There's that moment when you just look
deeply into someone's eyes and just know
from the bottom of your heart that you
truly love that person that moment might
just be the most terrifying moment you
will ever experience in your entire life
scarier than even skydiving or spiders
because fear can cause us to just freeze
up.
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So rather than you be lost trying to
figure out how to tell a guy that you love
him, this video will show you how to do it
depending on your dating situation.
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hey there, AdamLoDolce from sexy
confidence.com where I help women, just
like you create their love story now most
women in my experience when they start
dating a guy they'll wait to say anything
that.
The L Word and then it enough time goes by
in the guy doesn't say they will go out of
nowhere it confess their love to him and
then he'll be like and then they're gonna
run off in the heart is completely broken
and shattered into a million different
pieces.
I don't want that to be you.
I want you to follow the advice in this
video.
So let's just start with a high-level
principle that applies universally when it
comes to love the way to ultimately tell
someone that you love them is to show them
this means that you're thinking about them
and you want to do something special for
them.
Legitimately care about their needs and in
many cases put their needs over your needs
and of course it goes the other way the
best way to feel love from someone is for
them to show you that they love you and if
you're not feeling of love from the guy
he's not showing you that he loves you
then you know what stop investing so much
emotionally in the man as I always say
never invest more in a man than he's
investing in you.
So now that we got that out of the way,
let's look at a few scenarios where you
want to tell a guy that you love him
scenario a is.
He's told you that he loves you, but you
just haven't responded yet.
Now where the enough this happens a lot
and it can be happy because maybe you're
afraid to actually give in you're afraid
of your emotions.
Or maybe you just work a little bit caught
off guard if that's the case.
Just go ahead tell him back that you love
him.
There's no worse feeling in the world
being a guy then to confess your love to a
woman and she hasn't yet given you any
type of response.
Don't let fear get in the way if he is
shown you that he loves you as well as
he's told.
That he loves you then you need to take
that leap of faith.
I mean look as I always say the past
doesn't equal the future.
Maybe you've gotten burned in the past but
you got to take that leap of faith and
really hope that things are going to work
out and realize that you know, sometimes
it's not going to work out but many times
it does now scenario B is that he's
showing you that he loves you, but he
hasn't yet told you or said those words if
this is the case then be patient be
patient with him.
I know that you want nothing more.
To feel that security of him telling you
that he loves you.
But sometimes people just take a little
bit longer to actually say those words.
I for one didn't tell Jessica that I loved
here for five months and 22 days of
dating.
She was getting a little annoyed.
She would never admit it at the time but
she was kind of losing her patience here.
The reality is I knew that I loved her
within the first moment of meeting her and
really the first date of being with her in
reality.
I just knew that this was the person I
wanted to be with and the reason why I was
waiting to say those words.
Because of my past relationship I said
those words prematurely and realize pretty
quickly shortly.
Thereafter that I wasn't actually in love
in that the relationship needed to end.
So I was a little bit of scarred from that
break up because.
It wasn't too good.
Luckily Jessica was patient.
And when I did finally tell her that I
loved her then she of course reciprocated
and I was able to tell her kind of why I
waited so long and all his worked out
we're now engaged but I will say this if
he goes more than 6 to 8 months without
telling you he loves you, then you may
want to take a closer.
Look if the actions he's putting into the
relationship are showing you that he
actually does love you get advice from
friends and start to figure out is this.
I really in it For Love or is he in it for
maybe a little bit something else scenario
C is that he hasn't showed you that he
loves you and he hasn't told you if this
is the case, I'm sorry to give you bad
news, but
this thing is over.
Stop living your love life with a strategy
of Hope.
Hoping and praying that a guy will change
or that he's going to finally come around
and confess his love to you or even worse
hope that if you confess your love to him.
He's going to suddenly realize that he's
always loved you and come back don't live
that way.
You are a higher value woman than to live
that life move on with your life.
Back off a little bit from this
relationship go get a life work on your
own social life.
If you're not in a committed relationship
with that guy and he's not showing you
that he loves you.
He's not telling you that he loves you.
Then you are a free woman to accept ate
some other guys keep getting out there
keep flirting and keep your online dating
profile out there and go on dates because
this guy hasn't invested in you so, you
know, what no more investing in him time
to move on and say that four letter word,
which is next.
Find the next guy and if you do want a
little bit of help with your love life, I
have a free training free webinar that's
available right here or right down there
in the description this video or anywhere
on this page or it's likely complex.com.
We're going to show you the three steps to
getting a guy to pursue you and only you.
And on that webinar
we were talking about my signature course,
which is attract the one academy, which
really helps you through a 10-week process
of getting out there and finding the man
that you truly deserve.
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I'll speak to you, you sexy single lady,
next week.
Bye.