Hey Guys! Welcome to Mantelligence. As usual, you've got Beardy and Kay here together
with our pal, Larry here.
I recently watched Matthew Hussey's 3 Texts That Make Him Chase You and I couldn't
help but wonder if I was texting women the wrong way.
Oh! I saw that video too! And I couldn't agree more with the questions those women
in the video were asking. One being, why don't men
try anymore, Beardy? Some of them do! That’s why we have people
who watch these videos. True.
So today, fellas, we'll be talking about how to get a girl you like and make her chase
you with your text messages.
You see, there's an art to texting a woman. You don't want to come off as uninteresting
or needy.
And you definitely don't want to make a girl you like go the other way because of
how you're texting her.
These texting rules will make sure you're on top of your game. And they’ll teach you
how to text a girl you like so you can eventually ask
her out on a date. And as a bonus, we're giving away a tip
on how not to text women and make yourself seem so
clingy. Are you ready?
7. Compliment Treatment Hey Kay, have I ever told you how much I love
your singing voice? You’re always the best singer when we go to karaoke.
Awww, Beardy! Really? Well, yeah… But what I just did, guys is
also one of the texting rules on how to get a girl to like
you. Oh... I thought you were really telling me
that you like my voice... I am! I gave you a compliment and I meant
it. Fellas, girls love compliments. But you have
to be creative when you dish ‘em out. Yes. Don't be generic and say something
like "You looked really hot yesterday!" or "You're so
funny!" or "I'm sure you're really smart."
There's nothing wrong with these compliments… but they suggest that you didn't put much
thought into your compliment and make you sound insincere.
Instead of being generic, be more specific and personal. Make her feel unique and recognize
the things that you like about her. Just like the compliment I gave Kay earlier,
I put much thought into it and said something that I
truly meant. Aww, Beardy! You really think I'm a good
singer? Yes, Kay. You are. Be original and flirty, but make sure you
don't sound creepy. Give her a compliment because
you truly mean it and not just because you're trying to score with her.
Wanna find out how to make her chase you more and more? Check out this video we made
talking about just that!
6. Spell it Out Alright, fellas. Here’s a story. I once
went to a party and met some interesting guys. Admittedly, I
got pretty buzzed... And I might have given my number to a couple of them.
I vaguely remember what they looked like, but I’m pretty sure they were both rather
cute. Jeeze, Kay. Playing the field, eh?
Hey! Don’t judge me, that wasn’t my finest moment but I know you’ve done the same thing.
Dating is a numbers game. True.
Anyway, going back to the story. The morning after, I woke up to 2 messages on my phone.
One read "It was kewl 2 meet u". The other read: “Hi, this is John. We met
last night at Sam’s party. I hope you’re having a great morning.”
Who do you think I replied to? Of course I replied to John.
And then I deleted the first message because I don’t want anything to do with… oh hey,
see, I don’t even remember his name. That's
because he didn't leave a good impression on me.
Listen up, fellas: It’s time you learned how to text a girl you like. First, you introduce
yourself, then include some details to make her remember
who you are, all while using correct spelling and grammar.
Shorthand and poor spelling is how middle schoolers text - or people with the reading
level of a middle schooler.
Oh, look who’s taking notes. For more notes like this, check out this amazing
video about how to text a girl you like. Hey, 2.4
million people already did. 5. It’s Not About You
I know, I know. You want her to see how witty, intelligent, or generous you are.
But if all you do is talk, talk, talk about how great you are, she’ll get tired of you
VERY quickly. That’s right. Confidence is good, but arrogance...?
Not so much. So if you want to know how to attract 99.9% of girls, sell yourself less.
Hey Kay, you want to play a game? Umm… Beardy, we're kind of in the middle
of something here. Trust me! It's part of the point that
I'm trying to make. Okay, if you say so.
Okay, let’s play two truths and a lie. I’ll give you three “facts” about me and you
have to figure out which one is a lie!
Alright. Okay. I'm the top salesman here at Mantelligence,
I frequently donate to charity, And I'm the
best cook in my family... Which one’s a lie?
Beardy… Those are all lies. You’ve never sold a product in your life, you’re too
broke to donate anything but clothes to the thrift store,
and you’re a TERRIBLE cook.
Oof… That hurts… But good catch nonetheless! Did you see what I did there though?
Well, for starters, you straight up lied. Precisely! And that’s never a good thing,
fellas. But I went above and beyond with those lies too.
Yeah, you’re right. If a guy I was texting used those exact lines and he was actually
telling the truth about two of them, I’d definitely
be turned off by his arrogance. Right??
So guys, stop talking about yourself so much and get to know her instead. The best texts
to send a girl are questions about her interests
and hobbies. She’ll ask what she wants to know
about you too. Still wondering how to attract 99.9% of girls?
This video has over 4,000 likes already! 4. Have a Purpose
Many guys seem to always know the secret to how to get girls to like you through a text
conversation. And really, the secret is a no-brainer.
The thing is, when it comes to texting a girl you like, you HAVE to bring your A-game. In
other words, you have to make the conversation interesting
and entertaining. I can totally relate to that! There was this
guy that I really liked once. He was really cute, like Zac
Efron cute, and I was SO psyched when he asked for my number.
But... imagine my surprise when he sent me a first text saying "Hey, what's
up?" My response, of course... "Nothing much."
I mean, how do you respond to that? How do you continue a conversation like that? How
did that guy expect me to reply to him?
Should I have responded with a super long message detailing what I'm currently doing?
If you did it to mess with him, hell yeah. 1,000 words would’ve been funny. But I assume
a date never took place after that text?
Oh, Beardy, you know me too well! I wouldn't go out with a guy who couldn't carry a
conversation. And I quickly found out he didn’t know how.
Even if he was Zac Efron cute? Yes, Beardy. Even if he was Zac Efron cute…
Gotcha. That’s a good point too! Even good looks won’t save you from being a boring
dud. You'll need to do better than that to
make a girl crazy for you. Find common ground. We’ve got plenty of
questions to ask a girl over text at Mantelligence.com to get you started.
And always remember this: your texts should have a purpose. If you have nothing to talk
about, then don't text her.
Speaking of having a purpose, where did my phone go? I need to send a text to Andrea.
Oh! You met a girl! Hey, isn't that Larry holding your phone?
Oh, crap… He knows my password... Get back here, you dumb monkey!
Wanna know more tricks to make a girl crazy for you? You'll find more here in this
video.
Hey, if you regularly watch Mantelligence, keep watching.
Because we’ve got 3 more texting rules coming right up, PLUS at the end of this video,
We’re going to show you the most important texting rule that lots of guys make. So stay
tuned. Okay, let’s get back to it!
3. Say My Name Oh, sorry! Giving a girl a 'pet name'
is cute and all, but it sends off the wrong signal to a girl.
It either shows you're moving way too fast or you forgot her name, both of which
you don’t want her thinking.
Oh! I hate pet names. A word of advice, fellas... Don't text me, "Hey Baby!" unless
we're actually dating.
Yeah, or “babe”, “hun”, “sweetie”, “doll”, or literally anything other than
her name. Leave the pet names for when you've developed
a good relationship and have even gone out on an actual date or three.
Hey, speaking of pet names, do you have one for me, Kay?
Yes! It's Beardy. You know… because you know… you have a beard.
Ooh boy... 2. Keep Busy
Before you start thinking about how to text a girl you like, you should pay attention
to how long you should wait in between texts before you
send another message. This is definitely one of the texting rules
you should pay a lot of attention to. See, girls don't want a clingy guy…
and you definitely don't want to look like you've got nothing
else to do all day but wait for her response. Women of great calibre have a lot of things
going on in their lives. And because of this, they
tend to be quite busy and may even take a long time to reply to your texts.
At the same time, you'll want to appear that you're someone who's got his
life in order. So get busy with other things and try not to text
back immediately unless it seems like she’s looking to
start a conversation. But don’t forget to text her back!
If there's anything that we ladies hate, it's a guy that ghosts us. So as a bonus
tip: please, do us a favor and just be honest if you’re not
into us. Speaking of favors, do yourself one by watching
our video on texting rules. Check it out, you'll
find it helpful! 1. Send Dudes
Women want to know what your interests are. We want to see that you're not just a
bum waiting for us to respond to your messages.
So how do you prove you’re not a bum? Include her in your activities, even when she’s
not there!
Do you like to cook? Show her a picture of what you're cooking for dinner. Maybe
even a silly selfie of you testing your creation.
Preferably it's lasagna! Why lasagna?
I don't know. It was the first thing that came to my mind. Gosh, I'm hungry.
Are you into outdoor activities? Send a selfie of you kayaking or rock climbing.
Oh! I like sporty guys. I would definitely want to see what sort of things the guy I
like is into. It shows me that he has hobbies. And EVERY
guy needs hobbies. That’s right. And by sending her these pictures,
fellas, you're letting her know that you want to
include her in those activities in the future. That's how to flirt properly!
Oh, and please, guys... NO NUDE PICS.
And as we promised, here's a really important texting rule you need to know. It's really
no big secret but surprisingly, there are plenty
of guys who fail to follow it. When you're texting a girl you like, you
need to know when to back off. That’s right. Too many texts in too short
a time frame is WAY too clingy. This usually happens
when you let your emotions control you. Yep, we’ve all been there.
Oh yeah, we have. And it’s THE WORST But sadly, it happens sometimes and we end
up scaring off someone we really like. So if you
feel like a girl is pulling away, get yourself busy as quickly as possible and give her some
space. Hit the gym, write everything you want to
say to her on a piece of paper, just do ANYTHING but
send her text after text after text after text.
That’s right. If you get the feeling that the girl you're texting isn't into
you, you’ve gotta back off. Give it some time. If she reaches out to you
a day or two later, great! If not, it’s time to move on.
Do you have any other texting rules that you follow when it comes to texting someone you
like? Share it with us in the comments section!
For more tricks to make her chase you, check out this video.
Thanks for watching!