Guy Habits That Make You Hot [0:00:00]
First up on this list, scratching your balls. Coming in right behind it, picking your nose
and spitting. Gents, if you can’t tell, I’m screwing
with you. None of those made this list because what we’re talking about here are habits
that make you attractive. Gents, we did the hard work. We researched
dozens of women’s magazines. We went over and looked at hundreds of comments over on
Reddit to figure out what are the things that guys do that they don’t even know they’re
doing them, yet women find it incredibly hot. [Music]
Starting our list off and this one was a bit of a surprise to me, wearing a loosened necktie.
You know what I’m talking about. After a hard day’s work, you unbutton that top button,
loosen that necktie a few inches and you continue to wear it because, hey, you don’t have
anywhere else to place it. Here’s the thing. Apparently, this is an
aphrodisiac for women. Seriously, the women are going crazy. Let me just read some of
these comments. “Oh, my God, yes, my guy has to wear a suit and tie to work and as
soon as the day is over, he takes off his jacket, rolls up his shirt sleeves, and loosens
the tie. It’s just so incredibly sexy. I can’t even begin to explain why.”
“My husband works at a bank, so I’m lucky enough to have this problem pretty much every
day.” But, perhaps it’s best summarized by this one, “When I see my man loosening
up his necktie, to me it says, hmm, come [bleeping sound] me.”
Seriously, gents, I can’t read some of these stuff. It’s x-rated. I was blown away just
how much women apparently love this look. Next up on this list, reading. Yeah, who would
have thought? Apparently, women are turned on by an intelligent man. Now, I may have
overstated that because it’s not about being intelligent, it’s about looking intelligent.
It makes sense. A lot of women are attracted to a cerebral man, a man that makes decision
based off of logic, off of facts, off of what he reads and knows. And to further prove the
point, check out the Instagram, Hot Dude Readings. Seriously, if you’re just somewhat decent-looking
and out there reading a book, you got to be careful, there are women out there stalking
you. The next habit that women absolutely love,
a man that’s articulate, well-spoken, a man who can express himself with words. The
reason this is so attractive is because it’s so rare. Seriously, tons of guys out there
don’t know how to express themselves and many of them, because they don’t know how
to engage with other human beings. Others, yeah, their vocabulary just is not
that wide and still, others, they rely on crutch words and they really mess things up
and they just haven’t practiced enough to be good at it.
And one of the quickest easiest most natural ways to improve your vocabulary is to read
more books. Seriously, a single book can introduce you to dozens of new words which you pick
up easily because you’re reading them in a sentence and you’re seeing how they’re
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Women love seeing a man fixing things, getting things done, being a handyman around the house.
Please note, the key is to actually do something. Just walking around with a chainsaw isn’t
going to cut it. And in fact, randomly walking around with one of these in the middle of
the night actually scares people. But, seriously, women were saying things like
this again and again, “I was watching my special man friend shovel in the backyard
this weekend and he just crouched over and handled the earth and the side of that dirt
crumbling through his strong, yet, gentle fingers, got me all kinds of heated in the
most primal way. Someone who isn’t afraid to get manual, get dirty, and actually connect
with nature on some level is so unbelievably hot.”
And two bonuses with this one. It develops rougher hands, women absolutely love them.
And you get to roll up your sleeves. Women love the look of a long sleeve shirt rolled
up showing off the forearms. [0:05:02]
With that being said, women love a man who washes his hands and uses a nailbrush. Seriously,
guys, clean your nails. This is something that again and again women talked about. They
do not like to see nasty dirty nails. So, file, cut your nails, and wash your hands.
Now, this one you can argue is related to an earlier point, but the thinking stare.
You know what I’m talking about. You’re there reading and literally you are in thought.
Apparently, women love this look. It just turns them on when they see a man concentrating.
And it doesn’t have to be with just books, you can just sit in there thinking. You can
be – your mind can be elsewhere and that’s what they love. Again, women just love a man
who is intelligent, who is using his mind. Next up on the list, good manners. And the
one I saw that really kind of encapsulated this is when women said, “You know what?
I love it when I see a man being nice to people that he doesn’t have to be nice to. He’s
not trying to impress anyone. He’s going out of his way and it’s not because he has
an audience. In fact, he didn’t even know I was seeing him do this and this guy is nice
to people. I find that so hot.” Women would say this again and again. So,
guys, it does pay to be a nice guy. Now, this next one applies only if you know
her and if you’re on intimate terms. And that is coming up behind her and putting your
arms around her. Women absolutely love it when they’re in a relationship with a man
and he puts his hands around them. Guys, let me ask you. Are you married fifteen,
twenty years, when was the last time you did this with your wife? You did this with your
girlfriend? Women love it when you put that hand on the small of their back and when you
are being protective. And so many guys I read about how women love
this when they’re walking, guess what? He’s on the outside protecting from whatever may
be out there on the street, somebody whistle, catcalling, somebody just driving by and splashing
mud. It’s not something anyone else notices, but they notice and they appreciate it.
The next habit on this list that women absolutely love seeing a man do, cook. Now, you can argue
that cooking is a skill not a habit, but I do think it’s a habit to actually lend a
hand in the kitchen or to actually jump up and be the one that takes the lead.
This is what this woman said, “We’ve started cooking together and it’s like foreplay.
Grocery shopping is like flirting. The actual meal is like sex. And the memory is porn.
Getting us ready for the next meal we’ll prepare together.”
I don’t know about you guys, but I’ve had a lot of success with cooking leading
to other things. To me, it’s a natural aphrodisiac. Next up on this list, running your fingers
through your hair without thinking about it. Apparently women just draws them in. They
love the look of a man especially if he’s sweating just worked out, putting his hair
back in place. But, again, not thinking about it is key.
Now, this next one popped up again and again and that is you’re the kind of guy that
likes to play with kids, you like to play with animals. When she sees this, yeah, you’re
over at her sister’s place. You two were just been dating for a few weeks, but she
sees the way that her sister’s kids react to you.
All of a sudden, you’re roughhousing you’re playing around, you go out there and you play
with the dogs. She sees a guy that is a keeper, someone that, wow, look at just his paternal
nature, she’s naturally attracted to it. Now, this next habit is easily probably the
most important one on this list and I’m just going to read what this woman wrote here.
I thought she did a great job summarizing. “Just don’t give up on yourself. It’s
hard to love someone who doesn’t love themselves. And confidence and self-assuredness is such
an attractive trait.” Basically, gentlemen, make a habit of loving
yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror. Yeah, I know not all of us are great looking,
some of us need to lose some weight, gain some muscle, maybe we’re a little bit older,
we’ve gone through a little bit of life, life has maybe treated us a little bit rough,
but here’s the thing. If you don’t love yourself, how can somebody else love you?
Seriously, guys, you are worth loving and always know that. Gentlemen, you are worthy
of love and don’t let anyone tell you anything different.
What video to watch next? How about how the top one percent of men think differently?
Seriously, guys, if you feel like you’re in a rut, if you want to learn how to think
differently, you want to check out this video. [0:08:42] End of audio