Capricorn man to do so.
Also, the Cancer woman's personality discovers that, if she tolerates a certain rigidity
from Capricorn and does not react with emotional demands to his coldness, she can benefit from
his effective way of being in the world and knowing how to respond to social demands.
The Cancer woman knows that, to accept the challenge of her relationship with Capricorn,
she must abandon her tendency to self-indulgence and to handle herself exclusively in the familiar
domain, and that she will have to go through frustrations of childhood fantasies and learn
to handle herself in the hostile objectivity of impersonal spheres.
So, on a much deeper level, the Capricorn man discovers that, without the love that
the Cancer woman provides, every construction is fragile.
Feelings are part of the objective order of reality and, rather than being an obstacle,
they are fundamental to achieve personal fulfillment.
Knowing how to respond to the laws of existence implies having a subtle contact with human
sensitivity.
The Capricorn man loves to realize solid and lasting projects.
Thanks to his relationship with the Cancer woman, he can understand how all his endeavors
need contact with emotions to be truly consistent.
Just as a house is solid because it is made of concrete and water, the hard and the soft,
the cold and the warm, are the essential ingredients that make up any solid structure of reality.
Thanks to the Cancer woman, the Capricorn man incorporates tenderness in his actions,
which allows him to respond more harmoniously to different situations.
The alchemy in which Capricorn and Cancer synthesize reveals that the objective social
order and intimate personal needs are indissolubly linked, that the more formal structures of
external reality correspond and relate to the fragile and vulnerable inner human world.
The emotional and affective nature of Cancer is in charge of the family and home life.
It needs, therefore, a quality that completes it, that knows how to be responsible for what
happens on the outside, and that provides the necessary structure and material support.
That is what the Capricorn man is there for.
The Cancerian personality discovers that what dissolves her fears and matures her emotions
and affections is to assume responsibilities in the objective world of social affairs.
As she knows how to respond for herself to the demands of society, her subjectivity is
enriched, she abandons childish and familiar habits and can account for complexities inherent
in the human soul that are common to all.
On a much deeper level, the Cancer woman understands that not everything has to be affectionately
warm and that the outside world also needs emotional commitment.
Therefore, she will be able to bring affection and sensitivity to her community, humanizing
professional spaces as well.
Thanks to the Capricorn man, the Cancer woman manages to emerge from the lethargy of her
nuclear shelter and begins to display her authority in the world: her capacity for contact
with tenderness, sensitivity, and soul vulnerability, feeling at the same time her belonging to
humanity.
For all of the above reasons, it can be very tempting to engage in unnecessary grievances.
However, that's exactly the kind of thing they must fight for to prevent an amazing
romance from coming down.
Like yin and yang, the Cancer woman and the Capricorn man are opposites who complement
each other's differences.
By uniting these two forces, they create a new combination that could never occur if
they were apart, which is what they must never forget.
That is why this marriage is one of the best, and as long as they rely on each other's strengths,
they will maintain an indestructible and lasting relationship.
So, what do you like most about your marriage with your Capricorn man or your Cancer woman?Let
me know now in the comments below and don't forget to subscribe for more weekly videos
like this one.