Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. I want to talk to you about what
happens when a girl looks at you. There's going to be a whole variety of situations
where you're going to see a girl and you're gonna catch eye contact with her. That
means that you're going to be seeing her and all of a sudden your eyes are going to
meet, she's going to look at you and then she's going to quickly look away. It's very
rare that when a girl looks at you she sits there and stares for more than
two seconds. But she's going to look at you. Maybe she's going to smile. Maybe
it's going to look more like a glance but either way it's going to happen and you
need to know what to do. Here's what you have to do.
You know that you have to go over there and start a conversation with her
because it's an invitation and even if it's not an invitation, your mindset
should be that it's an invitation. I know for a lot of you guys that's very
scary. You don't know what to do so on this video this is basically your step
by step plan to know exactly how to proceed when you get that glance or that
look. Since you're watching this video you're going to know now to be aware of it
when it happens. Here's what I want you to do. When a girl looks over at
you, I want you to hold it. I want you to win the eye contact
stare. That's right. You need to be the one to hold it until she looks away.
This is going to be dominant, this is going to be sexy, this is going to be attractive because
you're going to be showing her that you're not scared and you're going to be showing
her that you are interested and you want her to know that. So the next time a girl
looks at you do not look away. Look the entire time and of course, don't worry.
She's not going to be looking for that long and if she does I want you to smile.
After 2 seconds just give a very nice smile and then she's either going to
smile look away or she's just going to look away. In exactly 5 seconds you are
going to go over there and walk up and greet her. A lot of guys will think
oh she smiled at me, she looked at me and then they'll wait the rest of
the night to go say hi to her or maybe they'll wait till the end of the train
ride to go say hello or they'll wait till whenever.
The perfect time to do this is right away. Wait a couple seconds and
go over there. Here's the next thing that a lot of guys end up getting wrong.
And that is they go over there and they mention something about the fact
that they were looking over at them. You don't want to mention that.
Don't mention anything about hey I noticed you saw me over here. Hey I noticed you
were looking at me. Don't call attention to the fact that you guys made
eye contact. Her giving you eye contact and smiling that means that she's
already interested and wants you to come over and speak to her. Again you
might be thinking well Tripp what if she just looked at me because people look at
each other. That's true but I still want you to go back to the mindset that I
said earlier in the beginning of this video and that mindset is you're going
to assume attraction. Why? Because it's going to give you more confidence and make
you more smooth when you're going over there. Just assume she's interested.
Just assume that she wants to talk to you because if you're going over there
thinking oh I don't know if she likes me or if she doesn't like me, that's going to mess
everything up for you because you're going to be going into it with that poor
mindset and not really going into the fullest ability that you can with this
thing. I'm in Chicago so I'm going to use a Michael Jordan reference. You think
Michael Jordan went into a game thinking oh I'm probably going to lose or I'm
probably going to miss this shot or probably not going to work out? No! He says
oh this is going to be the game where I'm going to win again. This is your mindset.
You're going to win again. Now 5 seconds you've gone over there and and
you want to say hello and you want to talk to her. All you got to do is use one
of my favorite new openers and it's this hi I'm Tripp. You're not going to be
using Tripp you're going to be saying your name hi I'm blank. That's it. You're going to
introduce yourself because again you're going to be treating this like every other
approach. Going over there, saying hello, introducing yourself and continuing
conversation from there. More importantly than anything, I don't want you to wait
for this. I know I made this video for you because you should know what to do
when a girl looks at you but don't wait for this. Don't ever wait for a girl
to give you eye contact and smile. Yes it's a
lovely approach invitation. It makes it very nice, makes it a little bit easier
for you, makes it more confident for you. But at the end of the day you
see a girl you want to talk to just go do it. Learning how to attract women is
very difficult for guys. They don't have a step-by-step system to know what to do
after the hello or what to do to get her interested in them or what to do to get
the girl hooked on them and wanting to see and date them. For you I've
created a program called Hooked which you can check out at www.getherhooked.com.
That teaches you everything that you need to know in terms of going over and
attracting a girl and knowing step by step what to do and what to say.
I have a bunch of videos on my youtube channel that give you the
information of what to do and how to do it. But if you're looking for more of a
structured plan of okay I want to start from the very beginning and take it all
the way to the end to the more advanced stuff, then check out Hooked at www.getherhooked.com.
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Peace out.