A lot of guys want to know the signs if a girl is interested in them.
In fact, I do have a few videos that talk all about that.
Whether a girl's interested in you or not, the signs she's giving, the clues that she's
giving, the things that she's saying, the actions that she's taking.
They really want to know what these are.
But on today's video, I want to do something a little bit different.
I've given you the signs that she's interested, but what are the signs she's not interested
in?
I tried to come up with a list and so the list that I'll be giving you today is the
full list.
I don't think that there's anything else that really shows that a girl is not interested.
Any other besides the ones I'm telling you today are just examples or very similar to
the ones that I'm giving you.
If you get any of these 5 signs, it's pretty clear that she's not interested or I should
say, really one sign or more.
Because even any one of these signs that I'll be telling you today do show that she's not
interested completely.
Not like maybe I'm not sure but they're clear signs that she's not interest in you.
Before we get into these, I want to explain what does that mean interested in you?
What I'm trying to say here is that she likes you more than a friend, right?
I'm just taking a wild guess that you're watching these videos, because you want a girl as a
girlfriend or you want something is casual, but you're not looking for friendship.
These are not videos about how to get a girl who is a friend.
So when I say interest in you, I'm talking about her having sexual interest in you and
liking you beyond the friendship level.
Okay, so these are five signs that she is not interested in you, meaning not interested
on that level that I'm talking about.
Okay, let's get into it.
Here's number one, I would say this is probably the biggest one here, okay, because this is
the number one sign that a girl is interested, but I'll go deeper in a second.
So the biggest sign that she's not interested in you is that she's not willing to meet up
with you or she keeps putting it off.
Now again, like I just said it second ago, the number one sign she is interested is that
she does agree to see you she does agree to be on a date with you.
She doesn't put it off, she makes time.
So of course, the opposite of that is that she doesn't do that.
A lot of guys get really, really caught up in texting a girl lot and then the girl will
end up flaking after the ask for a date, but she'll still be responsive over text.
So then the guy will ask her out again and again.
And she keeps flaking or she keeps responding to the text but says no.
And so they get really confused because they think, wait a minute.
Well, she likes me.
She's responding to me, she is agreeing to a date.
But the bottom line is, if she's not taking the action, to see you to meet up with you
to go on a date with you, then this is just a texting buddy, or at least a girl that you're
just bothering all the time asking her out.
And she keeps on saying no.
So stop being persistent, and this completely issue won't meet up With you, she is hundred
percent not interested.
Now I just want to say here that this is a no particular order.
So let's just move on to the next one.
But the next one is she refers to you as a friend, or she uses the word friend.
Okay?
So some guys are in situations with maybe co workers, or a girl in a social circle setting,
or a girl that they're friends with from class or wherever the case may be.
And the girl ends up using the word friend.
I remember this very well when I was in college, and it stung so much yet I didn't get the
clue and I just kept on trying kept on trying.
In college, there was this girl that I would show a little bit of interest in, and she
totally understood what was going on.
She saw that I was crushing on her and that I was trying to pursue something and she would
then use the word friend all the time with me she'd say, hey friend, how you doing friend
or we would text and she's a to hate for It's like her nickname for me was friend and girls
will do this to get into your brain that she does not like you than more than a friend.
So she's giving you these clues these hints, and I know I get it can be confusing.
I was getting confused too.
I'd be like, well, she's still kind of flirting with me.
But she's calling me friend.
But she hugs me.
But she's calling me friend, but she's really responsive to my text messages.
But she's calling me friend.
But I keep on trying to ask her out.
And she says no.
And she's calling me her friend.
So that was on me.
This is not her fault.
This is my fault.
I was not seeing the clear sign.
So if any girl says anything to you about, Oh, I'm so glad we have this friendship together.
I'm so glad that we're friends that did it.
This is not showing her showing interest in you.
This is actually showing this interest in you in terms of disinterest sexually and more
than a friend okay?
So you have to understand that so look off of this if you're in one of these kind of
friends zoni situations and she's being sort of clear that you are just her friend now
the next one here gets a little bit tricky because there's there's levels okay?
So basically this next one is you're trying to make a physical advance okay?
So you're trying to be physical with her intimate with her sexual with her.
However, what ends up happening is she keeps on rejecting it.
Okay, so this could be a friend zone situation where she's not using the word friend and
she's not putting you in the friend zone by saying it clearly.
But you do try to make moves and she kind of just says no, but she still continues to
either date you or be in this weird vague friendship.
And this happens a lot and guys will be actually dating a girl and he'll try to put moves on
her and I'm not saying like on the first date where she's not comfortable.
I mean, date after date after date after date, and excluding anything religion wise or or
just her belief and not wanting to have sex before marriage or anything like that.
Besides that stuff.
Those are exceptions.
If she's not making or accepting a physical advance with you, then she's not interested,
then really, this is just some sort of weird dating situation where things are not getting
sexual, or she's also just a friend, but she's too scared to deny it.
So if you're making some sort of physical advance in any way, this means like kiss or
anything more than that kiss to foreplay to sex.
And she denies it.
It says no, consistently.
I don't mean the first time Okay, she could still be interested in us.
She says no, the first time, but she does this consistently.
You've been seeing her for a long time.
She's like, interested in you a little bit, but not all the way because you guys are just
at this friendship type level, unless you break that touch barrier.
So if you're not breaking the touch barrier, or she's not allowing it and not because she's
uncomfortable, it's different.
A woman is uncomfortable.
She might just not want to do it with users.
I'm gonna do with being comfortable or uncomfortable.
She just doesn't see you in that way.
So that's not happening.
She's not interested.
Here's one.
And this one, it makes you cringe.
It makes you annoyed, and I totally get it.
Let's say, you guys are trying to meet up and she does agree to meet up with you.
She does agree.
So remember the first one I said she doesn't agree.
So she's not interested.
But she does agree.
However, she's doing it with her friends.
Okay, so she's like, Yeah, I love to meet up.
Why don't you come join me in my friends?
Or she says, yeah, let's meet up.
Is it cool if I bring one of my friends?
So if you're trying to hang out with her, and she says yes, but she's including other
people.
This nine times out of 10 mean she's not that interested in you that one exception is maybe
she's still trying to get to know you and doesn't feel comfortable yet.
But that's so so rare.
Most women will feel comfortable.
If they're interested in you.
They'll be like, yeah, they would want the opportunity to be alone with you.
So You guys can connect with each other and maybe even potentially be intimate with each
other.
But if she's saying, Yeah, let's hang out, and she wants to bring a friend or she's inviting
you, maybe she's inviting you, and you're not even the one who's making the move, she's
inviting you to hang out with her friends.
Again, nine times out of 10.
She's not interested.
That one exception there also could be maybe she is being a little bit more proactive but
doesn't want to get rejected so she says yeah, come and she invites you to a party, she could
be interested and then you'll move forward with that and then you'll try to hang out
with her again.
And if after that, she doesn't want to hang out again alone, 100% she's not interested
in you.
So understand that the reason why she's bringing her friends is because she sees you as a cool
guy, but she doesn't want to reject you.
And so therefore, why not just hang out with you and other people.
This is usually a younger woman's move.
This is not really happening I'd say mostly with women who are over 26 or 25 years old.
This is normally just happening with girls who are not really comfortable with rejecting
you yet.
Normally an older woman will just completely reject you and say no or not respond to your
text or something like that.
But just understand if this happens, she's most likely not interested.
This one is painfully obvious but I have to put it in here because I get text messages
from clients all the time who are asking me questions like this.
I have to set the record straight here.
Here's the idea, the idea is you're talking to a girl and you're pursuing her but she
says she has a boyfriend.
However, she's still flirting with you, maybe she's complaining about her boyfriend, maybe
she even says that she's probably going to break up with her boyfriend soon.
Either way, let's just say in this case, she's in a relationship.
Every day that she's in a relationship with anybody, that's not you, she's not interested.
I have two things to say about this one; she's not interested interested because she's with
someone else and maybe she'll cheat, but that would be terrible and you don't want to be
with someone who cheats because if you end up with them, they'll probably cheat on you.
But that's besides the point.
She's not interested because she's with somebody else.
But some guys (here's the second point) some guys will hold on to this.
I have clients who are like well, maybe I should hold on to this because she says she's
going to break up with him soon or the relationship is not going well.
Yada, yada, yada.
Still, if you hang on to this you're going to be in a situation where who knows when
it's going to end.
You're going to be hanging on for so long, which is going to cost you opportunities with
other women.
Or maybe she does end up breaking up with her boyfriend and she goes with you.
You don't want to be with a girl fresh out of a relationship.
She has way too much baggage, way too much drama and still probably has feelings for
the guy even if she's the one who breaks up with him because that's just how this stuff
works.
Ideally you want to be with someone who is not fresh out of a relationship.
I'm talking about six to nine months.
It's okay if they've dated people, but I'm talking about a serious relationship.
If she says she has a boyfriend, it doesn't matter anything else she says, this is black
and white.
If she is in a relationship, she's not interested.
Give up, move on, don't wait for her.
And some guys are like well, I'm just gonna wait a little bit while I still pursue other
women.
This is a bad idea.
You don't want any eggs in that basket because that will prevent you from being with other
women and moving forward.
What are you going to do?
You're going to wait six to nine months to be with this woman?
Just at the hopes that maybe at that point that you'll be single?
No, just move on.
There's plenty of other women out there.
You don't want to hang on to this one.
So in a relationship, boyfriend, disqualified, not interested.
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Leave a comment down below if you've seen any of these signs.
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