[MUSIC PLAYING]
JASHA: Sup, babe?
Hey, honey.
How you doing, baby?
You're home.
Yes.
What's going on?
Hey.
How you doing?
Come here.
I missed you.
Hey, what's up?
You missed me?
Yeah.
I missed you too.
What's going on?
Not much.
How was your date?
Oh, she was cool.
- She's just cool? - She was pretty cool.
I mean, she seemed dope when she walked in.
Yeah.
It was a good date overall, good back and forth,
good conversation.
She's, uh, cool, young--
Nice.
JASHA: --30 year old you know?
She said she has no kids.
She's 30, no kids. JASHA: No kids.
OK.
JASHA: Yeah, no kids.
Oh, we connected.
She's, like, into, like, chakras and all of the stones--
- What? - --and everything like that.
So we talked about that a little bit.
- Get out. - Yeah, yeah.
- Wow. - It was nice.
I'm impressed.
Yeah, it's crazy.
As he dove into what actually happened,
I just felt hot inside, like, [GASPS]
not only is she beautiful, she's compatible with you, no!
[GIGGLES]
She's lived in another country.
- Oh, shoot. - Yeah.
I was like-- - Which country?
She said in Spain.
Or she lived in Spain a little bit.
Can she speak Spanish?
Yeah, she speaks a little bit of Sp--
Did you guys do any Spanish communication on your date?
A little bit.
You know, little-- she speaks a little poquito Spanish.
She speaks a little bit. - OK.
- It was cool. - Muy bien.
Inside, I am literally screaming as he
describes how they had a great date with so many things
in common.
I'm like, this can't be good.
This cannot be good.
But other than that, it was cool, good conversation.
We didn't really get a chance to, like, you know,
go too deep, you know what I'm saying?
It was more, like, just conversation, casual.
It wasn't no boundaries crossed, very, just, you know,
casual, good convers--
No hand kissing?
None of that.
Is she someone that you would consider seeing again?
Maybe. We'll see, maybe.
JOYA: OK, it's a possibility.
I got to think about it.
And so I guess I'll just have to wait to find
out after you think about it.
Yeah, let me think about it, you know,
see what-- what's what.
But, uh--
Hmm, OK.
I'm feeling some type of way about this.
I'm kind of, like, second date, was it really that great?
I don't know.
I'm not quite sure how I feel about this connection
that he made.
Did you drink the rest of that wine?
Who you talking to?
Of course I did. - Yeah.
That's too bad.
- You know me so well. - Yeah.
I love that.
I love you.
[MUSIC PLAYING]
Catherine, I'm home.
CATHERINE: [GIGGLES]
Yeah, you are.
How you doing?
Good, We can go to the couch cause
I want to hear about your date. RICKY: I know you do.
I know you do.
CATHERINE: I just want to know first impressions.
Like, so what did you think when she first arrived?
I was a little nervous about it.
But I thought she was, like, I guess,
a good candidate, if I was single
and trying to find somebody.
Ooh, this is some good competition.
Yeah, it was decent competition.
CATHERINE: OK.
But, you know, I know you, like--
They did it with the red hair, boy.
Yeah, red hair was cool, dread, and everything.
So I thought it was a good fit to try to, like--
for the experience.
But, you know, ain't nobody rocking what you doing.
CATHERINE: Nah.
Yeah, look, let's dissect that a little bit.
What do you mean it was some good competition?
RICKY: If I was single, I ride with you.
Back pedaling.
- [LAUGHS] Whatever you-- - Back pedaling.
[LAUGHS]
Whatever you want to call it.
Well Ricky told me Sheila was good competition,
I laugh because that would be dope for him.
But I don't feel like no woman is my competition when
I know I got something secured.
It's really no competition cause,
you know what I'm saying, I know where I want to be at.
Mm-hmm.
RICKY: That's what I'm saying, it was a good prospect.
I don't think I said that it was good--
I mean, but what made her a great prospect for you?
Cause I didn't feel like y'all had anything in common,
based off my initial impression of her.
She likes the activity stuff.
She's more tomboyish, kind of like you.
She like to have the sweat pants, and the hat,
and just chilling and relaxed.
And she said she really just, like--
OK, I got you.
--dressed up for the date type of thing.
She look like she get out a lot.
Um, I don't--
I didn't-- I don't even know about all of that.
But she was-- she was cool.
So what do you know about her?
I know that-- her age, her name, what she likes to do,
just the simple stuff when trying to get to know somebody
and things of that nature. - Gotchu.
But I thought it was a cool date.
It was cool.
She was cool.
We talked about you, of course.
And what did you talk about when it came to (GIGGLING) me?
I tell her you my rider, you my baby.
You know, she gonna kind of like, yo, so what's the deal?
She got a problem? CATHERINE: [LAUGHS]
And try to figure out all of that.
I'm like--
Still, don't be sharing our business with no stranger.
Hey, man, I was trying to get an insight on our problems.
No, I gotchu.
I'm really here to, like, try to-- you know what I'm saying?
So I kind of like talk--
So what did she say?
The issue that I brought up was more with me
spending the night and, just, like, the whole ordeal
with that situation like that.
What did she say?
Well, she said, um-- she didn't really
have no problem with it.
But then I told her even the spinning the night part
and, like, exactly where we have our issues at, she was like,
yeah, I could see where she's coming from.
And I was like, I see where she coming from too.
I think, too, I would agree that that's probably
the most challenging part-- - Yeah, I underst--
CATHERINE: --of our relationship.
Look, I understand.
I'm working at this relationship, just like you.
I do not want to fail.
OK.
I want to know what I'm doing wrong,
what I'm doing right, whatever may be the case,
and just really try to get understanding,
and try to, like, make it better.
On this first date with Sheila, what I learned was,
just, like, learning to just communicate better.
I think that was the most important thing.
Besides actually trying to get to know her,
you know what I'm saying, I'm Also asking for advice.
So I did feel like I got a little input and more
understanding on how Catherine felt.
With the date, what I learned is I do really care about you.
I'm just trying to do a date, a correct date.
And I just did the best I could to just
make it a learning experience, all in all, for real.
I mean, that's all I really want
is for you to just give your best effort, intentionally.
I'm glad you had a great time, baby.
Thank you, baby. Missed you, gimme a kiss.
Gimme a kiss. - No, you didn't miss me.
I did miss you.
No, you didn't.
[LAUGHTER]
All right, shower time.
[LAUGHTER]
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